There must be lies in marriage, and those sweet words, as well as some small deceptions from time to time, have finally achieved a good relationship.
In fact, women are more willing to listen to those sweet lies in marriage, such as that time passes but you never get old. Women are also more willing to add color to marriages with some innocuous lies. However, these kinds of lies, the woman says once, the marriage may end!
First, the lie of the body
Men can really let go of everything before marriage, but it is difficult to tolerate betrayal after marriage. Marriages are never perfect, and many times, perhaps for various reasons, a woman marries the person she loves most. But the most important thing in marriage is not love, but responsibility.
Choose a person, or accompany him all the way, or leave completely, and the marriage must not be ambiguous. A lot of women don't understand this.
Extramarital affairs are dangerous, but women will always be naïve in the face of feelings, choose to cater to the feelings that have no destination, but forget, a body, a heart, how can it really withstand the love of two people?
Second, the lie of money
Many traditional families still maintain the basic family framework outside the male and female protagonists. So many times, although it is men who make money, it is women who dominate the money.
But just like a man should talk to his wife on a business trip, the wife is responsible for housework, chai rice oil and salt, these trivial uses, because of the trust between husband and wife, most of them will not keep accounts, but this does not mean that the wife can dispose of these funds at will.
Financial deception can corrupt trust, so china has the saying that brothers and sisters must settle accounts, and this is also the case for couples.
Third, if there is an afterlife
If there is an afterlife, we will still be together. I put this lie at the end, because it is probably the way countless marriages end. There are many ways marriages end, but I don't want to bring up the lies in marriage, people only think of cheating and betrayal.
Some lies are because of love. I remember the year of the Wenchuan earthquake, from the mobile phones in those ruins, I saw many lies, some of which were the last romance of life.
If there is an afterlife, this is a lie after reading a book, and the name of the book is unfinished life. We never know what love should look like, we all know there will be no future life, so the next life is the biggest lie in marriage, and perhaps the last lie.
Sometimes, the original purpose of deception is because you want to protect. In marriage, however, some of the initial reasons for cheating are to cover up, because the harm has already been done. Once recognized, the marriage is likely to end.
But I hope that all marriages can have a lie if there is a future life, marriage is destined to come to an end, but the end should not be scarred.