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Shen Aojun
Shen Aojun has been famous for many years, and she has been recognized by the industry and audiences for her outstanding appearance and appeal.
Shen Aojun starred in "The History of Love in the Tang Dynasty", "Divine Doctor Xi Laile", "Great Song Ti Criminal Officer", "Latent", "Tibet Secret", "Golden Marriage", "Hu Qiaoying's Complaint" and many other film and television dramas are deeply loved by the audience.
Especially the brutal and wayward Princess Gaoyang in "The History of The Tang Dynasty", the female boss Sai Xishi in "Divine Doctor Xi Laile", and the beautiful woman Liu Shu'er in "The Great Song Ti Torture Officer" are especially loved by the audience.
The image of the classical beauty created by Shen Aojun is exemplary and does not accept rebuttal.
It's just that the road of beauty is bumpy,
Shen Aojun did not avoid it either.
She had been in a ten-year relationship, and when she was about to talk about marriage, she found that she had been split.
But fortunately, later under the arrangement of her family, Shen Aojun and outsiders were intimate, and when they met for the fourth time, they finally met true love, who was her current diplomat husband.
Shen Aojun and her husband's wedding photos
When they first met, the husband's impression of Shen Aojun was:
"It's quite short, it's quite thick, and my face turns red when I speak."
This makes people wonder, what is the charm of this diplomat to conquer beauty?
Not only that, but she was also willing to coax him to be happy and spoil him like a Tang monk?
01 Beauty does not know itself
Yishu once wrote of Lin Qingxia: "The most beautiful place for this woman is that she has no confidence in her own beauty. ”
Shen Aojun is also like this, her sweet smile and pure eyes are extremely beautiful in the eyes of the public, but she herself is not beautiful, and since she was a child, she feels that she is an ugly duckling.
Shen Aojun, formerly known as Zhao Yan, was born in 1976 in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, and is the youngest of four sisters.
In Shen Aojun's eyes, his mother and sister were very beautiful, but he was the most inconspicuous one.
Consciously not good-looking, Shen Aojun is particularly outstanding in learning.
In 1995, at the age of 19, she was admitted to the two major art schools of beijing film academy and Shanghai theater academy at the same time, because the eldest sister and the third sister were studying in drama, Shen Aojun finally chose to major in television editing in the Department of Drama television art.
When Shen Aojun entered the school, her eldest sister had already graduated and stayed at the school to teach, and was a teacher in the stage art department, while the third sister was studying.
With two older sisters, Shen Aojun, who came from the north, did not feel the loneliness of leaving her hometown, but instead made her best friends here and spent a pleasant university life.
Shen Aojun and Cheng Haofeng compared around 16 years
If Shen Aojun was an "ugly duckling" when she was a child, she transformed into a "white swan" when she went to college.
Looking so good, naturally it is indispensable for people to pursue, the age of the initial opening of the love sinus, Shen Aojun, like most of her classmates, fell in love in college, and this relationship continued until after she became famous.
Originally, Shen Aojun's career plan for herself was to become a TV choreographer in the future, but she did not expect that because of an advertisement, her volunteers were changed.
In 1997, Shen Aojun was invited by advertisers to shoot an advertisement with Aaron Kwok, which allowed Shen Aojun to earn the first bucket of gold in her life, and she also experienced the joy of "filming".
As a result, shen Aojun's life direction began to change, she no longer only focused on choreography, she began to prepare for herself to become a professional actor.
In terms of acting, Shen Aojun has a certain talent, as long as the teacher mentions a little, she can understand the essence of it, in 1999 in the movie "Meteor Shower" starring Zhang Guorong played a soy sauce.
In 2000, Shen Aojun was favored by hong Kong Jiahe Company, in order to sign a contract with her, the company also sent someone to Shanghai to contact Shen Aojun.
In this way, Shen Aojun became the first actor signed by Jiahe in the mainland, and from this time on, she officially changed the name of "Zhao Yan" to "Shen Aojun".
In the early years, Shen Aojun
02 The Road to Fame
For the profession of actor, Shen Aojun had a very clear understanding at the beginning.
She feels that actors should be able to withstand loneliness, be responsible for every work, be responsible for every role, be worthy of themselves, live up to the audience, and become famous, but she looks very lightly and does not deliberately pursue.
