Love is a seed.
Only the watering of fate is needed to usher in the opportunity to germinate.
In the age of love, if you meet someone.
Even if two people do not say a word, they can rub out the spark of love at the moment of looking at each other.
When the seed of the bottom of the heart, get the opportunity to grow, a love of love, will be in love, close to each other, so that both men and women involuntarily close together, can not help but release the signal of love.
Fate makes it easy for a person to become brave.
When meeting a girl he likes, the man will go from grinning a big grin to a warm and considerate person. And the reserved woman will also have the courage of a moth to put out the fire after the heartbeat.
Of course, if you want to achieve love, courage alone is not enough.
If you want to become the lucky person in love, you also need to grasp the details of getting along, master the skills of love, and successfully grasp the direction of fate in a targeted manner.
01
If you don't pay, how can you get something in return?
Old people often say:
Love and hate all have causes.
Meeting people is only the first step in love.
Even if both parties have the will to fall in love, if they do not express it, the feelings of the two people will only stand still. Of course, there is also a possibility that both sides, gradually losing the patience of waiting, choose to withdraw from this fate.
In this world, there are too many fates and no parts.
With love, but dare not confess, it is easy to usher in the result of shallow love.
Everyone should know that when two people meet, they cannot do without the support of fate.
Once there is an opportunity to meet, and both parties have the desire to continue to get along, in the next time, whether the fate can get the opportunity to sublimate, it is necessary for two people to pay for love.
Paying for love is the cause, and reaping love is the effect.
If you don't have such awareness, just waiting for the fulfillment of fate, it is very likely that you will watch love slip away.
02
Love you, will cater to you.
Reciprocity is the premise of love.
In the world of emotion, there is no distinction between high and low and noble.
Only with such a mentality can the two sides get along comfortably, produce a feeling of affection, and then produce more collisions of thoughts and achieve emotional sublimation.
However, where fate begins, someone has to take the first step.
How did two people go from strangers to acquaintances?
Usually, there must always be a person who takes the initiative to release the signal of communication and is willing to pay for each other's fate. Only in this way can the fate of each other be established.
The establishment of love needs to be catered to. And the pandering itself is the performance of giving.
In everyone's cognition, boys meet the women they like, they will try to understand each other, and use the way they like to gradually enter the depths of the girls' hearts and win the hearts of women.
In fact, when you meet someone you like, why aren't girls like this? They will also send signals, and they will also make some pandering behaviors to each other, in order to fulfill the love they want.
03
Find topics that boys like.
Everyone has preferences.
As you grow, you will also have topics and areas of interest to you.
But love will make many people give up their personal preferences and choose to fulfill the person they love.
In a relationship, girls often have a spirit of sacrifice.
If she is in love with a man, she will not only try to understand each other, but also in the process of communication, she will do what she likes, for example: catering to topics that boys like, which is what girls often do.
Even girls lack understanding of a certain field.
If she loves this boy deeply, she will also be patient and familiar with this field.
This process may be a very difficult thing, but under the supervision of love, girls will choose to stick to it. Because of love, people become persistent and strong.
Only because the love is deep, so girls will accept everything about boys, hoping to have more common topics with each other. In this way, the love of two people is fulfilled.
04
Change yourself for the sake of the other person.
What does it feel like to fall in love with someone?
In the face of the object of his liking, the boy will restrain himself and strive to show the gentleman's side.
In fact, after meeting the man who is in love, girls will also change for love.
There is an old saying that goes:
Women are pleasing to themselves.
From this, we can feel the state of the girl after falling in love with the boy.
They often change themselves from the appearance, hoping to enhance their personal appearance and achieve the purpose of pleasing each other, so as to become the object worthy of attention and favor in the minds of men.
Of course, there are also some girls who will try to ask the boys: "What kind of girls do you like?" ”
After getting the answer, the girl will use this as a standard to further change and improve herself. After the heartbeat, girls tend to become humble, they hope to change, and look forward to one day being worthy of the boy they love.
If you meet such a woman, are you willing to disappoint her?
05
Unconditional support for boys.
There is no denying that everyone has a self-interested side.
But love can easily change a person.
Before encountering fate, many girls are immersed in their own fields and enjoy the state of life of a person.
And when they meet a guy they like, it's easy for them to shift their focus to each other. Especially after the relationship is determined, the girls often rotate around the boys, and the joys and sorrows will be related to each other.
Is there such a girl around you?
On weekdays, she likes to stick to you.
When you need her support, this girl will stand behind you unconditionally.
Because they love you deeply and hope to interact with you, girls will give up their judgment and interests and choose to become the supporters behind boys.
If you meet such a woman, please believe in her sincerity. Because she likes you from the bottom of her heart, she will do these behaviors that she likes, hoping that you can recognize her, accept her, and guard her for the rest of your long life.
Beautiful love makes people yearn.
Even girls want to catch lucky feelings.
From the perspective of personality, they are often subtle and reserved, even if the heart is full of love, it will not be expressed directly, but will use a cryptic way to convey their thoughts.
For the sake of love, girls will change themselves.
But men need to understand that it takes too much courage to really change themselves.
Girls like you, will try to "cater" to you, how many people do not understand. If you have a girl who admires you and is willing to fulfill you, you must not fail each other.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.