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Happy Marriage
In 2008, Shen Aojun met a mysterious diplomat "Anda". When she first met this Manchu man with the blood of the descendants of the Qianlong Emperor, she was attracted by his handsome and dashing face and well-mannered manners.
"Anda"'s tall and straight body and gentle temperament made Shen Aojun admire and feel very comfortable.
Shen Aojun once admitted in an exclusive interview that she pays more attention to whether a person is willing to sincerely pay and respect others than her appearance. The bits and pieces of getting along with "Anda" made her deeply feel the joy of being respected.
Even though "Anda" often flies abroad due to work needs and cannot always be by her side, it is this sense of distance that makes the relationship between the two more colorful and full of unknown surprises.
In 2009, under the careful planning of "Anda", Shen Aojun ushered in the most important moment of his life--- the step of marriage. "Anda" took out his salary saved for two years, bought a dazzling loose diamond, and sincerely proposed to Shen Aojun.
Faced with this affectionate gift, Shen Aojun was moved to tears. In order to create the most perfect scene for this wedding, Shen Aojun did it herself, even if it was an insignificant flower arrangement, she resolutely insisted on checking it personally.
Witnessed by many relatives and friends, the bride tearfully expressed her deep trust in her husband.
After getting married, Shen Aojun is still active on the screen, but she always tries to control her work rhythm and reduce her workload as much as possible, because she knows that her husband, who works abroad, is about to end his term of office and return to his warm home.
Finally, in anticipation, in September 2010, their long-awaited baby came to the world. People witnessed it again, Shen Aojun's screen image took on a new look, and the wonderful performance in the TV series "Secrets of Tibet" made the audience fall in love with it.
Even in 2014, Shen Aojun decided to temporarily withdraw from the entertainment industry in order to take care of her husband and children, but she still showed a strong love for her family. In the interview, she described her husband's place in her heart in a warm and affectionate passage, which made people feel the deep and lasting affection between the couple.
Shen Aojun's story has undoubtedly become a microcosm of modern married life, explaining how to find a balance between career and family and write a happy chapter in life.
Love experiences
In 2001, twenty-five-year-old Shen Aojun played the role of "Princess Gaoyang" in the TV series "The Legend of Heroes of the Sui and Tang Dynasties", and officially entered the showbiz with this opportunity.
At that time, she was in a passionate relationship with actor Nie Yuan, who debuted at the same time. Nie Yuan is the type who is born rebellious and rebellious since he was a child. During his school days, he acted in a reckless manner, fighting, drinking, and disorderly things.
And Shen Aojun is a typical well-behaved girl, who lives a carefree life under the careful care of her parents.
However, after five fruitful years of running the marathon of love, Shen Aojun's heart was stung by betrayal. It turned out that a year ago, Nie Yuan's heart had been poured by another girl, Liu Yun.
Shen Aojun, although his heart is miserable and tears blur his vision, he still shows the unique fortitude of a Northeast woman. That night, she packed her belongings without any delay and resolutely left the place that was once full of memories.
In the face of such betrayal, the love that was tried to be redeemed is no longer the same. Words like "stop loss in time", for Shen Aojun, she is just unwilling to reluctantly pursue those things that have long become impure.
This woman who counterattacked in love, after a painful and long breakup, after more than half a year of physical and mental adjustment, made a strong return and returned to her familiar acting career.
And at this time, there was another person who was quietly entering Shen Aojun's life--- this person was the diplomat "Anda" who had the blood of the descendants of the Qianlong prince.
Shen Aojun's encounter with "Anda" marks the beginning of another new chapter in her life.
In contrast, Nie Yuan, the male star who longed for marriage in the past and failed to get his wish, always seemed to treat emotional matters as child's play. Not long after breaking up with Shen Aojun, he fell in love with another actress, Liu Yun.
What's even more amazing is that he and Liu Yun are also inextricably linked with female characters such as Hu Ke, Nana, and Gillian during their companionship. Finally, after all kinds of twists and turns, he chose to enter the palace of marriage with actors Wang Hui and Qin Ziyue successively, but these marriages did not last long and ended in failure.
