Li Bai said that I was born to be useful.
Grandma Liu entered the Rongguo Mansion for the second time, and her grandson Ban'er helped her do 3 things, although each one was insignificant, but each one had great meaning.
[1] Ban'er helped Grandma Liu carry things, and what she carried was melon and fruit, carrying the wealth of her home
The first thing Ban'er did to help Grandma Liu was to carry the melon fruit into the Rongguo Mansion.
When Grandma Liu entered the Rongguo Mansion for the second time, Ping'er asked why she carried melons and fruits into the palace, and What Grandma Liu said was dignified.
“...... This year, two more stones of grain have been beaten, and melons, fruits, vegetables and vegetables are also abundant. This is the first to pick together, and did not dare to sell it, left the tip of filial piety aunts and grandmothers to taste. The girls are also tired of eating the taste of the mountains and the sea every day, and this eating a wild child can also be regarded as our poor heart. (Dream of the Red Chamber, 39th)
The "poor heart" mentioned by Grandma Liu was to repay the favor of entering the Rongguo Mansion and Wang Xifeng gave her 20 taels of silver.
In fact, this is not the case, there are fresh melons and fruits in the Grand View Garden of Rongguo Mansion, and there is no need for Grandma Liu to come to "filial piety".
When Grandma Liu resigned, Ping'er broke through this point.
"These two pockets were filled with melons and fruits yesterday, and now this one contains two buckets of Oda japonica rice, and it is rare to boil porridge; inside this one are the fruits of the garden and all kinds of dried fruits." (Dream of the Red Chamber, 42nd)
Therefore, from Ping'er's actions, it is speculated that Grandma Liu carried Gua Guo'er into the Rongguo Mansion with another plan.
What is Grandma Liu's picture?
The answer is simple, the graph is an additional gain.
The poor associate with the rich, often in order to obtain excess benefits.
Grandma Liu and Ban'er carried the pockets of melon fruits, and finally exchanged them for two buckets of Oda japonica rice, various fruits and dried fruits.
Therefore, from the results, the core key to helping Liu Grandma carry melons and fruits into the Rongguo Mansion is not how many things are carried in, but in the pockets on her back, which can help Liu Grandma carry back more wealth.
[2] Ban Er sought out Grandma Liu at a critical time to save her from gaffe
The second thing Ban'er did to help Grandma Liu do was to find grandma Liu who was lost.
Under the warm hospitality of Jia Mu, Grandma Liu overeated, and after drinking tea, her stomach was uncomfortable and diarrhea occurred.
After she untied her hand, she took advantage of the wine alone to mistakenly enter Baoyu's room.
When he was overwhelmed by alcohol, he sat on the edge of the bed, originally wanting to rest, "not to bear the look of the body involuntarily, leaning forward and backward, hazy eyes, a crooked body will sleep soundly on the bed."
The disappearance of Grandma Liu did not attract the attention of everyone in Jia Province. Only Ban'er found out that Grandma Liu was missing and cried urgently.
His cries caught the attention of the crowd and he began to look around.
When everyone was looking for it, the raiders thought of the convenient place for Grandma Liu, and there was a back road that could be directly to Yihong Courtyard, so they hurried back to the house to check.
The attacker went all the way into the door, turned the collection mallet, and listened to the snoring like thunder. Busy coming in, only to smell the smell of wine and farts, look around the room, only to see Grandma Liu dancing on her back on the bed. (Dream of the Red Chamber, 41st)
After the raiders woke her up, they stored three or four handfuls of lilies in Dingnei, and after cleaning up the house, they took Grandma Liu out of Yihong Courtyard and taught her to lie and say that she was drunk and rested after falling behind the rocks.
The matter was resolved satisfactorily. If it were not for Ban'er crying and looking for Grandma Liu, the attacker would not have immediately returned to Yihong Courtyard to check the situation; if it were not for the raiders who found Grandma Liu, and the matter would have been exposed by others, Grandma Liu would have been disgraced and faceless to face the people of rongguo mansion.
Therefore, Ban'er cried and shouted to find someone, and judging from the results, helped Grandma Liu escape the disaster.
[3] Ban'er was the object of Liu Grandma's punishment, allowing Liu Grandma to regain her dignity
The third thing Ban'er did to help Liu Grandma do was to let Liu Grandma regain her lost dignity in front of everyone.
