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My name is Wang Lihua and I am 56 years old this year. I am an ordinary housewife, and my ordinary and busy life has always been a portrayal of me. My wife and I have been married for more than 30 years, and we have run a small restaurant together since we got married. Although there are no ups and downs, our lives are stable and happy.
My wife and I have always been a good couple, although we don't have any bold vows, but along the way, we have been supporting each other and going through the ups and downs of life together. In my impression, our relationship has always been so unbreakable, like a towering tree, no matter the wind or rain, it will not fall.
However, an unexpected turmoil set off a storm between my wife and me. The cause of the incident turned out to be that I was on a trip with a male colleague.
It was a sunny weekend, and after work, I received an invitation from a young male colleague, Li Yang, who wanted to go with me to the surrounding mountains. Li Yang is a new employee of our hotel, young, energetic and enthusiastic, and we get along quite happily. Out of respect and encouragement for the young man, I agreed to his invitation.
We chose a scenic town as our destination, with crystal clear creeks and lush mountain forests, which seemed like a paradise. We sang and laughed all the way and enjoyed this rare leisure time to the fullest. Li Yang seemed particularly lively, making me happy from time to time, making me feel the enthusiasm and vitality of young people, and unconsciously relaxed.
However, the day after we returned from the trip, I was faced with unexpected questioning and anger from my wife. The moment I opened the door, I felt a strange atmosphere. My wife asked me about my relationship with Li Yang with a pale face, and I was a little puzzled and didn't understand why he had such thoughts.
"Wife, what's wrong with you? Li Yang and I are just going on a trip, how can it have anything to do with it? I tried to explain, but my wife didn't say a word, turned around and walked into the bedroom. I don't know why he was so angry, so I could only follow him in confusion.
"You're traveling? Do you think I'll believe this nonsense?! My wife finally broke out, and he pointed to my nose and asked loudly, "Do you think I'm a fool?" What the hell is going on between you?! ”
I was taken aback by his attitude, the relationship between me and Li Yang was just an ordinary colleague, and there was no other meaning at all. I hurriedly explained: "Wife, you misunderstood, Li Yang and I are just ordinary colleagues, purely to travel and relax, and there is no other meaning." ”
However, his wife had a distrustful expression, he shook his head, and said coldly: "I don't believe it, I don't believe it!" Something must have happened between you, otherwise how could you go on a trip with a young lad?! I can't trust you anymore! Let's get a divorce! ”
Hearing this, my heart was suddenly torn apart, I never thought that a simple trip would plunge our feelings into such a crisis. I tried to explain, persuade, but my wife was completely unwilling to listen to me. He refused to communicate with me, just coldly pushed me away and closed the bedroom door.
I stood alone in the living room, tears streaming uncontrollably. I don't know what to do, I don't want to lose our marriage of more than thirty years, but now it seems that everything has become hopeless. My heart was filled with sadness and despair, and I didn't know how it all happened or how to deal with this sudden family crisis.
I desperately wanted to save this marriage, so I began to ask my wife's good friend Li Wei for help. Li Wei is an old acquaintance of ours, and he knows our relationship very well, and I hope he can help me convince my wife that he can reconsider this matter.
"Lao Li, you have to help me, Li Yang and I are just ordinary colleagues, there is no other meaning at all, I really don't want to lose our marriage." I said to Li Wei with hope.
Li Wei was silent for a while after hearing this, and then he said, "Lihua, I know your intentions, but you also have to understand your wife's feelings. It is a huge blow to a man who may not be able to accept the fact that you are out on a trip with a young lad. ”
My heart sank, I didn't expect things to get so complicated. I tried to explain: "Lao Li, Li Yang and I are just ordinary colleagues, and there is no improper relationship between us. I hope you can help me convince my wife to reconsider. ”
Li Wei sighed, shook his head and said, "Lihua, I will try my best to convince him, but you also have to be mentally prepared, the result may not be as you wish." ”
After listening to Li Wei's words, my heart became even heavier. I didn't know what decision my wife would make, so I could only wait in silence. As the days passed, the relationship between me and my wife remained deadlocked, and he was cold and distant from me.
During this time, I felt lonely and helpless like never before. I didn't know how to face all this, I had to bear the torment in silence alone. I started to ask myself if there was something wrong that caused this to happen. I am deeply aware that marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also requires two people to work together to manage and maintain.
