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01. Preface
People living in this world will encounter countless challenges, there are wind and rain, there are muddy roads, and there are road to the night of despair to take.
Everything in the world has its own laws of survival. People living in this world may be difficult to change others, but they can adapt themselves to this environment.
When you can't bear the pressure, properly bowing your head is a kind of wisdom in dealing with the world.
"Human Nature" wrote: "The wind can overturn the tree, but it does not break the grass." ”
The grass looks weak, but it is not afraid of wind and rain, and it bows its head against the wind, and when the wind is still, it grows tenaciously.
The same is true of being human. Really powerful people know how to "bow their heads".
When you get along with people, when you should bow your head, you will not always think about face and worry about your identity. It is because I bow my head and listen to the opinions of others with an open mind, so that I can have more epiphanies.
Knowing how to bow your head is a pattern.
When bowing your head, first preserve your strength and slowly strengthen your momentum. Wait until you are fully prepared before you have a chance to make a comeback.
02, good at bowing down, is a kind of humility
Be humble and learn more.
Truly excellent people know how to bow their heads and learn more knowledge from others.
Confucius was a humble and courteous man, he once met two children, arguing about when the sun is closest to him and when it is farthest, and wanted Confucius to judge.
One child said that when the sun first rose, it looked big, close to us, and small at noon, and it must be far away from us.
Another child said that the sun was not so hot in the morning, and it would feel hot at noon, which must be near noon.
Confucius didn't know when the sun was closest to him, but he felt that what the two children said made sense, so he said to the two children, You are all my teachers, because you have all made me more knowledgeable.
Confucius has always maintained the habit of being humble and studious, and he can bow his head to learn from the people around him, which has led to his later rich knowledge.
On the road of life, people who know how to bow their heads can learn more knowledge, constantly accumulate experience, and constantly open their own patterns.
People who are good at bowing their heads will continue to absorb the experience of others and constantly strengthen themselves.
Everyone who looks at things from a different perspective will have different answers. Learn to bow your head, be able to borrow the eyes of others, and see the many sides of the world.
03, bowing your head, is a kind of turn
Learning to bow your head is a mindset that leaves room for yourself.
Everything can not be rushed, appropriately take a step back, learn to bow their heads, can give themselves more time and space, to consider how to develop in the future.
If you always maintain your own sense of superiority, you will not see the problems and shortcomings, and you will also make yourself have a great deviation in your self-perception.
Learning to bow your head is an attitude.
Only by lowering your head and slowing down can you seriously think about your shortcomings and the direction of the future.
After losing the battle, yue wang gouge, low-key conceded defeat and became a hostage. He bowed to the enemy leader, showed absolute obedience, confessed to being a slave, and fought for his chances of survival.
After bowing his head, he began to recruit again, revive the country, and finally won the victory, allowing himself to raise his eyebrows.
Knowing how to bow your head is a turn, but also a way to retreat into progress.
Learn to bow your head, fight for the opportunity to grow and learn for yourself, and strive for more resources and strength for yourself, in order to truly stand up and surpass your opponents and yourself.
04, know how to bow your head, is a kind of ability
People who are good at bowing their heads know how to take a soft kegang.
Get along with people, no matter what kind of problems you encounter, you don't have to be tough. If you just want to fight for a breath, for the sake of your own face and do not give in to each other, you often end up losing both.
Truly excellent people know how to bow their heads and do not easily compete with others to win or lose.
Instead, know how to lower the state, let each other have space and time to calm down, ease each other's relationship, and get better popularity.
Really good people, when they encounter problems, will not be strong, but know how to bow their heads. Bow your head, maintain a humble state, learn, integrate resources, and find a breakthrough point.
People who are good at bowing their heads know how to use their actions to prove what they think in their hearts.
Getting along with people is not always the upper hand, it is the most powerful performance.
When people learn to bow their heads, they can see the road under their feet more clearly.
Excellent people, when it is time to bow their heads, do not make unnecessary sacrifices, but are good at putting all their energy into more valuable things.
05. Summary
On the road of life, sooner or later you will find that those who are really powerful are good at "bowing their heads".
Lu Xun said: "Nothing is perfect, and a change often requires one step back before it can go two steps further." ”
People with patterns are good at keeping their heads down and maintaining a humble posture, knowing how to continuously learn, accumulate experience, and constantly make self-breakthroughs.
Really powerful people, get along with people, know how to bow their heads, be good at retreating into progress, and create a better pattern for their own life path.
Be tolerant, not impatient to solve problems in a gentle way. Sometimes, it may seem like compromise and bow your head, but it is actually leaving room for yourself and others.
People live a lifetime, bowing their heads, in order to look up better; bowing their heads, in order to better see the road under their feet; bowing their heads, in order to better achieve self-achievement.
Learn to bow your head, and the road of life will become wider and wider.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.