Did your grandparents and grandparents, who loved you grow up, participate in it? Whenever you make a mistake, the elders are your shelter, and they will give you whatever you want, as if you want the moon in the sky, they are willing to find a way to pick it for you, sometimes we call this "generational relatives". But this kind of love must also have a degree, if it is not mastered well, it will become coddling, which will affect the child's personality, and ultimately harm its own children. If the degree of love is mastered well, the child will be very happy to grow up in this environment of love and care, and it is also very beneficial for cultivating the child's confident and sunny personality.
If you love your grandparents and grandparents who participate in your growth, and their company brings you warmth and security, then even if you are in a foreign country when you grow up, you will still miss them and will still taste the joy of childhood.
Recently, there is a superhuman grandfather in Weifang, Shandong, 59 years old to climb trees is still fast, why climb trees? Because the kite of the 8-year-old grandson was stuck in a tree.
As soon as we were old enough to climb trees, we were all worried when we saw it
The thing is this, according to the child's grandmother Ms. Xing feedback, the child was playing with kites that day, but the wind was very strong and blew the kite to a big tree, the child's grandfather used a bamboo pole to reach the kite but how to reach it, she said that she climbed up without paying attention to her wife, when she looked below, she felt very dangerous, although when he was young, he often climbed trees, but now his wife is still very worried when he is older.
How to say it? Although the old man climbed the tree when he was young, but now the child's grandfather is 59 years old, we can't say that he is old and strong, this behavior is very dangerous, some netizens said that this child is also too doting, because if you are not careful, things may happen, but often some old people in life do not have such a sense of self-protection. The kite hanging on the tree can not be taken down, then do not want, buy a new one on the line, this behavior is not recommended.
This is not what I suddenly thought of the previous year, when it was the season of picking bayberry, my neighbor went to the suburban bayberry forest to pick bayberry in order to eat the fresh bayberry he picked, and as a result, he accidentally fell off the bayberry tree, and the back bone fracture was broken and recuperated at home for many months. She told me that I would never climb a tree again in my life, because I was afraid once.
The lack of children is one of the reasons why families love their children
Now most families have a relatively small number of children, basically one, at most two, like three and more families are a minority. So often when there is a baby in the family, the elders will be very fond of the child, this generation apart is a very strong blood relationship of the child we can understand the elderly favorite behavior, because there are fewer children. Things are rare and expensive, and now children are very expensive, and the family is treated as a baby to pet. Coupled with the fact that people's living standards are gradually improving now, unlike our parents' time, there are very many children in the family, and there are more than three or four children in the family, and the economic level at that time was not as good as it is now, and it was good to be able to eat enough, and even not enough to eat.
In the era when there is not enough to eat or just can only solve the problem of food and clothing, people can only pay attention to physiological needs. In Masnor's hierarchy of needs, human needs are divided into five categories, namely physiological needs, security needs, love, belonging, respect, and self-actualization. Breathing, water, food, physiological balance, etc. belong to the first layer of needs. After all, those who are still working on the first level of needs are a minority.
At present, adults are pursuing higher levels of needs, and compared with our childhood, the current children are undoubtedly the happiest.
Fewer children should be well educated, and love is in the heart
Some families even raise a child with 6 people, and from an early age they have their favorite toys, favorite food, and want anything as long as the family can support it. But the children's clothes to reach out and open their mouths for a long time will affect their personality, some sensible children will know the difficulty of understanding the parents and elders, but there are also some children who are raised "bad", and anything that can be easily obtained from an early age will make them become selfish and willful, so that it will affect the child's future marriage and family.
Less children, we should love more in the heart of pain in the heart, not what they put forward to ask adults to all to meet, can be selectively satisfied, reasonable satisfaction. Friends, what do you think?