Finally, on a sunny weekend, my wife finally spoke to me once. He told me that it wasn't that he didn't believe me, but that he felt that he had lost trust in me and that he was no longer the person I believed in. He said that he was also disappointed in our marriage, and felt that there was no longer the tacit understanding and trust between us.
After listening to his words, I felt like a knife in my heart. I know I hurt his feelings, and I know I'm sorry for him. I knelt on the ground, grabbed his hand, and cried and begged him to give me a chance to be the Lihua who made his heart flutter again.
"Wife, I know I was wrong, but I really love you and I don't want to lose you." I said.
His wife was silent for a while, then he sighed deeply and said, "Lihua, maybe we need some time to calm down." I'll think about our marriage, but I need some time to adjust my mindset. ”
When I heard this, I felt a burst of joy in my heart. Although our relationship has not completely eased, at least my wife is willing to give us a chance. I know that this is just the beginning and that there is still a long way to go between us, but I am willing to put my heart and soul into managing our marriage and getting us back to a happy life.
This experience made me deeply aware of the fragility and preciousness of marriage. I learned the importance of mutual trust and understanding, and I learned to appreciate the people in front of me more. I hope that our marriage will get better and better until we grow old together.
Just when my relationship with my wife was gradually easing, another thing happened that caught me off guard.
That day, I was busy preparing dinner when I suddenly received a strange phone call. An anxious voice of a young woman came from the other end of the phone: "Hello, is it Wang Lihua?" I'm Li Yang's girlfriend, and I found your phone because I wanted to talk to you about something. ”
My heart suddenly tightened, I didn't know why Li Yang's girlfriend was looking for me, and all kinds of speculation and uneasiness surged in my heart. I quickly asked, "What's the matter?" ”
The girl's voice was a little choked and said, "I know that the relationship between you and Li Yang is just an ordinary colleague, but I still want to tell you that I have been with Li Yang for a while, and I know that he once traveled with you." I don't know what your attitude is towards him, but I hope we can live in peace with each other. ”
When I heard her words, I was stunned. I didn't expect Li Yang to have a girlfriend, and I didn't expect his girlfriend to take the initiative to contact me. I didn't know how to answer her, so I could only say, "I understand, I'll communicate with you well." ”
After hanging up, I felt a heavy heart. I don't mind that Li Yang has a girlfriend, but I don't know how to deal with such a situation. I began to think about the relationship between me and Li Yang, whether I gave him the wrong hint and caused his girlfriend to have a misunderstanding. I felt like I was carrying too much responsibility and felt very guilty and helpless.
In the evening, my wife came back, and when he saw my sad face, he asked with concern, "Lihua, what's wrong?" Is there anything bothering you? ”
I was a little embarrassed to talk about it, but I knew I couldn't hide it from my wife, so I told him about the call. After listening to this, his wife was silent for a while, and then he said: "Lihua, this matter is not your fault, the relationship between you and Li Yang is just an ordinary colleague, and you don't need to be responsible for his affairs." ”
After listening to my wife's words, I felt relieved. Perhaps, I really didn't need to be responsible for this matter, I was just negligent and didn't expect to lead to such a result. I decided to communicate well with Li Yang's girlfriend and let her understand our relationship.
The next day, I made an appointment with Li Yang's girlfriend to meet. She is a young and beautiful girl who looks very sensible. We sat together and I listened patiently to her. She said that she loved Li Yang very much, but was uneasy and confused about his travel with me. I explained that Li Yang and I were just ordinary colleagues, and there was no other meaning at all, and I hoped she could understand.
After some communication, Li Yang's girlfriend was finally relieved, she thanked me, and promised to get along with Li Yang. I am also relieved in my heart, and I hope that this incident can bring us some inspiration and let us all learn to be more understanding and tolerant of each other.
When I got home, my wife asked me with concern, "Lihua, how were you talking?" Is everything settled? ”
I smiled and said, "Thank you for your concern, everything is solved, and Li Yang's girlfriend is relieved." ”
My wife smiled and said, "That's good, I'm sure you can handle this matter." The relationship between us will get better and better. ”
When I heard my wife's words, I felt extremely happy and grateful. I know our marriage has been through a storm, but our relationship is stronger and stronger. I am deeply grateful to my wife for always being tolerant and understanding of me, and I am willing to love him with all my heart and soul forever.