Therefore, Shen Aojun was down-to-earth from the beginning, first acting as a supporting role for a year, and only in 2001 did he come to prominence with the costume drama "History of the Tang Dynasty" cooperated with Nie Yuan and Tang Guoqiang.
Princess Gaoyang, played by Shen Aojun in the play, although she is brutal and willful, she is better at looking and leaves a deep impression.
Stills of Shen Aojun and Li Baotian in "Divine Doctor Xi Laile"
Shen Aojun's acting road is quite smooth, after playing "Princess Gaoyang", he partnered with the old artist Li Baotian to star in "Divine Doctor Xi Laile", in which Shen Aojun played the boss lady Sai Xishi of the "Food for Heaven" restaurant.
The role of Sai Xi Shi is spicy, emotional and dares to love and hate, and shen Aojun, who looks sweet, has interpreted her style to the fullest.
So far, people have mentioned Shen Aojun as equating her with Sai Xishi, which shows that people like this role, of course, this has to be derived from Shen Aojun's interpretation, not only that, her beauty full of classical charm is also unforgettable.
With the role of "Sai Xi Shi", Shen Aojun won the nomination for the best actress at the 21st China Television "Golden Eagle Awards".
Stills of Sethish
Shen Aojun became famous.
After that, the film continued.
Successively filmed "Taiwan's First Inspector Liu Mingchuan", "Great Song Ti Criminal Officer", "Golden Marriage", "The Marriage of the Two of Us", "Latent" and other dramas.
Shen Aojun and her role "Liu Shuting" have many similarities, they are sincere with their friends and teachers, the same indifferent to fame and fortune.
Shen Aojun and Yao Chen's "Latent" group photo
Shen Aojun has requirements for the art she pursues, so after becoming famous, she did not appear in the audience's eyes in large quantities, and she knew that actresses should maintain a long artistic vitality and fight for strength.
So in addition to filming, she will use it to enrich herself.
Shen Aojun is serious about acting, and the same is true for feelings.
03 Emotional Path
As mentioned earlier, Shen Aojun had a ten-year-long relationship, and the two once reached the point of talking about marriage and marriage.
Shen Aojun prepared the wedding room to decorate the wedding room, everything was ready, she suddenly learned that the other party had already fallen in love with others,
And this matter is known to everyone, including the other parent and friend, and she is the last to know as a party.
As for who this person is, Shen Aojun did not name him in an interview, so many people said that this person was Nie Yuan.
Nie Yuan
Because Shen Aojun's famous work is the "History of Datang Love" cooperated with Nie Yuan,
And because Nie Yuan also had an affair with Huang Yiyin in the past, coupled with his own self-published cooperation with actresses later,
It is easy to have emotional remarks, coupled with Nie Yuan's later emotional experience, so that many people have determined that the ex who has been deeply in love for ten years in Shen Aojun's mouth is Nie Yuan.
In fact, true or false is unknown.
But this experience of being split legs really hurt Shen Aojun to the extreme, from his early twenties to his thirties.
She gave the best youth to this person, but in the end it was betrayal.
However, this painful experience has made Shen Aojun grow, and also let her know that two people are together, and they can't rely too much on each other, otherwise they can only let themselves be bruised in the end.
Shen Aojun, who knows the truth, drives alone on the streets of Shanghai, recalling their past, her eyes blurred by tears.
In the past, she would get lost in her car and would call the other person, and no matter where he was, he would always be able to clearly tell her which road to take and which corner to turn to get to her destination.
This time, she couldn't find the direction again, and habitually took out the phone to try to call the other party, but she resisted, he already belonged to someone else, she had to get used to her own direction.
"It's not scary at all to get lost alone, it's important to know why you're lost," she said. Later she found her way through her own methods.
Shen Aojun won the award
Shen Aojun is really a kind and generous woman.
The ex hurt her so much, not only did she not say a little bad things about the other party, but when she knew that he was married to someone else and pregnant,
She also wished them happiness; even if they had never been in touch again, she still wanted the other parents to be healthy.
Shen Aojun gave all his decency to others and kept all his wounds to himself, but fortunately he did not marry that year, otherwise how could he have a diplomat husband who met later and spoiled her into a treasure.
"Women Want to Live a Good Life" and Gong Zheng stills
04 The happiness of blind dates
In order to heal the pain caused by the loss of love, Shen Aojun left Shanghai for Beijing, she had to learn to be independent and not rely on anyone.
She came to Beijing alone with a few suitcases, found a place to live, and then threw herself into work.
