After watching "The Rest of Your Life Please Give More Advice", everyone fell into the love between Gu Wei and Lin Zhizhi, and these two contributed a new plot to the idol drama, and saw countless viewers smile at their aunts.
It is because these two people are so sweet that we overlook a very critical and very traditional thing.
And this important question, which can be called the essence of my traditional culture, is also quite useful in our real life.
A very important traditional culture
In the countryside, there is a saying called: "Buy a house to see the beam, marry a daughter-in-law to see the mother-in-law."
The meaning of "buying a house to see the beam" is quite simple and clear, and people who have seen rural houses know that the main support of the house is the girder.
This is probably the origin of the word "pick the beam".
If a house does not have a good beam, then the house must not be a solid house.
A house that is not strong, in a few years, will be crooked, leaking wind in winter, and leaking rain in summer will become the norm of this house.
Therefore, no one will want to buy a house with unstable beams to live in.
And "marrying a daughter-in-law to see the mother-in-law" is also very straightforward.
First of all, your daughter-in-law was born to your mother-in-law, although the human character can not all rely on genetic genes, but it can also see the essence through the phenomenon, and you can also find your daughter-in-law's future appearance from the mother-in-law's past medical history or tall, fat and thin.
Therefore, this is very critical for some face control or people who pay attention to physical health.
In addition, your daughter-in-law was raised by your mother-in-law with a handful of and a handful of urine, so your mother-in-law may find some of your daughter-in-law's values in the details of handling things.
Because your parents are your parents' first teachers, there is a saying that when you were a child, you didn't like your mother the most, but when you grew up, you found that you became exactly like your mother.
This is not metaphysics, but genetics with absolute scientific basis.
The origin of the love between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue
Everyone said throughout the drama that Lin Zhi school was not worthy of Gu Wei, because Gu Wei was too good, the personality was perfect, and he grew up to be like Xiao Zhan. Therefore, everyone unanimously felt that a woman as good as Gao Huan was worthy of Gu Wei.
However, Gu Wei just liked Lin Zhi's school.
The original reason why Gu Wei liked Lin Zhixue was because of the way Lin Dad and Lin Mama got along.
In the impression, Gu Wei said three times in the play that the kind of natural warmth between Lin's father and Lin's mother, when Gu Wei said it, his heart was full of yearning, which showed that the emotional life between Lin's father and Lin's mother had always been the family life that Gu Wei longed for, so Gu Wei would choose Lin's school.
Of course, here we first discard the female fist or not be a housewife or something like that.
Ms. Li did not do any housework for Lin Jianguo, and Lin Jianguo's life at home was basically a grandfather-like life.
However, Lin Jianguo is not arrogant and proud, at least he is a good father and is dedicated to his daughter.
Ms. Li is a good wife in the traditional sense, she is empathetic, meticulous to her husband and daughter, and her emotional intelligence is not low, and every time she talks to Lin Zhixue, she can talk about the essence in three words and two words, so this is actually a very wise me, a traditional woman.
Moreover, Ms. Li is very easy to get along with at a glance, and the mother-in-law looks at the son-in-law, and the more she looks at it, the more satisfied she is, so that the mother-in-law who knows Dali is gentle and elegant and transparent, who does not want one.
What is more crucial is that people are more than fifty years old and still beautiful as flowers, which shows that Lin Zhixue will also be beautiful when he is in his fifties.
Therefore, Gu Wei must have thought of this and would feel extremely satisfied.
Of course, it is not to say that a wife like Ms. Li and Lin Zhixue is the best in the world, but what kind of life you want to live, first look at your father-in-law and mother-in-law, and then think about it.
epilogue
The kind of happy and harmonious marriage life between Teacher Lin and Ms. Li will create a small sun-like Lin School.
In fact, we all understand the big truth, we all understand that in marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is the soul relationship in the family, as long as the relationship between husband and wife is good, the parent-child relationship is not a problem.
But Rao is so, there are still couples who will quarrel endlessly in front of their children, endlessly consuming each other.
So, next time, think about Teacher Lin and Ms. Li, and think about the happiness of Lin School.
For the happiness of your children, please be a husband and wife like Gu Weilin's school, and even if you are not a husband and wife like Ms. Lin Teacher Li.