From the birth of the child, the parent is the child's first teacher, the family is the child's first school, but parents for the child's education will also have some mistakes, because no one is perfect mistakes are inevitable, some mistakes to know as far as possible to avoid, the following is to talk about the parents need to avoid a few misunderstandings of educating children.
1. Unlimited coddling of children and fulfillment of all children's wishes.
From infancy, children always react to what they want, they will cry when they are hungry, they will scream if they want to pull the stick, this habit will always be engraved in the child's head, and they will subconsciously think that as long as they cry, parents will fulfill their wishes.
In fact, parents can not blindly meet the child's desires, uncontrolled satisfaction of the child's requirements will make the child feel that everything is too smooth, too easy to get is often not cherished by people, the happiness obtained from it will be lost.
So when he grows up, he takes it all for granted. To meet the conditions, you must accept clearly with the child, and if you want to satisfy your desires, you must pay some practical actions that you can't blindly take. For example, if a child wants to buy a toy, you can tell him that if you stick to kindergarten for a week, your mother will buy it for you. In this way, let the baby have an expectation, a desire to pursue. But parents should be careful to keep their promises and not lie to their children.
2. Expectations of children are too high.
Many parents are looking forward to jackie chan and hoping for a woman to become a phoenix, a child will often condense the hope of several generations, they all hope that the child can do the best, not to do the best on the child's temper, in fact, this is not OK, everyone knows the truth of teaching according to the aptitude, many children are born with no interest in such things as mathematics, but have a strong athletic talent, so why don't parents train their children in the direction of athletes?
Parents need to be patient with their children, sometimes to accept the fact that their children are ordinary people, and children can walk the path they choose safely, healthily, and healthily, isn't it a good thing?