When Grandma Liu entered the Rongguo Mansion, why did she bring her grandson who did not understand things? This is her survival wisdom

In the dream of the Red Chamber, Grandma Liu had three opportunities to enter the RongGuo Mansion. The first time was in the sixth time, liu grandma went to rongguo mansion for a very clear purpose, that is, to fight the autumn wind, because the family was poor, the days were difficult to continue, and even the winter could not pass. The second time was between the thirty-ninth and forty-first times, and the arrival of Grandma Liu added a lot of fun to the Grand View Garden, when Jia Province was in its heyday. The third time should be after the decline of Jia Province, entering the house to rescue Sister Qiao, but because the original manuscript is lost, we only say that the first eighty times into jia house twice.

Jia Fu is a nobleman who eats bells and bells, and it is the time when flowers bloom. The high-gate compound, the huge rongguo mansion, was daunting. When Lin Daiyu first entered Jia Mansion, the sedan could only carry her into the place of one shot from the West Point Gate, and then went out, replaced by a small house inside to carry Lin Daiyu in. Lin Daiyu was also cautious, did not dare to say more than one word, walked one more step, afraid of being laughed at, it can be seen that Jia Fu is not something that anyone can enter and exit at will.

Grandma Liu is a vulgar poor woman, but she can enter Jia Province, what is her relationship with Jia Province? It doesn't matter if you just say that Grandma Liu and Jia Fu are there. Her son-in-law, Wang Dog'er, and Madame Wang have a relationship that can only be fought by eight rods. Twenty years ago, the dog's ancestors married the Wang family, because they were all surnamed Wang lianzong, which was also the dog's ancestor's move to marry the Wang family, after all, the high-ranking officials of the Wang family were prominent. In essence, there is no blood relationship, and there has been no contact for more than 20 years, perhaps Jia Fu does not know about this so-called relative.

The status of the two families is very different, there is no contact for many years, the average person really can't wipe his face to go to harass, maybe even the gate has not been close will be sent away as a meal flower, and it is not known. But in Grandma Liu's heart, Jia Fu is a life-saving straw to help their family survive the winter. The survival of their family is here. Going to the Rongguo Mansion in person to ask for help was her top priority. This is a very important occasion in her life, and it is crucial that this visit can be fulfilled.

If ordinary people go so presumptuously, there will definitely be psychological obstacles, and if nothing else, they will be involuntarily nervous in the face of the majesty of the rich and noble families. Is Grandma Liu nervous? Grandma Liu is also nervous, and an important action description in the book reveals her mood. Grandma Liu walked to the gate of the Rongguo Mansion, saw the gate, saw the big stone lion, and was stunned, the people at the door came and went, no one paid attention to her, and no one paid attention to her. She rubbed the past step by step, and this "rubbing" word showed the tension and fear in her heart, so scared that she could not even lift her feet, so she could only rub and walk, rubbing and trying to see if she could catch the stubble.

Such an important, such a nervous thing, it is said that Grandma Liu can do it alone, we are participating in very important occasions every day, we are to pack ourselves up, certainly will not bring their own family does not understand the small children, so as not to be young and rude to mess things up.

But Grandma Liu dressed up her grandson Ban'er, and also brought it over, Ban'er is just a little boy of five or six years old, why should Grandma Liu bring an ignorant board, which hides the wisdom of Liu Grandma's survival.

This help, if there is less board, there will be a lot less things, and even a lack of opportunities for success. Think about Liu Grandma with a board, the sense of picture is extremely strong, an old lady, with a young child, the day is not yet dawn all the way, think about it is hard and pitiful. Perhaps we can understand it this way, this is playing the bitter love card.

Lin Daiyu entered the Jia Mansion, with a grandmother, a handsome snow goose, Jia Mu said painfully, "Old old, small small, how can this work", Liu Grandma's move is also to highlight the characteristics of "old old, small small". Even people with the hardest heart will feel compassion when they see the elderly and children suffering. After all, in Grandma Liu's heart, the family's life can continue to live, and having food in the future is the most important thing.

Grandma Liu successfully met Wang Xifeng through the Zhou Rui family, and in the process of asking Wang Xifeng for help, her grandson Ban'er has always played a very important role as a prop.

Grandma Liu was not sure in her heart about this move forward, she didn't know what was waiting for her, she just held the mentality of touching, she didn't know if the lady and lady in this compound would laugh at her and look down on her. The tension in her heart is shown through the instruction board. Before meeting Wang Xifeng, she had written three times that "she taught Ban'er a few words", was she needing Ban'er to ask for help, not at all, just to calm her nervous heart.

Or that she was also encouraging herself while instructing The Board. The moment she saw Wang Xifeng, just when Wang Xifeng was about to open a meal, this deep sea-like Battle of Houmen frightened Grandma Liu again, just as Ban'er reached out to take something, she took the opportunity to slap Ban'er, alleviating the embarrassment of not knowing how to do it. After meeting Wang Xifeng, she did not stand again, and when she sat not, she pulled the board behind her to worship, she scolded the board for not being used, in fact, she scolded herself for not being used, the role of this board is not very interesting.

Especially the key link, opening her mouth to ask Wang Xifeng for money, Liu Grandma was red before she said anything, she didn't want to say it, but she had to say it. Here is the self-revealing heartache, she can't bear to say "bring your nephew, not for anything else", borrow the board to close the relationship with Wang Xifeng, and also take the opportunity to push the board to say "how your father taught you at home, send us to do something", here Liu Grandma is borrowing the board, the second is to borrow the son-in-law's dog, because it is the dog that has a little relationship with the Wang family.

Grandma Liu's words, which were difficult to say, were expressed through her and Ban'er's questioning. Wang Xifeng had a lot of eyes in his heart, and as soon as he heard this, he understood what it meant, stopped Grandma Liu's conversation, arranged a meal for them, and took out twenty-two pieces of silver. At the same time, Wang Xifeng also used the board to help "take it to make a winter coat for the child". After all, the two families are too far apart, Wang Xifeng's eyes twenty-two silver is too little, can only make a dress for the child to survive the winter, but for Liu Grandma's family, this is enough for a year's expenses.

Ban'er is the bone and blood of the wang dog, is the authentic relationship with the wang family, if the dog comes, the manly man opens his mouth to ask for money, it is really difficult to open his mouth, and the board that does not understand things can avoid this embarrassment. He was the indispensable key to Liu Grandma's first successful acquisition of twenty-two life-saving silver from Rong Guofu, Wang Xifeng also gave an extra string of money, so that they did not have to go back from a long way, an old man and a young man had this string of money, they could take a car back, and come with a board, it was really Liu Grandma's survival wisdom, did you understand it?