From the moment you are born, what bowl to serve, what to eat, what to experience, when to marry whom, are all fixed, don't be too embarrassed about yourself, just go with the flow. The script of life has long been read in heaven, and the reason why you chose this script is because there is something in this life that you think is worthwhile.
If you want to leave your person, you might as well push him.
Excessive sobriety will make people feel cold and indifferent, excessive intoxication, and will make people feel superficial and confused, so the perfect life should be left half sober and half drunk.
Cultured people have two abilities: good speech and emotional stability.
When people face great happiness, they suddenly become very timid, and it is actually more necessary to grasp happiness than to endure pain
Be courageous.
A woman's life begins at the age of 30. Before, it was all illusion, the pursuit of youth, but a temporary game. After the age of 30, fate will eventually be responsible for yourself. In this life of a woman, birth affects you for twenty years, appearance affects you for thirty years, only wisdom affects your life, and a woman's success begins: she understands how she can be a real woman!
Wherever people gather in the world, there are nothing more than three topics to talk about: showing off oneself in a roundabout way, belittling others with oil and vinegar, and manipulating right and wrong by spying on each other.
A person's first reaction to an incident hides his knowledge, insight, character and cultivation, and this reaction also determines his quality of life.
Forgiveness is not because of a wide heart, but because of reluctance, not forgiveness, not necessarily because sin is unforgivable, just because the heart has left, true feelings, will certainly make people soft. But any emotion that has nothing to do with softness is just an illusion. When a person insists on not forgiving you, there is no need to say more, the indestructible heart, everything, except for the lack of love, another name of love, called compromise.
We lose some, we gain some, and God is fair.
Everyone is waiting for something, waiting for a person to turn back, waiting for a person to appear, waiting for themselves to be relieved, waiting for the spring to blossom, waiting for the lights to shine. If you can wait until you want it, you don't waste time.
In the face of life's problems, some people choose to blame, some people choose to face together, the former is still quarreling, the latter has solved the problem.
Truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward, and never reserved; their sarcasm is only a mental game, not directed at the self-esteem of others.
My backer has always been myself, my bad emotions are all digested by myself, and the person who can support me is the invincible self in my heart.
Don't be a proud person, learn to respect others, in order to make your own road wider and wider.
Try more different lives, an interesting person, will not be willing to live a life that is unchanged, but will set different annual goals, challenge one by one, and grow.
Ask yourself every night before going to bed, what did you do today? Where can I optimize? Doing better? Regularly review, draw a satisfactory end to each day, and make your progress more visual.