Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
In fact, blindly pandering is the most incapable of pandering to men's hearts, and will often be looked down upon by men, thinking that you are completely incompatible, and it is a loss to be with you.
Because you often take the initiative to bow your head, suffer all the grievances, and don't think too much, the man will not see your value, think in his heart that you are cheap, and you do not deserve his love.
In the process of getting along with men, we must think of the consequences of excessive pandering, and take the initiative to change, do not wait for being abandoned, unable to recover the position in the other party's heart to realize that they did wrong.
It is wrong to bear to hurt yourself regardless of your own feelings, no matter who you are for, in order to promote what kind of things you can't ignore yourself.
You have to remember: you are willing to lose a lot, let yourself suffer, you can not get love, you can not harvest real love, sooner or later you will be thrown away by the opposite sex.
Be responsible for yourself, respect yourself, take care of your feelings, do not allow anyone to touch your bottom line, do not easily accept the requests of others, and it is easier to attract each other.
This is because the higher you lift yourself, the more likely you are to attract the attention of the opposite sex, to affect the heart of the opposite sex, and two people try to talk about a relationship.
To be able to make yourself different, there are many unique places, and naturally there will be opposite sexes who can't help but approach you, hoping to spark between you.
In front of the other party, it is important to focus on which side, even the key, to determine how he evaluates you, which way to get along with you, and which step he will take.
No matter how much you love men, you can't satisfy them as much as you can, you must remember, don't always be so impulsive, can't control the best things to him.
The opposite sex gets along, learn to reject the man like this, he is conquered by you instead, try it and you will know.
Refuse to be unclear and run directly into the subject
There are some men who take the initiative to lean toward women and say some sweet words, not because they are moved by the truth, but because they are holding the mentality of playing, and they are tired of changing people.
Before he attacked a woman every time, he would first test the woman's thoughts to determine whether the woman wanted to be ambiguous with him, and there was an unclear relationship.
This kind of man will not easily surrender his true heart, and will only love one woman for the rest of his life.
When a man deliberately approaches you, you have to think that he may be such a person, and at the same time understand that getting along with such a person is almost unloved, and if you are serious, you will be scaled all over the body.
Women must know how to protect themselves, no matter who intends to approach you, try to stir your heart, you have to ask him why he is close to you, and find an opportunity to determine whether he is interested in you.
You appear to be a little colder, not a casual woman, you will not be played with by men, but also make men who were originally interested in you like you more.
Refuse to give up your career and become financially independent
Men are frantically pursuing women, or have already confessed success, and two people like to make some promises to women when they are in love.
For example: you are my favorite in this life, I can't live up to you, and for example: you don't have to be so tired, you don't have to work hard to earn money, I am responsible for raising you.
Maybe when women hear these words, they will firmly believe that men will not betray, will not leave, will not say tired, tired, can not live.
In fact, a person may think this way when he says these things to you, but after a while, he may not have this kind of thought in his mind.
Putting all the burden on a person will definitely feel tired, and 80% will complain, saying that the other party has lived too easily and completely forgotten his promises.
Work is a guarantee, don't quit your job because of a few words from anyone, and put all your energy into this person.
You have never given up on work, you will always be respected, you will always receive love, your life will continue to develop in a good direction, you will not have a sense of inferiority.
Refuse excessive companionship and keep appropriate distance
After the opposite sex appears in front of you, no matter how much you like the time he spends with you, you can't be so reluctant.
When two people get along, you have to realize that he is watching your every move, he is trying to grasp your weaknesses, and you will also think that after he sees your thoughts, his attitude may change.
You become enthusiastic, you make sure you like him, and you may not enjoy special treatment.
In fact, everyone is like this, they don't want to have it, they don't cherish it after they have it, and they even feel that what they have paid is not worth it.
If you want to eat a man and make him love you forever, don't let him get you so easily, and properly refuse his requests when interacting with the sexes, and also keep a proper distance.
You have to remember: the harder it is for men to get you, the more they feel that you are precious, and the more they regard you as a treasure, the more they will continue to give.
Emotional Message:
Before you plan to conquer a man, you have to test how he feels about you, whether you think you are a good person and have a good feeling, or whether you are disgusted at first sight and do not want to intersect.
It is the former, by using some method, he will be conquered by you; it is the latter, you should give up on your own initiative, because he repels you in his heart and does not want you to appear.
It is okay to make sure that the man's impression of you is OK, and when you get along, you must master a good degree, do not affect your own development, and do not let the other party feel that you are cheap.
When you refuse, you must resolutely refuse, don't think it's okay, it doesn't matter if you agree.
You can't forget that once there is no bottom line, you will be led by men, and you will never be loved by men and protected by men.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.