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Any feeling, in fact, can be felt through the details of life.
Whether you love or not, it is obvious that the little things of life can reflect a person's heart. Good love is embodied in the trivialities of life, and neither does love.
Whether a relationship is good or bad depends more on the state of two people getting along. What can really test feelings is more of a small thing in life.
Sanmao once said that good love should be implemented in the small things of eating, sleeping, and counting money. Therefore, the quality of a relationship is enough to see these three points.
Can you talk together?
Truly long-lasting feelings and relationships can stand the test of time, no matter how long together, they will not feel annoyed.
Two people together, it's important to talk, which directly determines how long you can go. If two people can't talk together together, they can't communicate, understand and empathize with each other.
Those feelings that can stand the test of time are all in harmony with each other, have common topics, and can communicate with each other without obstacles.
If you get along with a person, the other person does not feel the point in what you say, which is also a mutual torture.
People who are not a world, who cannot be together at all, who love each other need to express, who can talk together, and who can also listen to your nonsense are rare.
Good feelings, that is, to chat with each other to feel comfortable, to talk about any topic of interest to each other, but also to continue, such feelings will naturally go on for a long time.
Can you eat together
It is said that long-term feelings are actually eating together countless times.
Good feelings start from the dinner table, if two people can't eat together, they will naturally be calculated because of various small things, and eventually the feelings will end.
Eating together is important, and it determines your later life status.
For two suitable people, it is not necessary to have the same taste, but more is willing to tolerate and accommodate, and is willing to try and change for each other.
Good love is to integrate love into three meals a day.
The feelings that can really stand the test are naturally able to accompany each other to eat many times, willing to cook for each other, and according to the taste of the other party.
Therefore, good feelings have always been in a dish and a vegetable, in chai rice oil and salt.
Can you sleep together?
When two people get along together, their future lives must be to sleep together. And everyone's lifestyle and preferences are different, which will create many people who can't adapt and accommodate.
Just like the more sensitive people, they can't stand snoring all day; people who like to sleep with each other in their arms can't stand to sleep with each other.
Many times, from some details of life, you can see whether each other is suitable. Feelings are not only the bed, but also love, how two people sleep together how to love.
Maybe both people will have a little bit of their own habits, but they are more tolerant of the people they love.
In fact, for a long time in a relationship, sleeping together is a kind of test, more to see each other's attitude towards each other.
Sleeping together, there will also be communication, thoughtfulness, and care. Just look at how a person treats you, how he loves you.
The more long-lasting the relationship, the other party can take into account each other's feelings, take care of each other's situation, and will not blindly follow their own wishes.
summary:
Feelings are never a one-man one-man show, and what is needed is the operation and maintenance of both sides. Long-term love is to work each other, not to pay alone.
Therefore, the two people who can really stand the test of time are more people who are willing to make changes for each other, and people who can fit in these three aspects.