A trip to this world, the original ideal, we often long for a success.
When we are teenagers, in our eyes, we often think that success is to change the world, and to have a special and remarkable achievement.
The more we grow up, the more we will find that if we want to change the world, it is never as simple as we think, but it is very difficult, and we are not as powerful and different as we imagined.
Of course, we don't have to feel depressed and start indulging in our lives.
Success doesn't have to be a grand goal, it can be a relatively small achievement.
Sometimes, being able to live in peace, being able to support yourself, and not adding chaos to others, is not a success.
On this basis, if you can have a healthy body, a good marriage, a good career, it will be even more remarkable, already a very successful.
Life and body are always first.
In this life, chasing fame and fortune, there is nothing wrong with that, but it should not be at the expense of your own health.
By hurting our own bodies, in exchange for some possessions, even if it looks quite good, in fact, one day, we will also pay a heavy price because of our own overdraft.
No matter when, no matter what, we should not sacrifice our health in exchange.
Even if we can exchange it for a while, when one day we lose our health and consume our lives, everything we have bought will only become meaningless to us.
With life and a healthy body, we can enjoy all the beauty, otherwise, all of it, it will only be lost to us, and after that, we will not be able to take care of anything else, it will only be very hopeless.
In life, we will all have very young moments, and we will all gradually grow old.
In this process, taking care of our own bodies and keeping our bodies from any big problems is really meaningful, and it will also allow us to live a more decent life and have more possibilities.
With a healthy body, we are never nothing, because just like that, we are already more fortunate than too many people, and we already have a high value, which is very remarkable.
Happy marriage, very solid heart.
Everyone is an independent individual, but they also long for a warmth, eager to have a good family.
No matter how successful we are, if the marriage is just a mess and there is no warmth to speak of, we will not actually feel how happy and how reassuring we are, but we will always feel very upset, quite uninteresting.
If there is no one to share success, it will eventually appear to be missing, and we will eventually feel a little lonely and empty.
When we compare our own well-being, and have a good partner, someone to share all the things with us, to face together, no matter what happens, it will be really touching.
Because there is such a person, there is such a place, a huge world, we really feel that we are not just wandering, but there is a small world that really belongs to us, there is such a person, who has been waiting for ourselves there.
There is such a person, cherish each other, cherish each other, work together, then it will really be better than many things.
A good relationship, that gives us not only a sense of belonging, but also makes us more powerful, able to bravely face a lot of things, can always be very secure.
Life is never easy, a good feeling, but can always give us a good cure, let us feel that life is not so bitter.
Good career, a sense of accomplishment.
Why chase a career, on the one hand, it's certainly for the money.
Living in the current world, without money, there is no way to live a life, everything will only be difficult.
Of course, it is not just for money, but more for a sense of accomplishment, a sense of fulfillment.
Since you have come to this world and don't do something, of course it is unrealistic, lying flat every day, it will really seem very boring, to some extent, career can fill our hearts, can let us find the value of life.
Speaking of careers, it doesn't have to be great, it can also be just a relatively small career, like a good personal development, like having a small company, everything is steadily rising, getting better and better.
It would be really bad to be able to have a successful career, to be able to support yourself, to take care of the people around you, and to be able to experience a joy from it.
Life seems to be short, in fact, it is still quite long, there will be decades, in this long life, we have every time to do something seriously, to put our ideas into practice, to make everything what we want.
The best thing is that not only in a certain period of time, they are relatively successful, their achievements can continue forever, their careers can always be evergreen, and they can always have a place in their own field.
The standard of a successful person is to be healthy and healthy, to have good feelings, and to be satisfied with their careers.
Take care of your body, let yourself not be a burden to anyone, and be able to age gracefully.
Run a relationship well, so that you will not always be alone, and you will always be able to return to your heart.
To create and maintain a career, do not ask how many people know themselves, at least they will feel proud of it.
In such a lifetime, we may feel that it is still not as good as too many people, but in fact, this is already very difficult, and it is already worthy of envy.
A successful life never lies in how many people are better, but in feeling happy.
If you feel good, it is more important than anything else.
Text/Tan Meng
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