The relationship between Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan can be said to be a magnificent love epic. At the beginning, two people with very different personalities came together because of the opportunity of "The Legend of Heroes of the Sui and Tang Dynasties".
Shen Aojun poured out her love and trust in Nie Yuan, and even though the people around her repeatedly dissuaded her, she still adhered to her firm belief in this relationship. However, in the end, Nie Yuan betrayed Shen Aojun and chose to be with another woman.
Although Shen Aojun suffered great pain in this relationship, she did not sink into it, but chose to "stop the loss in time". After a painful and long breakup, she finally picked herself up and returned to her familiar acting career.
In contrast, Nie Yuan's subsequent emotional experience has been bumpy, constantly repeating the mistakes of the past, making people unable to see the slightest happiness and satisfaction. Perhaps, it was Shen Aojun's decision to choose to let go decisively that made her finally move towards her own happiness.
Acting career growth
In 1997, an advertiser was looking for a girl who could instantly feel good to shoot an advertisement for him. The god of luck seemed destined to let this noble man meet the beautiful Shen Aojun.
Although Shen Aojun was confused by all this, she accepted and completed the audition without hesitation. When filming officially started, she thought she was just partnering with an unknown star, but she never expected that she would have the honor to work with the superstar Aaron Kwok who was in full swing at the time.
This sudden and huge change seems to open a door to a wonderful world, and Shen Aojun began to secretly determine his future path ------ become an excellent actor.
During college, Shen Aojun was busy with her studies and daily training every day, and in order to better understand the various characters and plots in the movie, she held the script and studied it repeatedly, constantly honing her acting skills.
She also often asks her eldest sister and third sister for acting skills, without mentioning her income at all. Finally in 2001, Shen Aojun officially became popular with the role of "Princess Gaoyang" in the TV series "Tang Dynasty Love History", and this classical beauty with "moles painted between the eyebrows" became the focus of attention for a while.
Soon after, she successfully won the nomination honor of "Best Actress" at the 21st China TV Golden Eagle Awards with her wonderful performance of the proprietress of "Sai Xi Shi" in "Divine Doctor Xilaile".
Subsequently, she created the much-talked-about role of "Liu Xuer" in "The Criminal Officer of the Great Song Dynasty", and successfully ranked among the "classical beauties" in the limelight.
Despite these high affirmations from the industry, Shen Aojun's career progress speed has always been difficult to compare with Nie Yuan, who debuted in the same period.
However, Shen Aojun was not discouraged by this. She always firmly believes that as long as she waits for the opportunity, there will always be a discerning director who can discover the value of her own jade.
During this period, she not only accompanied Nie Yuan as a close friend, but also put a lot of effort into helping him in his daily life. Such a complete dedication made the friends around her worry that she would "make the other party pampered and arrogant, greedy and selfish".
2007 was a glorious period for Shen Aojun's career. The advent of many excellent works such as "Sentinel under the Neon Light", "Love Bakery", "Golden Wedding", "Midnight" and "The Marriage of the Two of Us" has made her a goddess in the hearts of the audience, and her popularity has risen rapidly.
This series of successes undoubtedly indicates that the actress has officially entered the peak of her career, and compared with Nie Yuan, her achievements are enough to arouse everyone's respect and admiration.
Shen Aojun's acting career can be said to be soaring all the way. From the first accidental advertising shooting, to the gradual establishment of the dream of an actor, to the popularity in "The Legend of Heroes of the Sui and Tang Dynasties", and finally to the peak of her career in 2007, her experience can be described as ups and downs.
Even in front of Nie Yuan, who debuted at the same time, he once seemed mediocre, but Shen Aojun always firmly believed in his potential, and with his own focus and hard work, he finally emerged in the entertainment industry and became a goddess in the eyes of the audience.
The growth process of such a powerful actor is undoubtedly very encouraging and inspiring. As long as you stick to your dreams and keep working hard, anyone can succeed.
