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In the face of men's extramarital affairs, women always feel that as long as they are willing to forgive each other and let each other return to the family, then the other party must be grateful to themselves.
Women always think too well of men, feel that they have forgiven their husbands for their betrayal, then the husband will certainly feel guilty about her, and in the days to come, the husband will definitely repent and be willing to live a good life with her. There are also such men, but not all of them.
There are always some men who are different, they never feel that their extramarital affairs are wrong, they feel that extramarital affairs are the behavior that men will have, but other men do it secretly and are not discovered, and they, that is unlucky, will be discovered.
Therefore, their return to the family, which is also short-lived, will still be used to having extramarital affairs afterwards.
Everyone should know that this kind of man does not have any repentance for his wife after returning to the family, and the reason why men have no intention of repentance is because of the following three reasons.
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First: There is no affection for his wife.
After returning to the family, a man still has no remorse for his wife, which can only mean that he has no feelings for his wife.
If a man has feelings for his wife, he will never allow himself to hurt his wife again and again. If he has feelings for his wife, then he absolutely cannot bear to hurt her for the second time.
Because after a hurt, he saw his wife's pain and understood how much his behavior had hurt his wife, so even if he thought that his behavior was not wrong, he would choose not to make the same mistake because he took into account his wife's feelings.
Of course, this is what happens when a man has feelings for his wife, but not all men have feelings for their wives, and some men have no feelings for their wives.
Because he does not care, so after he returns to the family, he will not have any repentance for his wife, and after he has extramarital feelings, his wife's painful appearance, he cannot empathize, he only feels that his wife has a lot of things and is annoyed.
Therefore, even if he returns to the family, he will still be the same as before, he will not please his wife, and he will not think about doing something to make up for his mistakes. And home, for him, is a place to come and go when he wants. Therefore, when he meets the object of his choice again, he will still choose to have an affair outside marriage without any psychological burden.
Will the wife be uncomfortable? Will the wife be miserable? What does that have to do with him. That's what this type of person thinks. Therefore, this kind of man who has no feelings for his wife, when they want to return to the family, the wife still does not accept it as well, this kind of person will only be bad to keep.
Even if such a person returns to the family, then he will still have an affair outside marriage again and again, and he will not care about his wife's feelings at all, and living with this kind of man all the time is simply to find guilt for himself.
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Second: No sense of responsibility towards the family.
A man who has no sense of responsibility for his family will return to his family and will not have any remorse for his wife. This kind of man is best to quickly get rid of his own life, only in this way, your life will have another possibility, otherwise you will have to be sad and sad for such a man all your life.
Many women always have a virgin heart, for the kind of man who has no sense of responsibility, but also always have a tolerant heart, thinking of taking care of him, loving him, they always feel that the reason why men have no sense of responsibility, it is because men mature late, this is caused by the physiological structure, and these men cannot be blamed.
They always feel that as long as they wait patiently and patiently accompany men to grow up and mature, then they can always wait until the day when men become mature and become responsible. It is because women have such thoughts that they will always endure men who have no sense of responsibility for the family, and grit their teeth and insist on shouldering the responsibility of the family. Because women always believe that this situation is only temporary, men will always grow, and there will always be a day when they are willing to take responsibility.
But can a man, a man who has no sense of responsibility for his family, really become responsible at some point in the future? This hope is too slim, women still don't want to fantasize, fantasy can only be a fantasy after all, it can't become a reality.
Women also don't have to put up with this kind of man who has no responsibility for the family all the time, and when they make mistakes and want to return to the family, women should not accept it anymore. This kind of man, they will not repent, if you think that after they return to the family, they can change their past wrongs, it is really delusional.
They don't know what responsibility is, they do what they want, they make any decision, it's arbitrary, and they don't think about other people's feelings, let alone their wives' feelings.
So, living with this kind of man who has no sense of responsibility for his family all the time, you will only be disappointed again and again and then fall into despair.
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Third: Selfishness is immature.
This kind of selfish and immature men are most likely to have extramarital affairs, because they are selfish, thinking about things will only consider themselves, even if they do the wrong things, they will never self-reflect, they will only blame their mistakes on others.
This kind of person has a famous saying, that is, 'I can't be wrong, and the wrong people are all others'. From this sentence, we can see that in their world, they never feel that they will make mistakes, so such men make mistakes, and after returning to the family, they will not have any repentance towards their wives.
They will only feel that their wives are too much, annoying, and not virtuous, so they force themselves to end their extramarital relationships. They don't feel like they've done anything wrong, and they even think they're having sex outside of wedlock because their wives aren't doing a good job.
Such a selfish and immature man, even if he returns to the family, will never have any remorse. They will only shift all the blame onto others and remain the same.
Even if such a person returns to the family, he will definitely not be at peace, and the affair outside marriage will definitely happen.
So, women should not be too naïve, and do not feel that they can wait until the other party is better. It is impossible to change well, 'the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move', this sentence is not unreasonable.
Therefore, this kind of selfish and immature man has made a mistake, and when he wants to return to the family, it is best for women not to accept it, and if this kind of person accepts it, it is purely to find guilt for himself.
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Women's cautious attitude to marriage and the idea of starting from one end is indeed correct, but you can't completely imprison yourself because of this idea, some men can indeed save it, reform and reform, or you can live together, but some men, if you re-accept, it is absolutely endless trouble waiting for you, you will experience betrayal again and again, such an experience will dry up your enthusiasm and feelings.
What kind of men are these kinds of men who only cause you endless trouble?
This kind of man has no feelings for his wife, has no sense of responsibility for the family, and is selfish and immature, this kind of man has made a mistake, and after returning to the family, he will never have any remorse for his wife, and they will still be the same, do whatever they want.
And the wife, if she forgives the betrayal of such a man and chooses to let him return to the family, then she will still be particularly tired in the future, the responsibility of the family will have to be borne by herself, and she will have to endure the selfishness of her husband, and even have to endure his extramarital affairs again and again.
Nowadays, in this open society, women do not do well, why waste their lives on such people.
A person's energy is limited, so why can't we use our energy on more meaningful things?
What do we want to do with the kind of man who spends our precious energy on the kind of man who has no salvation at all? It's not worth it at all.
So, if your husband happens to be this kind of man, and this man just wants to return to the family, you must read this article carefully, think about it carefully, and then decide whether to accept the other person.
I believe that smart and sensible women must be able to make the most correct choice.