Text/Wei Chen
"One Hundred Years of Solitude" wrote: "All the brilliance that has ever existed in life needs to be repaid with loneliness after all." ”
Life has long marked the price for everyone's experience, and if you enjoy it, you have to exchange it equally.
People's life is only a process, in this process is happy or sad, happy or tortured, depends on the person's cognition.
Some people may say, "Other people's luck is good, my luck is bad, this society is unfair", but the person who said this, have you ever wondered why your luck is so bad.
We don't believe in fate, we only believe in cause and effect. The more a person understands, the more skillfully he can avoid the disasters in life, which is experience.
There are many truths in life that need to be understood early, especially the following 5 truths, and those who can understand two are blessed.
Families have difficult scriptures, and there is no need to envy others
A poem reads: "You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, the people who watch the scenery look at you upstairs, the bright moon decorates your windows, you decorate the dreams of others." ”
Life is really hard, no one lives easily, and we are all unattainable landscapes in the eyes of others.
When you focus all your attention on others, you ignore yourself. But life is our own after all, and we shouldn't be distracted too much.
You know, every family has a difficult scripture. No one is willing to easily show their wretchedness in front of people, and those who look bright and beautiful will cry bitterly in the corners that others can't see.
Everyone is pretending to be strong, so we don't have to envy others.
The things that the world has are never the same, don't always feel good about others. Many precious things are only known after they are lost.
Guarding the present moment is one's wisdom.
No one really cares about you, don't overestimate yourself
Tell a heartfelt truth: No one in this world really cares about you.
Human nature is complex, no one knows what is going on in the other's heart; human nature is selfish, and the starting point of every thought is oneself.
Even between parents and children, this situation cannot be avoided.
Some people may retort that my parents are the best people in the world for me.
But you can think again about it, is their so-called "good" really completely on your side?
No one in this world knows more about yourself than you do, what you want, what you want to do, and who you want to be, who you want to be, can only depend on yourself. And the resulting series of problems can only be borne by themselves.
As an adult, you must be sober enough not to overestimate your weight in the hearts of others.
When people become adults, they must understand that they care about themselves and do not have to care too much about the eyes of others.
There is no feast that does not go out, and the encounter will always be separated
How many friends will disperse as they walk, how many feelings will fade away, and people will eventually be separated from each other, this is a reality that no one can reverse.
We will meet many people in this lifetime, walking with all kinds of people, meeting and then separating are all arranged by Heaven.
Feng Menglong wrote in the "Yu Shi Ming Yan": "There is no feast in the world, and it will be closed for a thousand years, and there must be a separate day." ”
All reunions in this world are relative, and in the end, they cannot escape separation.
Life cannot be the same as the first sight, and beauty is never only in a moment.
Acquaintance is the cause, and separation is also the cause. To be a human being, you must accept the arrangement of fate calmly.
Be strong in the face of separation, and accept the final goodbye, so as not to live up to the encounter.
The days of lack of money are difficult, and there must be surplus grain in hand
Zhang Ailing said: "Middle-aged men often feel lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there are no people he can rely on." ”
Money is something outside the body. But after people reach middle age, it is particularly important, after all, life depends on the economy to support. Lack of money can make it difficult to move.
A person who has no money on him will have no bottom in the crowd.
"Zeng Guangxian Wen" wrote: "The poor are no one to ask in the downtown, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, do not believe but look at the wine in the banquet, and the cup first respects the rich and noble." ”
In interpersonal communication, money is particularly important regardless of the relationship. People who don't have money will unconsciously lose their dignity, and even the people closest to you may look down on you.
People should not be too naïve in middle age, the days of lack of money are really difficult to survive, no matter what, we must keep surplus grain in our hands, so that we can live calmly and not be in a hurry.
There are too many impermanent things in life, cherish the present time
Life is not easy, everyone is tired of running, the reason why we do our best is to make our lives more beautiful.
While you are working hard, don't forget to take time to stop and spend time with your family.
There is never a long time between people, and you can never predict which "goodbye" is the final goodbye.
The poet Kitajima once said: "When people are, they always think that there is an opportunity, but in fact, life is subtraction, and when you see one side, you have one less side." ”
There are too many impermanent things in this life, almost all farewells are hasty, we have no way to predict life and death, let alone the ability to change fate.
Don't always feel that the years are long, time is cruel, life is vulnerable, cherish the current time, don't leave regrets for the rest of your life.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.