Jia Mu warmly entertained Grandma Liu and led her to the Grand View Garden to visit the ladies' boudoir.
In Jia Tanchun's room, after Getting acquainted with everyone, Ban'er ran around and saw her tent hanging on the pull-out bed of her bed with green double embroidered grass worms. Ban Er ran closer and looked at it and said, "This is a grasshopper, this is a grasshopper." ”
When Grandma Liu saw this, she hurriedly slapped the board and scolded: "Huang Zi, there is no clean mess." If you come in and look at it, you're on your face. The beaten board began to cry, and the crowd was busy persuading Fang to stop. (Dream of the Red Chamber, 40th)
Why did Grandma Liu play the board? Is it just that the board is not obedient?
In feudal society, men and women could not afford to kiss, and men could not easily enter the boudoir of women. Because Of Her young age, Ban'er had the opportunity to follow Grandma Liu into Jia Tanchun's room. After entering the room, it seems inevitable that you will be unruly and beaten.
In fact, this is not the case, and what is on the surface is often not the truth in its entirety.
Liu Grandma hit the board, not only because the board was not obedient, in front of everyone, Liu Grandma's slap, but also to save personal dignity.
When Grandma Liu entered the Rongguo Mansion, Wang Xifeng and Mandarin Duck did not treat her as relatives, but teased her everywhere and let her go out of the world.
The Indian writer Primchan said: For people, the most important thing is dignity.
Although Grandma Liu is an old woman in the countryside, she also has dignity. The more ridicule in front of the crowd, the stronger the resistance of dignity.
In the Rongguo Mansion, she could not perform in front of others, but she could borrow the topic to play in front of Ban'er.
In front of everyone, she slapped Ban'er in the face, which not only showed that she was a person who knew how to advance and retreat, knew etiquette, and obeyed the rules, but also a dignified person.
After the slap, she picked up her trampled dignity.
[4] Ban'er helped Grandma Liu three times, not only revealing her intimate ancestral feelings, but also showing different growths.
Ban'er helping Grandma Liu carry things is the growth of the body. If there is a comparison of everything, there is a deep understanding, if there is a contrast, there is a difference, the difference is revealed. The first time Ban'er followed Liu Grandma into the RongGuo Mansion, she left empty-handed, and the second time she entered the Rongguo Mansion, like Grandma Liu, carrying a bag of melons and fruits into the mansion, this move shows that Ban'er's body is growing and has the ability to undertake things.
Board's search for grandma is emotional growth. "Human feelings are like thin paper", in the fireworks of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, many people's perception of feelings becomes numb, and only in a specific environment will feelings grow. In the Grand View Garden, Grandma Liu is Ban'er's only relative. When two people are together, if there is no affection for each other; once separated, the feelings will burst out and grow rapidly, and all the temptations will not be able to withstand the invisible and untouchable affection. In the face of the unfamiliar environment and the strange crowd, Ban'er's cry attracted the attention of everyone and nourished his feelings for Grandma Liu.
Being beaten is the growth of life. Being beaten in a feudal family was a norm growing up. Jia Zheng and Jia Zhen were beaten by their fathers, Jia Lian was pardoned, and Jia Baoyu was beaten by Jia Zheng. It can be said that the process of being beaten is the process of growing up. Although barbaric, this method of education was enshrined in feudal society. Grandma Liu played the board, she didn't think it was inappropriate, and everyone was not surprised.
Life is alive, as long as you don't die, you have to grow. Ban'er's three growths are passive and helpless, but no matter what kind of motivation and environment he is in, he is trying to grow upwards. This growth eventually blossomed and brought infinite possibilities and beauty to his life.
After Jia Fu was raided, Ban'er grew up and accompanied Liu Grandma into the Rongguo Mansion three times, (Reference: The sixth time in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Li Yanzhai commented on the prompt: "This time borrowing Liu Fei, but it is written ah Feng zheng biography, not pan text, and Fu "two into", "three into" and qiao sister's return. At the time of the crisis in Jia Province, he extended a helping hand to rescue Sister Qiao from the fireworks alley, not only to know the reward, but also to marry Sister Qiao and live a happy life.
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