I remember a phrase that is particularly popular now, the most distant distance in the world
，
It is the dissonance of the three views.
I used to agree with this view, but the Douban high-scoring TV series "Parental Love" changed my view.
The protagonists Jiang Defu and Anjie prove that love can defeat the three views of discord.
Although the male protagonist, Jiang Defu, is the commander of the artillery regiment, he is from a peasant background and is almost illiterate. The heroine, Anjie, is a young lady of the capitalist and a hospital accountant. The two people's completely different origins determine that they are not only incompatible with the three views, but their three views are even contradictory.
But when their marriage encountered resistance, Jiang Defu could even give up his party and military membership and go home to farm
marry
Angier.
When Principal Yang asked Anjie, if Jiang Defu has nothing and goes back to his hometown to farm, can you go home with him and suffer hardships?
Anjie was silent for a moment, cried, and then said, "I can." This made me awe-inspiring for Anjie, and her silent crying showed that she was in pain and entanglement, but she would rather give up a comfortable and comfortable life than be with Jiang Defu, which shows the depth of her love.
In fact, all the fates and indifferences in the world are just excuses, but love
get
Not deep enough.
Jiang Defu likes hard and simple, and Anjie likes aesthetic refinement
。
Jiang Defu is simple, Ann
jay
Petty bourgeoisie, their three views can be described as far apart.
Brother Anjie invited them to eat Western food, Anjie said
This is a typical Hongmen banquet, Xiangzhuang dancing sword, intended to be Jiang Gong.
Jiang Defu did not understand, Ann
Laughing and saying, well, I'm playing the piano to the cow
She was very happy to play the piano.
Anjie said that when you ask people for chopsticks in the restaurant, the empty look is really cute.
So, do you understand? I love garlic, you love coffee, that's fine. I said that you drink coffee is pretending, and you joke that I eat garlic soil, which is the root of the problem.
Before Jiang Defu went to work on the island, he knew that the conditions there were difficult, so although he hoped that Anjie would accompany him, he did not ask Anjie to go with him, but respected Anjie and let her choose herself.
Later, Anjie went to the island, and Jiang Defu knew that Anjie liked to drink coffee, so he bought it
Seeing that Anjie did not want to go to the public toilet, he built one at home himself.
Although Anjie bullied Jiang Defu all day at home, he gave him enough face in front of his colleagues and friends.
When her brother and sister said that Jiang Defu was not good, she would gamble and lose her temper to defend Jiang Defu.
After marriage, she was willing to wash her hands and make soup for her husband and clean her home.
Jiang Defu went to Montenegro Island to check the work and met someone who was moving sacks
Angier
Brother-in-law Ouyang Yi, Ouyang Yi is dressed in coarse cloth clothes, described as haggard.
Jiang Defu watched from a distance and did not greet Ouyang
This shot moved me because he knew to take care of the self-esteem of Ouyang intellectuals.
After returning home, Jiang Defu criticized Anjie, why not tell him that his sister's family was on the island of Montenegro. Anjie said, isn't it afraid of affecting you badly?
Jiang Defu said, I am not afraid of bad influence. Subsequently, He asked Anjie to follow the patrol boat to see his sister the next day, and gave Anjie a lot of money to bring to his sister.
Love is not sweet talk, the sea vows and mountain alliances, their practice of considering each other at this moment is touching.
Sister Anxin and Defu sister Dehua are coming to the island, and the Anjie family goes to meet them.
Wei Guo asked his mother, who is good for his aunt and aunt? Anjie said, ask your father.
Jiang Defu said, does this still need to be asked? Of course, your aunt is good.
Anjie said to Wei Guo, don't listen to your father, your aunt is as good as your aunt.
Such a casual chat, it can also be seen that they take each other's feelings to heart every day.
Therefore, more important than the unity of the three views, there is love in the heart, mutual respect, and willingness to be considerate.
So, love can defeat all the dissimilarities of the three views.
May the beautiful you live up to the encounter, and all the encounters are good fate.