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The TV series "Heart Residence" finally has a big ending, and unlike the usual reunion ending, this drama gives an open result:
The emotional line of the protagonist is not determined, and everyone can expand their imagination to make up for it.
Of course, this is not a love drama, but a life drama that explores all kinds of social issues.
For example, pensions.
In the final episode, there is a shot that may make everyone with an elderly family feel a tight snap.
It was Gu Qingyu who had something to do when he went home, and after opening the door, he found that the vast three-room and one hall were quiet, and his father was leaning on a chair on the balcony alone, motionless.
In the barrage, it can be seen that some viewers already have a bad premonition.
Of course, he was just asleep.
But each of us knows in our hearts that the things we are worried about are not impossible.
02
Gu Qingyu was not unfilial, she invited her father to live at home for a while, but was refused.
Father said he didn't want to mess with her.
In fact, even if her father moved to her house, most of the time he was still alone at home, and sleeping alone in a chair would not still happen?
My daughter was so busy at work, overtime was commonplace, and she didn't have much time to spend with him.
In addition, if you go to an unfamiliar environment, it is better to go to your own home and your own community, and you can also meet familiar neighbors when you go out.
The loneliness of the old man is actually inexplicable.
03
The state of Gu Qingyu's father is actually a true portrayal of the old man under the sky.
Don't say anything else, say it's my mother, she is also a person, living in her own four houses in her hometown.
At most, she lived in our family of seven, and only she was left.
She is reluctant to go to the homes of any of her children, first, because she herself finds it inconvenient, and on the other hand, she is afraid that we will not be convenient.
My brother is in the village, and every day it will pass a few times, and all we can do is go home every weekend or holiday.
The rest of the time, it can only be a phone call every day, listening to her mother repeat the words that have been said countless times, so that she does not feel lonely in the tens of minutes of the call.
Most of the time, mom was looking at the empty rooms, watching TV, listening to the radio, and wiping the already spotless furniture.
I don't know why, every time the wind and rain are not good, I always think of the poem of Zheng Banqiao:
Ya Zhai lay down to listen to Xiao Xiaozhu, suspected to be the voice of folk suffering.
It is different from what Zheng Banqiao thinks, but the mood is exactly the same.
If it is at night, I often wake up in a dream, open my eyes, look at the ceiling, and feel afraid and helpless.
04
What should people do when they are old?
The answer given in the TV series is that with the help of Gu Qingyu, Feng Xiaoqin bought gu's father's downstairs house.
In this way, it is convenient for Feng Xiaoqin to take care of her father-in-law, and also allows the elderly to see their grandchildren often.
In the future, there is also a "nursing home" opened by Feng Xiaoqin that can be visited.
But in reality, there are not many families like the Gu family that are not bad for money or bad people, and it is even more difficult to find a virtuous daughter-in-law like Feng Xiaoqin.
And even if it is on TV, even if Feng Xiaoqin moves to the downstairs of her father-in-law with her child, loneliness will be the norm for Mr. Gu Lao, sitting bored on the chair on the balcony, unconsciously falling asleep, and such things will happen.
Because Feng Xiaoqin wants to work and earn money to provide mortgages, it is impossible to accompany her day and night.
It is already very good to be able to go over and see it sooner or later.
05
The old people in the play are the way our parents are, and they are also the way we look in the future.
Each of us, growing up in companionship, will grow old in loneliness.
Perhaps, this is also a law of nature.
We can't think of a better way than to live close to our children, other than to choose a nursing home with as good conditions as possible.
Really, when I saw the tv footage of Gu Father asleep in a chair, my heart stung.
Because that lonely back is everywhere in life.
Pearl Whisper, from the dual perspective of teachers and parents to look at education, to answer the educational confusion of adolescents and parents.