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Brushed to a video, an uncle did not know why crouching on the side of the road crying, a girl passed by when she saw.
After hesitating for a long time, she, with her mother's consent, shoved the lollipop in her hand into her uncle's hand.
Seeing that the other party was stunned, she reached out and patted the uncle's shoulder, like a little adult, looking at the other party with a very firm look.
In fact, they are just strangers who have never known each other. But perhaps because of this action of the girl, you can warm the uncle for a long time.
1. Thank you for your warmth
A friend once said: "True warmth is given by the person who gently comforts you and hugs you when you need it most." ”
For a while, due to the pressure of work, friends were in a state of tension for a long time, but they still made a mess of their work life.
However, no matter how much the people around him comforted him, he still couldn't let himself really relax and face everything.
Until he inadvertently brushed a video, in which a little boy said in a milky voice:
"If you're tired, it's okay to be an adult once in a while." Cry when you want, no one will blame you. After all, you also need to be comforted. ”
At that time, the friend suddenly cried out, as if it was a short video, but it made him vent his emotional wealth for a long time.
Many times, adults are really difficult, they have to take care of their families, but also have to take care of themselves. Responsibility and obligation, overwhelmed them.
But they're not superhuman either, and they also need a hug, someone to comfort them, as they did as they did as children.
2. Just be yourself
A teacher I once knew once said: "In this world, in fact, the most rare thing is that someone affirms you from the heart." ”
Compliments, anyone can. But, for most people, those words against the heart are nothing more than social rhetoric.
However, after what people have given, they must want to be affirmed. Just like when we were kids, we were often praised.
Whether this person is our teacher or classmate, or a colleague leader, or a stranger, as long as there is a sincere affirmation.
As Zhang Shaohan once said in an interview, during her most lonely time, she once met a stranger.
During that time, all the people around her were trying their best to break off her relationship and try to fall into the well, and the stranger said when he passed by:
"I know you, and you sing very well. I know I'm insignificant, but I hope you can stand up and be like the proudest of you in the past. ”
This insignificant sentence in the eyes of others became a 'cardiotonic agent' for Zhang Shaohan at that time.
Later, she was not defeated, but became more and more courageous, and she also had to thank the stranger for his encouragement.
3. You rest assured, I am
Some people say: "The greatest tenderness is actually the company of the people around you, especially when you feel lonely and difficult." ”
When a person is extremely depressed, he may not be happy to communicate with the people around him, but he will certainly not mind having someone to accompany him.
As long as it is a familiar person, even if it is just sitting in a row with yourself. We don't need to have a conversation, it's already very warm.
Because, at that time, people will know that the person next to them just hopes to prove it through their own actions.
In fact, don't be afraid to be alone. Many times in life, you will not be just yourself. At least, I'm with you.
Perhaps, this kind of companionship is only temporary, but some people, being able to accompany you on a journey, is enough to make people grateful.
At least during the saddest period, you are not alone, you will not feel abandoned by the world.
That tenderness, like a small seed, takes root in your heart, and maybe one day in the future, it will become a towering tree.
4. The world is not so bad
In fact, many times, our surroundings are not as bad as we think, even if there are many discordant interludes.
But more people will still be willing to help each other and spend difficult times with strangers.
Gentleness is also a power that can be transmitted. It's tiny, but it's enough to shake people's hearts.
So, don't always think that life is bad, you are good, at least, you are still loved.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.