Yu Hewei is a famous Chinese actor,
He has starred in many classic works such as "Three Kingdoms", "Next Stop Marriage", "I Am Not Pan Jinlian", "The Legend of Chu Han", "The Army Division Alliance of The Great Army Division Sima Yi", "The Age of Awakening" and so on.
Won the best actor in Feitian, Huading and Magnolia.
Yu Hewei belongs to the actors who became late in the world,
Although the acting skills are online, but in the early years, there has been no opportunity to show,
At the low point of my career, I once wanted to give up,
Fortunately, his wife Song Linjing has always been with him,
Become his spiritual pillar and accompany him out of the dark times.
Song Linjing was born in Fushun, Liaoning Province.
Her parents loved her very much, and she was the "little princess" in the family.
Because she loved dancing, she learned to dance from an early age, and at that time, she dreamed every day that when she grew up, she could wear a beautiful dress and dance on the big stage.
Song Linjing has been working hard towards this goal, and finally entered the Fushun City Song and Dance Troupe with excellent results and became a dancer in the troupe.
That day, Song Linjing went to the song and dance troupe to report that she met a big boy on the upper floor of the dormitory.
Out of courtesy, she smiled slightly at the senior, but she did not expect that this smile directly reached the boy's heart, and her fate also changed.
Just a few days after work, Song Linjing often met the big boy on the way back to the dormitory,
What's even stranger is that one day, the big boy confessed to her directly after her performance,
In the face of the sudden confession, Song Linjing was frightened and quickly shook her head and refused.
Later, Song Linjing learned that the big boy's name was Yu Hewei.
Yu Hewei was born in 1971 to a poor family in Fushun City, Liaoning Province.
His father died when he was 3 years old, and his mother pulled a large family by selling roasted sweet potatoes.
Yu Hewei is the ninth oldest in the family, there are 8 older brothers and sisters in the family, and the eldest sister is 24 years older than Yu Hewei.
When his mother gave birth to him, she did not have milk on her body because she was old.
It happened that during that time, the eldest sister gave birth to a daughter, and she milked Yu Hewei for a while.
As the youngest child in the family, although the family is poor, the family tries their best to give him the best.
The family did not have money to go to school, the sisters took the initiative to quit school, saving tuition to let Yu Hewei go to school,
However, Yu Hewei's academic performance was not good, he failed the middle school examination twice, was admitted to Fushun Preschool Normal School for the third time, and worked as a music teacher in a primary school after graduation.
After that, he became interested in literature and entered the Fushun Repertory Theatre as an actor.
In 1992, when Yu Hewei first met Song Linjing in the troupe, he was attracted by her sweet smile.
Yu Hewei was moved, so he often observed her action route in the regiment, waiting on the road to her path in advance, and creating some occasional encounters from time to time.
Later, through many days of coincidence, Yu Hewei felt more and more that this little girl was beautiful and sunny, and he liked her more and more.
But at that time, Song Linjing didn't pay much attention to him at all, and he himself knew that this kind of thing couldn't be too anxious, so he buried his liking for her in his heart first.
Once Yu Hewei went to see Song Linjing's dance performance, watching her dancing on the stage, beautiful face and graceful movements,
Yu Hewei was attracted to all eyes, his eyes moved with Song Linjing's movements, and at that moment he secretly swore in his heart, "I like her, I must marry her."
In this way, Yu Hewei boldly confessed to Song Linjing, although he was rejected first, he did not give up.
After expressing his heart, he launched a fierce pursuit of Song Linjing,
Often go to the canteen in advance to make Song Linjing's favorite meals,
Returning home from vacation, Yu Hewei sent her home first and then went home by himself every time.
After a period of getting along, Song Linjing has made some changes to Hewei.
She felt that Yu Hewei was very mature and warm, and the two naturally walked together.
As soon as the two established a relationship, Yu Hewei told Song Linjing about the situation in his home.
I thought that Song Linjing would be a little disgusted with his family situation, but I didn't expect that he not only did not dislike it, but also expressed his heartache for what happened to him when he was a child.
Although Song Linjing did not mind his family, after her parents learned that their daughter had found a poor boy, they were resolutely opposed: "You said that you are so good to find someone who is not good, you have to look for him".
But Song Linjing is admitting to death, "I just like him, I will not marry him in this life."
After Yu Hewei learned of Song Linjing's thoughts, his heart was very moved,
In order not to let his girlfriend clash with his family, he decided to make changes to make himself better so that he could be worthy of her.
The reason why Yu Hewei went to the drama troupe was because he loved acting.
So in order to continue to study acting, Yu Hewei decided to go to Shanghai to develop.
