Introduction of Shen Aojun
Shen Aojun, an actor cultivated by an ordinary and warm family. Although her parents were in poor conditions, they took good care of her and her sisters, never stingy with smiles and encouragement.
The three elder sisters are even more spoiled by the little sister, and they care for them meticulously. A piece of candy will give up most of it to Shen Aojun, for fear that she will suffer a loss and be wronged. This unique friendship between brothers and sisters warmed Shen Aojun's growth process.
Perhaps it was the care of his family that inspired Shen Aojun's interest and dream of acting. She is eager to shine on stage and unleash her passion. After graduating from high school, she mustered up the courage to apply for the China Theatre Academy, which was the first step on her artistic path.
Since entering the school, Shen Aojun has studied Xi diligently, and finally became a professional actor with his strength and hard work.
After graduating from university, Shen Aojun joined an ordinary art troupe. There are no dazzling lights and applause, only repetitive performances and days of bitterness.
The companions cheered each other on, and Shen Aojun also sharpened his acting skills and accumulated experience in performances again and again. Finally, in the play "Love History of the Tang Dynasty", Shen Aojun's opportunity came.
She brilliantly interpreted a small role in the play, successfully stood out and became a blockbuster. This made her first success as an actress.
Met and fell in love with Nie Yuan
"The Love History of the Tang Dynasty" not only made Shen Aojun famous in one fell swoop, but also allowed her to meet him who is important in her life. Nie Yuan, a handsome and golden young actor. When they met for the first time, Shen Aojun was impressed by his deep eyes and perfect face, and his heart was beating.
During the joint performance, Nie Yuan was considerate and often took care of Shen Aojun, who was easy to get lost. Once it was difficult to eat, he offered to solve three meals together; After everyone carnivaled, he slowly returned home with the drunk and hazy Shen Aojun...... All kinds of warmth made Shen Aojun deeply overwhelmed.
may be the high degree of compatibility between acting skills and life, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up. There is nothing but each other in their eyes. Outside of work, they are always inseparable.
Walking in the park, drinking tea and talking, climbing and outing, all the romance and sweetness have belonged. Shen Aojun was like a sincere girl, trembling and waiting for love to come to her.
In the end, Nie Yuan mustered up the courage to officially confess his feelings to her, and the news of the relationship between the two spread far and wide.
Love has been running for five years, and the marriage of the two is also on the agenda. Shen Aojun even bought the marriage house of the two in advance, thinking about the most romantic way to propose. However, at this moment, there was a rift in the relationship between the two.
I don't know for what reason, Nie Yuan's attitude suddenly changed one hundred and eighty degrees, and he finally chose to break up. This hit Shen Aojun hard, and she fell into unprecedented pain and self-blame.
Fortunately, her family and confidants patiently pulled her, and Shen Aojun regained her strength, ready to get out of the shadow of this relationship.
Reinvigorate and brave love
After breaking up with Nie Yuan, Shen Aojun chose to immerse himself in work and forget about this painful past for the time being. However, as she grows 32 years old, her family and friends are anxious for her to find her partner again.
After going on blind dates again and again, Shen Aojun had physical and emotional resistance to marriage, worried that he would be hurt again.
Just when she almost gave up, a diplomat appeared. is not as tall and handsome as other blind dates, he has a mediocre appearance, but his gestures are gentle and introverted.
The two hit it off at first sight, and after getting along three or five times, Shen Aojun regained his long-lost heartbeat. She seems to have returned to her girlhood, full of longing and expectation for love.
The diplomat's busy work did not affect his dedication to Shen Aojun. After the two got married, everything went well, and a lovely son was added to the sweet life. Whenever he was entangled in official business and couldn't accompany him, he would rush home thousands of miles away to accompany his wife and children for a walk and shopping.
Shen Aojun felt the long-lost sense of security and satisfaction, she once again regained the ability to love and be loved, obtained the sublimation of life, and lived a more and more wonderful life.
Now she is 46 years old, but she is still young and spoiled by her husband and son. She began to learn to enjoy the present and stop giving up on herself because of the pain of the past.
Shen Aojun looks forward to a better future and deserves to be treated gently by the world.
Inspiration from life experiences
From Shen Aojun's growth process, we can deeply understand many truths in life.
First of all, an ordinary and warm family is the cradle of great souls. The care and encouragement of her parents and brothers established Shen Aojun's basic trust in the world, making her dare to pursue her dreams and move forward bravely.
At the same time, the unique friendship between siblings also made her feel that there was someone behind her back in times of hardship, so as to maintain her fighting spirit and hope. This family cohesion and the power of concentric circles are the cornerstones of her success.
Secondly, the development of the road of performing arts is full of thorns and bumps. Big ups and downs, ups and downs. Shen Aojun repeatedly played tricks during the art troupe, accumulated acting skills and experience, and sharpened his will and perseverance.
It is this series of experiences that make her stand out, make the water that has always been calm begin to boil, and finally achieve the peak of her life. Later, she also learned to accept these trials with joy and gratitude.
Moreover, in terms of love, Shen Aojun has experienced all the tastes. and Nie Yuan broke up and reunited, and the breakup after the marriage proposal made her experience a huge emotional drop. This is perhaps the greatest pain of her life.
However, with the help of family and friends, she regained her strength and found another gentle confidant. The choice of a partner is based on emotional attraction, but it also requires sober and rational judgment.
Only when the two hearts are truly compatible, the effort and understanding are proportional, and the sweetness of marriage can withstand the baptism of wind and rain.
In the end, when she was proud of her career and family, and her life was happy, we saw a brand-new Shen Aojun. She has learned to be grateful and content, to enjoy the present day positively, rather than reminiscing about the past with resentment.
She also finally understood the true meaning of life: attitude is everything. Only by choosing what kind of mindset to face the world and feeling comfortable from the depths of our hearts can we live an open life and achieve happiness.