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Yan Xiaobai is 41 years old this year, and she and Liu Bo have been married for two years. Two months ago, Yan Xiaobai found out that she was pregnant, she was surprised and happy, but her husband's attitude made it difficult for her to accept. Yan Xiaobai said that after Liu Bo learned that he was pregnant, he did not care in the slightest, but just changed his method to argue with her, and then moved out.
In the face of this situation, Yan Xiaobai has no bottom in his heart, 40-year-old children are high risks, does the husband want to provoke children? In order to make her husband take a stand, Yan Xiaobai even said that he would immediately undergo abortion surgery. Liu Bo came with the dust and servants.
It is not easy for 41-year-old Yan Xiaobai to conceive this child, she is not willing to lose this child, and even willing to give birth to this child at all costs, to the step of abortion, it is forced by her husband.
Since Yan Xiaobai found out that she was pregnant, her husband not only did not become considerate, but instead adopted a cold and violent way, and there were various provocations in life. She felt that her husband's move was nothing more than a deliberate attempt to provoke contradictions between husband and wife, with the purpose of forcing herself to give up the child.
In Liu Bo's view, there is actually no contradiction between husband and wife, usually they earn money to support their families, work is busy, and their concern for their wives is less, but the wife magnifies small things, unreasonable trouble, too pretentious, and now he still holds the child to threaten, which is difficult for him to accept. He said bluntly that he never wanted to give up on the child.
Liu Bo and Yan Xiaobai are a remarried couple who have been married for just one year. The two-month fetus is the third child of the two. The first two fetuses were accidentally miscarried, causing no small amount of harm to the two people. Having a common child is a consensus reached by the two for a long time.
But Yan Xiaobai said that her husband never really wanted to keep the child. Yan Xiaobai questioned Liu Bo sentence by sentence, and Liu Bo was always unwilling to answer positively whether the child was going to stay or not. Yan Xiaobai felt that having a child was just wishful thinking on his own.
Friends revealed that Yan Xiaobai wants to give birth to a child, is to hope that the child will become a bond between the two, can make the feelings between the husband and wife more deep, because Yan Xiaobai observed her husband through the number of exercise steps, etc., found that Liu Bo repeatedly did not go home on the grounds of overtime, and once was unfaithful to feelings.
Liu Bo listened to the shouts of injustice, and he really couldn't stand his wife's suspiciousness. Yan Xiaobai proposed that he wanted to go to the place where her husband currently lived. Liu Bo pushed three blocks and four blocks, twisting and pinching. Yan Xiaobai felt that her husband's reaction must be problematic.
In 2019, Yan Xiaobai accidentally had a car accident, seriously injured her leg, and no one around to take care of her, which made her have the idea of remarrying, when he met Liu Bo through the Internet, Liu Bo was running a luxury store in the city center. Liu Bo's good conversation deeply attracted Yan Xiaobai, and the two soon came together.
In order to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, the two wrote a letter of guarantee many times, the content of which was fine to who cooked and who washed the dishes. Liu Bo felt that Yan Xiaobai was sensitive and loved to make trouble. Yan Xiaobai felt that Liu Bo did not care about herself and the children in her belly, she was obviously absent-minded, she felt that her husband's behavior during this time was abnormal, there must be a problem, and later she found that her husband's WeChat movement had a clue.
After two years of research, if the husband goes out to work without special circumstances, the number of exercise steps will remain at about 3,000. But last night Liu Bo said that she was working overtime, but from yesterday to now, the number of steps has stayed in the way it was before, there is no change, and she concludes that her husband has deceived herself.
Yan Xiaobai found a large number of feminine products in the room where Liu Bo lived. And a bouquet of roses, which made her fry the pan instantly. Is Liu Bo, who has been away from home for a week, really have a home outside his home?
Liu Bo explained that he temporarily lived in his cousin's house, and the feminine products in the family were his cousin's girlfriend's and had nothing to do with him. But Yan Xiaobai couldn't listen to any explanation.
The reporter did find other men's clothes, shoes, etc. in the room, so it seems that Liu Bo did live in his cousin's house.
When Liu Bo and Yan Xiaobai interacted, Liu Bo also went on a blind date as a single and pursued other women, and Liu Bo's half-heartedness buried hidden dangers for this marriage.
Just when Yan Xiaobai decided to break off contact with Liu Bo, he found out that he was pregnant. For the sake of the children, the two hurriedly obtained a marriage license. Liu Bo also wrote down a promise to always be loyal to Yan Xiaobai.
One has no bride price, two does not have a wedding ring, and three does not have wedding photos, which is the biggest compromise for Yan Xiaobai, who pursues a sense of ceremony.
Yan Xiaobai's previous marriage ended in a hurry because her ex-husband betrayed the family, so the only bottom line in dealing with the marriage with Liu Bo was that he could not change his heart.
Yan Xiaobai feels that in the marriage with Liu Bo, he has paid a lot, risking the risk of giving birth at an advanced age, and the last pregnancy is also for the two to have a happy tomorrow, but the husband cannot regard himself as the most important person.
Before marriage, Liu Bo ran a luxury store, after marriage, he resold the luxury store, experienced entrepreneurial failure, at this time, he, no house, no car, no deposit, Yan Xiaobai has never abandoned half a point, in her cognition, she can not want anything, only Liu Bo's sincerity.
The married life she envisions is someone to leave you a meal when you work overtime. When you are sad, someone gives you a shoulder, when you are sick, someone is busy for you, and when you encounter any big wind and waves, you can not abandon each other and support each other.
However, in Liu Bo's view, only when the two are not worried about their livelihood can they sit down calmly and talk about their feelings, which is real life. The two have serious differences.
If it is usually as noisy as this, Yan Xiaobai can not rest assured that he can raise a fetus, and he cannot solve the problem at all, and the child has become a hot potato at this time.
She didn't really want to beat the fetus in her belly, but Liu Bo didn't think too much about it, so she agreed, she was discouraged, and sat on the side and cried.
From beginning to end, in Liu Bo's view, giving birth to a child is a process that every woman will go through, he does not know how to experience the hardships of pregnancy in October, and always feels that Yan Xiaobai uses the excuse of pregnancy to make noise is pretentious.
Yan Xiaobai always wanted to prove that she was right, Liu Bo just did it wrong, the two sides could not argue so naturally, and did not realize the problems on their own.
Eventually, both parties decided to go to the hospital to stop the pregnancy. Liu Bo said that he would accompany Yan Xiaobai until she recovered physically, and then went through divorce.
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