He told his family about the idea of going to shanghai to go to university, but was opposed by his mother.
Because the family simply did not have the extra money to pay for his tuition.
Song Linjing knew the situation of her boyfriend's family, so she took out her savings and gave them to Yu Hewei.
And personally went to persuade his family to say the benefits of learning acting, saying that "acting" is Yu Hewei's dream.
In the end, Yu Hewei's sister was moved and sold the piano of the children in the family to him to collect the tuition.
In 1992, Yu Hewei was admitted to the theater with excellent results.
On the day of school, Song Linjing was reluctant to send him to the train, and as soon as the car started, Song Linjing's tears flowed uncontrollably.
When she got home, she locked herself in her room and cried into tears,
After crying enough, she began to write letters to Yu Hewei, writing down her thoughts about him, and every day after work, she would go to see if there was a reply from her in the mailbox.
But the strange thing is that the letter sent by Song Linjing is like a stone sinking into the sea, and it has not been replied to.
Friends around her said to her, "There are so many beautiful girls in college, Yu Hewei must have changed his mind."
Although Song Linjing did not want to believe what her friend said, the letter she wrote to him has not been replied to, and she is very aggrieved and angry in her heart.
So the angry Song Linjing took up a pen and wrote a letter: "Comrade Yu Hewei, I know that you are very busy, if you are inconvenient to reply to the letter, then never reply."
In fact, the fact is not that Yu Hewei changed his mind, but that as soon as he opened the school, he was arranged by the school to go outside for military training for half a month.
After returning to school and finding Song Linjing's letter, he learned that she was angry, and quickly wrote to her to explain and apologize to him.
Song Linjing is not an unreasonable person, it is a little girl who has a temper tantrum,
Seeing Yu Hewei's sincere apology, she also forgave him.
The misunderstanding between the two is solved, and the relationship is more firm and firm than before.
Song Linjing knows that yu and Wei are most relieved to go out of the house is his mother, the older brothers and sisters in the family have married one after another, and the care of the elderly is naturally negligent.
Song Lin jing loves Wu and Wu, and is also very good to Hewei's mother.
At that time, Yu Hewei went to Shanghai to study, and he could still get a salary of 150 yuan in the regiment.
Yu Hewei gets a salary every month, and he will keep 20 for his mother.
Song Linjing knows that the price of goods in Shanghai is relatively high, coupled with the fact that men have a good face outside, there are more places to spend money.
So every time she helped Yu Hewei get a salary, she would send him a lot of his money and take 20 yuan from her salary to Give to Yu Hewei's mother.
Not only that, she would go to visit Yu Hewei's mother with various supplements and fruits every once in a while, and chat with the elderly to relieve boredom.
Since her money is spent on Hewei's mother, Song Linjing has no extra money in her hands, and she can save it usually.
The clothes in the picture, after seeing it several times, are reluctant to buy,
When you buy vegetables, go to the market to buy the cheapest dishes of the day,
In the summer, the body is so hot that it is soaked with sweat, the thirst is so thirsty that the throat is about to smoke, and I am not willing to buy myself a popsicle,
At that time, she thought to herself, "If you can save it, go home and drink water again",
What Song Linjing did, she was afraid that Hewei would not go in her heart, and she had been hiding from him.
People's hearts are all flesh long, Song Linjing's kindness to Hewei's mother, the old man has always looked in the eyes,
She felt that her son was going to school outside and was very unfair to the little girl.
Once Yu Hewei came home from vacation, she said to her son, "Son, do you have to go to school for four years, Jing Jing this child is very good, you ask you if you have two years, if you have, go directly to junior college, come back early and don't delay other girls."
Yu Hewei told Song Linjing word for word about his mother's words, and Song Linjing was very touched after listening to it.
She also hopes to end the long-distance as soon as possible, but "acting" is Yu Hewei's dream, and she can't let him study college for himself, so she refuses to change his major to Yu Hewei.
Since Yu Hewei couldn't come back early, she went to Shanghai to find him.
Just at that time, the Shanghai Theater Academy was recruiting a training class for table directors, and if they were admitted, the two could just graduate in the same year.
It's just that if Song Linjing goes to Shanghai, it means giving up her years of dancing.
But at that time, she didn't want to be separated from Yu Hewei for a moment.
So she resolutely left the song and dance troupe and applied for the Shanghai Theater Academy.
In 1994, Song Linjing was admitted to the opera with excellent dance skills and became Yu Hewei's student sister.
A pair of lovers who love each other finally stop being "long-distance" and are happy together.
The two went to school, got out of class, ate, played, and soon two years passed.
