See a topic online: Will marriage change because of its changing looks?
This topic has aroused heated discussion among netizens, summarizing the comments of the following netizens, which is roughly divided into two views.
The first party's view is that it will change, because now is an era of looking at faces, so two people who love each other will also be disgusted because of each other's out-of-shape and ugly appearance.
The second-party view is that it will not change, because the essence of love is spiritual resonance, and has little to do with looks and body.
For these two views, about two-thirds of netizens support the first party, which shows that appearance is very important in marriage.
Some people say that a woman's good appearance is the preservative of marriage, which is true, but in a true love, appearance is not a decisive factor, because for two people who love each other, spiritual interaction and communication are more critical.
However, we can't ignore our appearance, after all, the love of beauty, everyone has it, especially for visual animals such as men, beauty is indeed the first element that attracts them.
Just like a friend I know, when she and her husband fell in love, it was her husband who actively pursued her, and the relationship between the two was particularly good after marriage.
Later, after she became pregnant and gave birth to a child, she voluntarily resigned and went home to take care of the elderly and children.
She originally couldn't do anything at home before marriage, but she slowly learned to stir-fry, cook, cook soup, deal with ordinary diseases and so on.
In order to let her husband work outside with peace of mind, she handled everything in the family properly, the children were well taken care of, and the in-laws were also very considerate.
However, when her child was in kindergarten, she found out that her husband had cheated on her.
She cried and asked her husband why he would do such a thing if he had paid so much for this family.
As a result, her husband said to her: "Look in the mirror yourself and see what you look like now, with freckles on your face and a waist as thick as a bucket, what man would like such a woman?" ”
I have to say that this is the reality, men are easy to fade their feelings because of the lack of freshness to women, and many men in life will mostly find some young and beautiful women, the reason is that beautiful women can give men a fresh and strong sense of impact visually.
Therefore, women must take their appearance seriously, if you can always maintain a beautiful and bright appearance in your married life, you can keep your marriage fresh forever.
So, how should women maintain good looks? Do the following three aspects to keep your marriage fresh.
01
Don't blindly pursue popularity, choose a dress that suits you.
Some women always like to pursue popularity, and when they see that the celebrities on TV are wearing very bright styles, they will blindly imitate the celebrities' dress.
However, often after their own dressing, they seem to be a little unusual, and even sometimes they look very rustic, and they can't wear the aura of the star at all, but let others laugh and ridicule.
In fact, the beautiful costumes of celebrities are because they have their own stylists, makeup artists, lighting engineers and other various creations, which will have later visual effects, which is not suitable for us ordinary people.
Therefore, we must not blindly follow the trend, but choose the style that suits you to dress up, so that you will look more eye-catching.
02
No matter how old you are, don't forget to stick to your skincare.
Skin care is a woman's lifelong career, only if you insist on skin care, you can confidently show people with a plain face.
In life, many women often shine under heavy makeup, but when they return home to remove their makeup, they will make people stunned, dark circles, crow's feet, freckles are in full view.
Therefore, we can not only pay attention to makeup skills, but also insist on maintaining the skin, so that even if you go home to remove makeup, you are still a beautiful and beautiful little cute in front of your husband.
03
Listen carefully to some of the suggestions that others have pointed out to you.
Some women are particularly confident in their own dress, and feel that as long as they like it is the best, but many times often the dress we like is not necessarily suitable for themselves.
For example, I know that my thighs are relatively fat, but I like to wear tight short skirts, and expose all my body shortcomings, without any beauty.
At this time, we should listen to the suggestions of others and choose some outfits that suit our own style, so as to make up for our shortcomings.
Marriage is to continue to operate in order to preserve freshness, but management is not only emotional management, but also to manage yourself, including your image and dress, only to do both inside and outside, in order to let yourself always have the preservative of marriage.