In "Golden Marriage", Tong Zhi's spiritual derailment object Li Tianjiao, a high-ranking cadre's son, looks no worse than Wen Li, and is more technical management at work, with excellent skills, it can be said that she is an excellent woman in all aspects.
But why does a near-perfect woman know how to do three things and do things that destroy other people's families? And is it still Tong Zhi, an ordinary man who looks like a technical backbone in the factory on the surface, but in fact comes from an ordinary background and has a messy family?
It is said that God is fair, not giving you talent will give you beauty, not giving you beauty will give you a good family, not giving you a good family will also compensate you in another way, always in order to close the door will remember to leave you a window. Although it is a chicken soup with a little poison, after all, some people really win at the starting line from an early age, beauty and talent coexist, and a smooth life. But for most people, it is true that it is not so good, it will be that good. In short, flaws are more proud of themselves.
Although Li Tianjiao won at the starting line and achieved good results in his efforts, he was not a person who was very cared for by heaven! Her marriage was unhappy and her ex-husband didn't like her at all. In her words "she's not a woman"
Maybe once she, like most women, wanted to be a little woman who was a husband and a godson, circling around her husband's children. But the ex-husband did not give her this opportunity and used cold violence to destroy the woman's fantasy of marriage. The failure of her marriage left her with a sense of presence in her career.
Until I met Tong Zhi, who was a technical backbone in the factory, had a happy family, and was relatively good and stable. Maybe Tong Zhi just happens to be the type she likes, or she and Tong Zhi themselves are the same kind of people, or the competitive factor inside makes her feel that a woman like Wen Li who has several children and is no longer beautiful can have such a good husband and a happy family, why can't she have it?
Anyway, she was moved, and it just so happened that the man didn't refuse, so what reason did she have not to take it.
Speaking of which, Li Tianjiao's appearance is very cold, because she does not wear a hat, because she has worked in a workshop for a long time, Tong Zhi has not remembered her, and she has a big opinion of this direct superior. However, they became very familiar with each other for a short period of time later. Those who don't know think they are old acquaintances.
It is said that flies do not sting seamless eggs, although Wen Li's emotional intelligence is worrying, she knows that she is noisy and noisy when things happen, turn small things into big things, and hide back to her mother's house to escape if she does not handle them well. Let the old problems always exist, and any small thing can become the fuse for turning over the old accounts, until the family atmosphere is getting worse and worse, and the feelings of the husband and wife are becoming more and more indifferent.
But no matter how problematic Wen Li's expression is, there is one thing she is very right about. Why is it that the rumors of Li Tianjiao and Tong Zhi are coming out of the factory, not Dazhuang or other men.
Yeah, why? Tong Zhi must have felt that he was very innocent, and even brazenly felt that it was because of his excellence that he attracted the little girl, and he was complacent. But he never thought that it was because his sense of no boundary gave the other party a chance. If Li Tianjiao goes to hook up with Dazhuang, can he hook up? Absolutely not. Technically, maybe Dazhuang is indeed inferior to Tong Zhi, but looking at people and dealing with people and dealing with people, even a fraction of Dazhuang is not comparable.
Although Dazhuang is careful, he only looks for the same kind, and like him, he only jokes and plays with people like him. "Such a person, once he moves the true feelings, will have to bear fruit" Li Tianjiao is real, and Da Zhuang will never touch it. He hated his chaff, but he couldn't give up his son, and he knew the importance of a complete family. From the moment he got married, no matter how much he played, he never thought of spending money to other women, no matter how much he spent his heart, he never thought of abandoning his wife and children and scattering his family.
I remember once a big brother who was also very playful when he was young, and said to us little girls who just came out, "Women walk in front of our men, whether they are conservative or exposed, we men know what kind of women are easy to hook up with, you live a solid life, when we are not ready to marry a wife, we will not stir up"
Although it may be a little paranoid, it has to be said that people have magnetic fields, and what you show to others, others will know if they can get what they want from you. As a man who is married and has several children, when you meet a young and beautiful girl who takes the initiative to post it, your first reaction is not to firmly pull away, which proves that you are a problematic man. Didn't Wen Li attract young male teachers after marriage? Why didn't Wen Li make a scandal? In the end, the problem is still with Tong Zhi. It is he who gives the other party the opportunity to get closer again and again, and it is he who makes the other party believe that his purpose can be achieved.
As a high-ranking intellectual, Zhi San Dang San, somehow, suddenly found the reason why she was not loved by her ex-husband, and why was a woman who did not have principles in doing so be loved? Because you are injured, you hurt others, take the initiative to break up others, what about conscience? What about the bottom line of being human? What about the dignity of women? When Yanni called her home because of her grandmother's serious illness, the person was next to her, and she could even brazenly say "How can your father be here with me" really felt that this pair of dog men and women was a perfect match, in terms of shamelessness.
Those who do not love themselves will not be cherished in the end, you have gone to the truth of delinquency, who can save you. Marriage failure is not a big deal, after all, many people have encountered it, but their own marriage failure, go to mix with other people's marriages, this is a matter of character. Even if this man is really got by you, you will end up in the same situation in the future. After all, there is a hundredth time you cheat on the first time, and you succeed, not because you are capable, but because the man himself is scum.
Or in the depths of Li Tianjiao's heart, she just wants to show her charm and prove that she has enough capital to have love, but love is love, and marriage is two different things. People like her who are not willing to destroy other people's families are afraid that they will not be able to manage their marriage well in their lifetime. At least she can't do the fidelity of marriage, let alone the unilateral efforts of accommodation, tolerance, tolerance, understanding, suffering and sharing.
People, especially women, must first learn to respect themselves and love themselves before they can be loved. If you don't allow yourself to be precious, how can you be cherished!
Vent unwillingly, there are many ways, don't do things that hurt others in the name of love, those who insult others will humiliate themselves, and the same is true for those who hurt people!
On the road of life, we must learn to live frankly!