During the "May Day" holiday, I didn't plan to travel, but I still decided to walk around. Considering that there may not be a place to park, it is easier to take the bus and subway.
I saw a scene on the bus today that made me feel the need to record it. There were five or six men in the car who looked like migrant workers in their 40s, talking about their salaries and how much money they had transferred to their daughter-in-law.
Migrant worker A smiled and said to migrant worker B, I transferred another 10,000 yuan to my daughter-in-law this month, and it happened that my son was in the third year of junior high school, and his grades were not very stable, so I found a tutor for my child. This job is done, the next job is not connected, you have to rest for 4-5 days, do you have any work there, you can be a small worker, and you look sad after speaking.
I was a little surprised to hear this, although there are industrial zones in our small county, there are very few people with such high wages. And there are even fewer people who can transfer so much money to their daughters-in-law.
Migrant worker B said, I haven't worked recently, I've been off for a week, I only earned 9,000 yuan last month, and sent 4,000 back to my daughter-in-law, my daughter-in-law was unhappy, she didn't look for me for a month, but it also saved worry and trouble, and her ears were clean. This year's work is less, I can't help it, I used to earn 15000-16000, of course I can send 7000-8000 per month.
Migrant worker A said, "Have you only sent half of the money home?" If you have a wife and children at home, and the two children spend a lot of money, and your daughter-in-law can't save a few dollars a month, she will not feel at ease and will be resentful, so of course she will ignore you.
Migrant worker B said that she was not hungry anyway, she didn't do anything at home, picked up the baby, planted some vegetables, raised a few chickens and ducks, didn't need to buy vegetables, didn't have to buy eggs, didn't spend a lot of money in her hometown, and gave half of it to her. are like you, earn 11,000 yuan to give 10,000 yuan to your mother-in-law, don't smoke, don't drink, except for the rent of 300, it's not enough to eat, and you have to get money from your mother-in-law when you have a cold. I'm just this life, life is short, I want to smoke, drink, play cards, and I want to have fun.
Hearing the words of migrant worker B, I think most people are probably like this. If you work hard, you can't be too critical of yourself and suffer yourself.
Several other migrant workers said that migrant worker A just crawled her ears, and she was so afraid of her mother-in-law when she came out, and she didn't know how much money you made outside, whether you had any work, and you told her that it was raining and resting. I didn't have any work, I just worked 20 days a month, and I just gave her all the money.
Migrant worker A smiled and said that this year's daughter-in-law said that she wanted to buy a house in the county, but I didn't know that she had saved so much money. Now that the house price is cheaper, it is convenient for the baby to study, and there is no need to sit for more than an hour every week to go home. On the ground floor of the first floor of the hometown, the daughter-in-law said that two floors would also be added. Seeing that many people in the village are on the second or third floor, my house is only on the first floor, and the family is crowded together, and I can't get rid of a little brainfire.
Migrant worker A also said that the down payment for the house in the county town was 50%, 20 tens of thousands. If you add 2 more floors to your hometown, it will cost 200,000. In this way, my daughter-in-law is also very economical at home, and she has saved them. The two babies have medium and high school grades, and their parents also take care of them, and her life is not better than mine. Everyone's daughter-in-law has better food and clothing than her, she rushes to the scene, only buys the child and his things, and is reluctant to buy her own. I gave her the money, I was relieved, I put it on my body, maybe one day it will be shaken away.
After listening to the words of migrant worker A, the other few people did not answer, and everyone silently lit cigarettes, looked at the scenery outside the car window, and thought thoughtfully. At this point, I don't know what they're thinking? Everybody thinks and thinks differently.
I envy the life of migrant worker A's family, where the husband and wife work together to break the gold. The husband has worked hard all his life, but he has a daughter-in-law who knows the cold and the hot, a pair of lovely and healthy children, the parents are alive, and the life is hopeful, what a beautiful family.
The so-called: "Father's love is the mother's quietness, the mother's tranquility is the son's peace, the son's peace is the family's peace, the family and everything is prosperous, the father is lazy, the mother is bitter, the mother is afraid, the son is afraid, the family is afraid, and the family is decaying for three generations!"
The father is the starting point for the quality of a family, and the father's dedication and care are very important to the small family. The father loves the mother, the mother is emotionally stable, cares for the elders, loves the children, the children have a good family environment, study steadily, and the children's love is fed back to the father, which is a normal and good cycle in a family.
Several migrant workers on the bus earn about the same amount, and the men who are greedy for pleasure first ensure their quality of life. A responsible man ensures the life of his family first. Whether an ordinary person's family can turn over depends on the thoughts and responsibilities of the men in the family. That is, if you want to work hard to earn money, you must have a like-minded lover, work hard together, save money together, and it is not far from the day of turning over.