The best way to soothe the pain is either to be desperately busy or to start a new relationship, which is a little difficult for Shen Aojun, who has just experienced a ten-year pain, and she has been seriously injured.
So she put all her energy into her work and filmed the family marriage drama "Golden Marriage" directed by Zheng Xiaolong, in which Shen Aojun played Li Tianjiao, who intervened in the marriage of Zhang Guoli and Jiang Wenli.
Stills from "The Golden Wedding"
Just experienced betrayal, playing a red-faced confidant with a wife, whether it really destroyed his family, it is difficult to say, but Shen Aojun played the character of Li Tianjiao very vividly, so that many people saw another side of her.
After that, Shen Aojun also acted in dramas such as "Love Baking House", "The Marriage of the Two of Us", "Midnight" and so on, she has gained a foothold in Beijing, and through the expression and shaping of the role, she has slowly come out of the pain.
At this time, her family and friends around her began to look for someone for her.
Originally, she wanted to go with the flow, but seeing that her family and friends were so enthusiastic and anxious, she thought: "Just meet each other, maybe you will meet a suitable one." ”
In this way, Shen Aojun embarked on the road of blind date, and she really met her exclusive happiness.
Before dating the diplomat's husband, Shen Aojun had already met three, but these three were not very reliable, and the meeting was like a fan meeting, eating and taking pictures.
Shen Aojun thought that if he was married back home like this, he had nothing to do, the seven aunts and eight aunts all said that they wanted to take a photo, take a photo, how to live this day, so the first three were scattered after eating, and there was no follow-up.
But the fourth one really regarded her as a blind date, and Shen Aojun ate quite nervously at that meal.
On the day of the meeting, Shen Aojun's first impression of the diplomat wearing a formal suit was: quite short, quite thick, and his face turned red as soon as he spoke.
Although it is not love at first sight, Shen Aojun has a good impression of the other party, and he understands each other more deeply after eating a meal.
It turned out that he was a Manchu, a descendant of The Qianlong Prince Yongyao, working in a certain country in the southern hemisphere, and the most important thing was that Shen Aojun felt that he was very sincere, and he did not regard himself as a star, but really regarded her as a blind date.
In this way, one fell in love at first sight, one had a good feeling, and after a period of time together, the two established a romantic relationship. Speaking of the experience of confession, Shen Aojun is quite satisfied with the diplomat's husband, although he will not say anything sweet, but he shows that he is still quite manly, which has won her heart.
However, because of the relationship between the two people working, they can only be in a different place for the time being.
At that time, one of them was in Beijing, one was in the southern hemisphere, and they could only convey their feelings to each other by telephone.
Shen Aojun said that he had become a global gold card, but most of them were related to quarrels.
Shen Aojun said that they would often quarrel, and when they came to the fire, they quarreled on the phone, but their feelings did not fade because of the quarrel, on the contrary, the more quarrelsome the better.
Shen Aojun's husband is reserved and does not speak love words, but he does it directly.
When Shen Aojun filmed "Latent", she was accompanied by her husband throughout the whole process, when they were still in love, he saved up two years of vacation and two months, and flew back to Beijing from the southern hemisphere to find Shen Aojun.
Unfortunately, the director just invited Shen Aojun to shoot "Latent".
At that time, Shen Aojun was very embarrassed, on the one hand was work, on the other hand was love, and if the job was lost, there could be more, but if people missed, they missed.
Stills from "Latent"
After much deliberation, Shen Aojun thought of a way to have the best of both worlds, and she decided to take him with her to "Latent".
One is to let him know about his work, and the other is that this is also a run-in period.
Shen Aojun's husband is very understanding and very supportive, so he accompanied Shen Aojun to shoot in the crew, and a romantic and sweet vacation originally planned became a "Hengdian Fifty-Five Day Tour".
However, for them who are in love, as long as they are with each other, no matter where they are, it is sweet, but this matter still makes Shen Aojun very moved, and their feelings have heated up rapidly.
Lu Yu said of Shen Aojun on the show: "I think you are really a person who was born to be a good wife. ”
This is not false at all, Shen Aojun's virtuousness and kindness, whoever marries her is the blessing of whoever marries her, although she is a big star, she is not arrogant at all, and she is particularly easy to satisfy, knowing how to understand and be grateful.
In the face of her husband's unromanticism and subtlety, Shen Aojun was not upset at all, and his face was full of happiness that could not be hidden.