In 1996, the two graduated together to enter the Nanjing Military Region Frontline Drama Troupe.
Yu Hewei, who has just graduated, is full of enthusiasm and is ready to use the knowledge and theory he has learned to do a big job, but it is counterproductive.
For various reasons, Yu Hewei's talent has not been seen by everyone,
When performing, he can only act as a green leaf on the stage, and when he is not needed, he can only watch them rehearse offstage.
And his classmates at the same time, have long been into the crew, starring in the works step by step, the wallet is also drummed up, bought a new car, a new house,
And some of these classmates did not have as good grades as him in school.
Faced with this situation, Yu Hewei was deeply shocked and frowned all day.
On the other hand, Song Linjing,who just joined the troupe, was invited to participate in the rehearsal of the play, and without rehearsing the play, she would go to the director's assistant and did not idle for a moment.
The huge difference between the two makes Yu Hewei more depressed, and he is sullen and unhappy every day.
He also made changes, but the effect was not significant, and over time, he had self-doubts "Am I really suitable for this line of work, maybe I am not suitable for acting",
Gradually, Yu Hewei had the idea of giving up, he no longer got up early, nor did he want to practice basic skills and watch rehearsals.
Boyfriend's unambitiousness, Song Linjing has been looking in the eyes, she constantly said to him" You can't give up, now give up the previous efforts will not be in vain, you just have not ushered in your era, I believe you, must be able to",
She pulled Yu Hewei up early to watch other people's rehearsals, and discussed with him the advantages of the actor and what was worth learning.
In the company of Song Linjing, Yu Hewei regained his strength and was full of hope for acting.
He was waiting for an opportunity, an opportunity that would allow him to show.
In 1999, Yu Hewei waited for this opportunity, and the TV series "Cao Cao" found him and invited him to play the role of Xun Yu.
With this role, Yu Hewei officially entered the show business circle,
After the shooting, he got a salary of 400 yuan, and the first time he got the money, he proposed to Song Linjing.
In the face of Hewei's marriage proposal, Song Linjing nodded in agreement after being moved.
In love, I am beautiful and my career is also thriving,
Yu Hewei has starred in many works such as "Provincial Party Secretary", "Wang Ji Food Stall", "Big House Gate 2", "Hitchhiking" and so on.
Watching her husband's career getting better and better, Song Linjing was happy for him.
There are unpredictable storms in the sky, and Yu Hewei's mother is getting worse and worse as she grows older.
At that time, Yu Hewei had just received an invitation from the crew of "Criminal Police Captain",
He knew that he might never see his mother again after he left, but the crew kept urging.
On the one hand, the whole crew, on the other hand, his own mother, Yu Hewei fell into a deep entanglement,
Song Linjing, who saw that her husband was entangled, took the initiative to take on the burden of taking care of her mother-in-law and said to him: "You go to film, everything in the family has me."
After Yu Hewei listened, he immediately threw himself into the filming, thinking "Finish filming early, come back early to see your mother",
Although Song Linjing takes care of her mother-in-law like her own mother, she helps her wipe her body every day and makes nutritious meals for her.
But the mother-in-law was unable to survive after all, and passed away.
When his mother died, Yu Hewei was still filming, and Yu Hewei, who had not been able to see the last side of his mother, was immersed in the grief of losing his mother every day.
Looking at her husband's sad look, Song Linjing was very distressed and had been by his side to comfort and enlighten him.
After some time, Song Linjing found that Yu Hewei was still sullen, so she thought of using another thing to distract him, so she said to him, "We want a child."
Soon after, Song Linjing became pregnant, and when she learned that Yu Hewei, who was about to become a father, her inner pain was slowly healed by her unborn child.
Yu Hewei also ushered in a turning point in his career at this time,
Director Ghosh invited him to star in the villain Wangu monument in "The Sky of History", and he won everyone's recognition for his superb acting skills.
After that, he successively starred in many masterpieces such as "On the Cliff" and "The Age of Awakening".
And won the Magnolia Emperor in one fell swoop, becoming the representative of the powerful actors.
Her husband has achieved such a good achievement, Song Linjing is happy for him,
After the birth of her daughter, she focused on the family and concentrated on her husband and children at home.
Keep the home in order, so that Yu Hewei has no worries about filming outside.
When Yu Hewei was usually not working, the family of three often went out to travel and have a meal, and the family was very happy together.
In his acting career, the first half has been tepid,
At the low point of life, Song Linjing has always been with him and has not abandoned, becoming his spiritual pillar.
Now the two have walked hand in hand for decades, still in love as before, and the love between the two is enviable.