Live, when a woman clings to contradictions, especially trivial things, then it is very likely that she deliberately did it, and she is just trying to create an excuse to break up.
For example, if you come back a little late, she will ask "Why did you come back so late today, do you not want to pass", or because of a small matter, she would ask "Do you not love me, if you want to break up, just say it".
Why are you looking for a stubble like this? Let me explain to you, that is, she herself wants to break up, so she thinks you want to break up, and the reason she wants to break up is that she doesn't like you anymore, so she thinks you don't like her either.
This seems to be a bit of robber logic, but the truth is true, when she wants to break up, you fart can become the reason for her to break up, because she has long accumulated too much dissatisfaction and resentment against you in her heart, and any little wind and grass can become the fuse for her to break up with you.
Of course, here, you have to pay attention to whether her behavior is not unreasonable, if you do something that makes her angry, then her attitude is normal, but if you have not done anything recently, she suddenly became angry, then you have to pay attention.
For example, if you want to discuss the wedding date with her, or when to meet with her parents about the future, she will show some impatience and avoid discussing these topics with you.
Of course, you should not feel that she is really not interested in these topics, but in essence she has lost interest in your future.
Because she has tacitly accepted that she and you will not have any future, so these plans you are talking about now are reserved for your future girlfriend, she not only does not care, but even when she thinks about this, she will feel very disgusting in her heart.
For example, she may have been clamoring to go to a party with your friends, but now when it comes to this topic, she is afraid to be afraid.
Or maybe she used to check your mobile phone every day, eager to go through all the friends in your mobile phone address book, but now she not only does not check, but even about who you know today, or who you went out to eat with, no interest.
When a girl completely lets go of you, ignores your life, and is too lazy to be jealous, then congratulations, she doesn't care about you anymore.
Boys who have been in love should know that a girl who says she loves you is actually very annoying in life, because they will take care of it a lot.
For example, asking for a ceremonial sense of etiquette on a date, asking you to report the itinerary to her... As long as she feels she can manage everything, she will do everything.
But now? You went out to play without telling her, when you came to apologize to her with a nervous heart, she said "It's okay, I'm not angry, you don't have to report everything to me", or yesterday was your anniversary, you forgot, did not buy gifts, but she in turn comforted you "It's okay, I don't care about this, you don't say I forgot." ”
You know, these were all heinous sins before, but now she feels that it doesn't matter. At this time, you must pay attention, because a person who is very close to you must have a very close emotional connection.
And now that what you do can't affect him anymore, it means that she has seen you as a stranger, and she feels that it doesn't matter, so your relationship will become so easy to get along with.
For example, she will no longer ask you to report your whereabouts every moment, nor will she ask you to accompany him to here, punch in there, and will not ask you to return to you in seconds.
Have work to do today, OK? Leave me alone, you're going to go dark all night today, OK? Don't worry about me. Congratulations, do you feel that she has finally matured, or has been tamed by you and knows to give you space to relax?
Come, let me tell you the truth, she doesn't bother you because she doesn't want you at all, she doesn't need to get any security in you, because she has decided to leave you, so naturally she has to restore herself to an independent state.
So if you encounter these five situations that I mentioned above, then you have to start reflecting, because when she is completely independent, completely unaffected by your actions, and her ego is completely controllable, that is when she returns to absolute rationality again, and this is also the time when she decides to break up with you.
Psychological test: Test the sentence your ex most wants to say to you
1. Do you argue over small things when you're together?
Yes, I often feel tired —2
Rarely quarrel over small things—2
Occasionally, but soon reconciled —3
2. Do you think you are a person who likes to self-reflect and is willing to correct mistakes?
Yes —3
Not —4
3. Will he or she take the initiative to tell you his troubles?
It is often said that -5
Not much to say —4
4. Would you tell your parents about the process of your relationship?
Everything is too big or small, and I often complain to my parents -6
Occasionally they ask and say —5
Hardly to say, nothing to say —5
5. Faced with what you want, how much energy are you willing to put into acquiring it?
Everything follows fate, and it is mine in the end--7
Try hard, maybe you can succeed - 6
Do my best, I want to get --B
6. Did you break up because of a third party?
Yes—A
No —7
7. Did the other party take the initiative to contact you after the breakup?
Yes—D
No—C