Someone else's proposal may be to prepare a very romantic scene, ready to say something sweet, but he does not.
His marriage proposal ceremony is very different, it is directly back from the bag, throwing out a bare diamond wrapped in oil-skinned paper to Give to Shen Aojun, even if it is a marriage proposal.
But it's also very similar to his style, he said: "I don't know what style you like, you just take it yourself and set one, the number of carats of the patch is enough, there are two carats, it won't make you lose face." ”
Shen Aojun was crying and laughing at that time, so that others proposed marriage to wear the ring directly on his hand, and he would like to give you a stone directly.
However, Shen Aojun still felt very happy, because it was full of all his love for her, she knew that he was busy at work and did not have so much time to think about so many tricks, but he was still trying to show with practical actions, just this diamond cost him two years of salary.
After agreeing to her husband's marriage proposal, he went back to the southern hemisphere to get busy, leaving Shen Aojun alone to prepare for the wedding, but she did not complain at all, she understood her husband and was proud of his work.
Even she made plans, if he can't come back when taking wedding photos, he will ask his brother-in-law to do the work for him, and when the time comes, he will cut off his head and use PS technology P to go up.
Fortunately, in the end, he still squeezed out time to come back for three days, took wedding photos and went busy again.
Later, at the wedding, Shen Aojun was also ready alone, and he attended the wedding. Because of the special relationship of work, Shen Aojun protected her husband very well and never released any positive photos of him.
Shen Aojun and son
However, it can be seen that Shen Aojun is very happy after marriage, and when she mentions her husband, her eyes are full of stars.
And after the marriage, they also ended the long-distance, her husband applied to be transferred back to china to work, Shen Aojun was happy and would make him happy.
Once she said to him, "Husband, I want to spoil you like a Tang monk, and if you are good, I will always spoil you, and if you are not good, I will eat you."
Of course, Shen Aojun's husband is very good to her, entrusting everything in the family to her, savings and salary collections are handed over to her, and the most important thing is to support and understand her work.
After marriage, Shen Aojun once thought of suspending work and being her husband's xiannei helper, but he encouraged her to do her love.
Therefore, after giving birth to his son, Shen Aojun quickly came back and filmed film and television dramas such as "Tibet Secret", "Women Want to Live a Good Life", "Iron-Blooded Heroes", "Hu Qiaoying's Complaint", "Love You with a Lifetime", and won many post-film awards such as the Chinese TV Film Lily Award with "Hu Qiaoying's Complaint".
Later, as his son grew older, Shen Aojun gradually retired until he "disappeared" in 2016 and wholeheartedly lived the life of a husband and a godson.
For her son, Shen Aojun is not spoiled, although they have good material conditions, but in the treatment of her son's food and wearing toys, she is not extravagant and wasteful, and there is no difference with ordinary mothers.
And in life, she is also very low-key.
Since she retired, she has not even updated her social platform, and rarely appears in photos or short videos of friends.
But she has always lived a very happy life, and now she and her husband have been in love for 13 years, and her son is almost 12 years old.
She's about to catch up with her, but she's in great shape, not at all like a 45-year-old.
Still
Looking back at Shen Aojun's growth path, it is actually quite bumpy.
Especially the emotional road, first of all, the wrong payment of ten years of youth, and then blind date to happiness, and then experienced a long period of long-distance love, fortunately in the end, hard work, repair happiness, a family of three happy and harmonious.
In fact, a woman full of wisdom like Shen Aojun, no matter who she marries, she will be happy, and whoever marries her is a blessing.
She does not entangle, does not drag mud with water, does not discourage, gives full affection when she loves, turns away when she does not love, says goodbye to the past completely, has the courage to accept new love, and holds the light in the night and the steering wheel of happiness in her hands, which is remarkable.
Stills from "Secrets of Tibet"
I just don't know, in my lifetime,
Can you still see her comeback again, who looks so good and is very good at acting?
Let's talk about which of Shen Aojun's characters you love the most in the comments section. Finally, I would like to share a quote from The Reader:
"Companionship is warm, and it means that there are people in the world who are willing to give you the best thing, and that is time."
Companionship is the longest confession, man in this life,
The ones who accompany you the most are not your parents or children, but your lover.
I hope that you meet someone whose other half is a person who knows how to accompany and does it with practical actions.
Love begins with encounters and ends with companionship.
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