As Shen Aojun said, as long as you wait for the opportunity, there will always be discerning directors who will discover their own value. The actress's wonderful life experience has undoubtedly become a model and benchmark for many dreamers.
Emotional entanglements
Nie Yuan is the type who is born rebellious and rebellious since he was a child. During his days of studying at the Shanghai Theater Academy, he acted without scruples, fighting, drinking, and chaos.
In 2000, during the filming of the TV series "The Wrong Sedan to Marry the Right Lang", he met and fell in love with the actress Huang Yi who came to listen to the class. The two are as sweet as sugar in love, but when they are angry, they don't care about their feelings, and even detonated a large-scale brawl in the crew, which made director Zhang Zien deeply distressed.
In the end, after the filming of the drama ended, Huang Yi and Nie Yuan had a bleak relationship, and the two chose to end their relationship. In an interview, Nie Yuan said frankly: "As actors, we need to work with the opposite sex for a long time to shoot, and talk about love in the play, how can there be no emotion outside the play?" At that time, Shen Aojun didn't know anything about this, and threw himself into the arms of this "bad boy" without hesitation.
However, in the five years that he has been in love with Shen Aojun, Nie Yuan's heart has been touched by another woman. It turned out that he had developed deep feelings for Liu Yun as early as a year ago.
Finally, in 2006, Nie Yuan chose to betray Shen Aojun and threw himself into Liu Yun's arms instead. In this regard, although Shen Aojun was sad in his heart, he still showed the unique fortitude of a Northeast woman, and left this relationship without delay.
Soon after the breakup, Nie Yuan fell in love with several other well-known actresses. Finally, after all kinds of twists and turns, he successively entered the palace of marriage with actors Wang Hui and Qin Ziyue.
However, none of these marriages lasted long and ended in failure.
In contrast, Shen Aojun, who was abandoned by Nie Yuan back then, ushered in another peak in his life after a painful breakup. Not only did she achieve remarkable results in her acting career, but she also met the "Anda" that she fell in love with.
The two knew each other and fell in love, and finally entered the palace of marriage.
Nie Yuan's emotional experience is full of twists and turns and sadness. has had an irresponsible attitude towards feelings since he was at the Shanghai Theater Academy, and even when he was dating Shen Aojun, he was bent on another woman.
Even after the breakup, he still fell into various emotional entanglements over and over again, and eventually the marriage broke down many times.
In contrast, Shen Aojun, who was abandoned by him back then, successfully walked out of that painful relationship and found his own happiness. Not only has she made great strides in her career, but she has also met a husband "Anda" who is compatible with her insight.
The two supported each other and moved forward hand in hand, achieving an enviable happy marriage.
Perhaps it was Shen Aojun's decisive decision to let go that made her finally find true happiness. And Nie Yuan's wavering emotional attitude has only been exchanged for marriage failures again and again.
The two people's completely different life experiences have undoubtedly become contrasting educational readings.
Comparing the life trajectories of Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan, it is not difficult to see that transforming love into marriage requires not only love and courage, but more importantly, mutual understanding, respect and firm self-control ability between men and women to resist the temptations of the outside world.
With his own strength and perseverance, Shen Aojun finally found his own happiness after experiencing a painful relationship. She married a diplomat "Anda" who had the lineage of a descendant of the Qianlong Emperor, and the two supported each other, grew up together, and created an enviable happy marriage.
In contrast, Nie Yuan has always regarded feelings as child's play, and has had complex relationships with many women, which eventually led to frequent breakdowns in marriages.
Shen Aojun knows how to cherish the happiness in front of her, even if her husband is often not around, she can accept it calmly, which makes the relationship between the two more colorful. But Nie Yuan has never been able to extricate himself from all kinds of emotional entanglements, and in the end he can only exchange for failed marriages again and again.
Perhaps it was Shen Aojun's brave decision to let go at the beginning that allowed her to successfully find her true happiness.
The very different life experiences of the two people have left us with a profound inspiration. If you want to manage love into a happy marriage, you need not only sincere love for each other, but also understanding, respect and self-restraint on both sides.
Only with these qualities can we write a moving chapter of happiness together.