Everything gradually returned to calm, and my relationship with my wife gradually returned to its previous track. We started our simple and happy life again, but I know that all this is inseparable from understanding and tolerance between us.
However, just when I thought it was all over, something happened that I didn't expect.
One night, I received a strange phone call, and a man's anxious voice came from the other end of the phone: "Hello, is it Wang Lihua?" I'm Li Yang's brother, and I found your phone number because I wanted to talk to you about something. ”
Hearing this voice, my heart suddenly lifted, I didn't know why Li Yang's brother was looking for me, and all kinds of speculation and uneasiness surged in my heart. I quickly asked, "What's the matter?" ”
Li Yang's elder brother said in a somewhat excited voice: "I know that you and Li Yang are just ordinary colleagues, but I still want to tell you that my brother has been in a bad mood recently, and I want to know what happened between you." ”
I was shocked, I didn't know that Li Yang would confide in his brother about such a thing. I tried to explain: "Li Yang's brother, Li Yang and I are just ordinary colleagues, and there is no other meaning at all. I don't know why he said that. ”
Li Yang's brother was silent for a while, and then he said, "I believe your words, but I still hope that you can find Li Yang with me and have a good talk." I don't want to see my brother get into trouble. ”
After listening to his words, I hesitated. I knew I had to have a good talk with Li Yang and explain our relationship, but I didn't know what the outcome of such a conversation would be. I decided to talk to Li Yang and have a good talk.
The next day, I made an appointment to meet Li Yang. We chose a quiet café and sat down to start talking.
"Li Yang, your brother came to me recently, and he said that you are in a very bad mood, I want to know what happened?" I tried to ask in the opening paragraph.
Li Yang was silent for a while, and then he said: "Sister Lihua, I know that I did something wrong, I didn't tell you about having a girlfriend, and I didn't expect it to cause you such trouble." I hope you can forgive me. ”
After listening to his words, my heart was moved. Perhaps, this is the immaturity and impulsiveness of young people, and I should not blame him for his momentary negligence. I smiled and said, "Li Yang, I can understand your feelings, but we are just ordinary colleagues, and I don't want our relationship to be affected because of such a thing." ”
Li Yang nodded in understanding. We chatted about work and life for a while, and the atmosphere gradually relaxed. In the end, we shook hands and made peace and decided to put the past behind us and start our work and life anew.
This experience gave me a deeper understanding of the importance of communication and understanding between people. I hope that I can be more cautious and rational in my later life, cherish the people in front of me, and make our lives better and happier.
After all these twists and turns, my relationship with my wife is finally back on track. We started a simple and happy life again, but I know that all this is inseparable from the understanding and tolerance between us.
As the days passed, my relationship with my wife got better and better. We face the challenges of life together, share the joys of life together, and our feelings are deeper.
One day, we were sitting at home drinking tea and chatting, and my wife suddenly said: "Lihua, we have been married for so many years, we have always been very happy, but I think our life can be more colorful." ”
I was a little surprised, and I asked, "Wife, what do you think?" ”
My wife smiled and said, "I think we can try something new, such as going on a trip together, or learning some new skills to make our lives more fulfilling." ”
After listening to my wife's words, I felt very happy. I know that he is making such a proposal for the betterment of our lives, and I fully support his idea. We decided to plan a trip to see the places we've always dreamed of.
We chose a small town as our destination, which is beautiful and peaceful, perfect for relaxing. We walked there, viewed the scenery, tasted the local food, and enjoyed the warmth of the two of us.
During the trip, the relationship between my wife and I was further sublimated. We re-examined our marriage and life, cherished each other more, and cherished the happiness in front of us even more.
When we got home, my wife and I decided to learn some new skills to make our lives more colorful. We signed up for a local class to learn skills such as photography and cooking, and we had a fulfilling and happy time together.
Through these experiences, I have deeply realized the true meaning of a happy life. Happiness does not lie in material abundance, but in spiritual satisfaction and understanding and tolerance for each other. I am willing to work with my wife to manage our marriage together and make our lives happier and more fulfilling.
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