There is a kind of concern, which is careful,
I obviously want to talk to you, but I am afraid that I will disturb you,
Can only be a very deliberate greeting "what are you doing"?
There is a kind of cherishing, is busy stealing,
Never forget you at all times, can't control their emotions,
Always tempted to ask you "what are you doing"?
As long as you get back to my message,
I'll get back to you in seconds.
Between the opposite sex,
The same effort will get the same feelings;
Careful pay, can get a response is worth it;
Not all affection in this world is rewarded,
There is equal love without the emotion of giving;
If one party always takes the initiative,
The other side is indifferent,
Then there is no need to persist in this relationship.
So when the opposite sex chats,
You send "what are you doing",
If you receive these three kinds of replies,
Stop fooling yourself.
01. "Busy"
The implication of being busy is: I don't have time to deal with you.
But once or twice in a busy is excusable,
If he's busy every time your message goes,
Just not interested in you, I hope you don't bother again.
Adult rejection has always been euphemistic,
It's just that such a reply will not embarrass you,
Say you're busy,
You can't refuse, and you can know each other.
People who love you message whenever and wherever you want,
He will reply to you the first time he sees it,
Busy, not the reason, but his attitude;
So the guy who always replies to you like this,
Don't expect anything more, it doesn't make sense.
02. "Is there anything wrong?"
You ask with interest, "What are you doing?"
He coldly replied to you "Is there anything wrong?",
moment
It's like a basin of ice water splashed on you,
Keeps you cold from start to finish;
The rest of the words were stuck in the throat,
I can't hold it out.
He's not cold to anyone,
He is alone and cold to you,
Everyone is not clear about each other's thoughts,
Just don't want to respond to you;
Any relationship is afraid of indifference,
Don't abuse yourself again and again.
03. Directly do not return
Not replying to the message is his attitude,
You'll see him give someone else's circle of friends a thumbs up,
Seeing him speak in a group chat,
Just can't see his message back to you;
Your phrase "what are you doing?",
The stone sinks into the sea, and there is no return period.
When you can't wait for his reply, you should understand,
He won't come back, because he doesn't want to pay any attention to you.
Put away the deep righteousness of what you think you are,
For such a person,
Since he doesn't want to be serious, you don't have to be serious;
It is important to remember,
Be yourself, and someone will love you!
In this life, people will meet thousands of people,
Friendship or love,
Please cherish the person who always asks you "what are you doing",
Because it is always concerned, it is always in touch;
But if it is not cherished,
Be sure to stop the loss in time,
Don't linger, don't expect, don't be humble,
Leave time to the right people!