On April 2, 2022, the fifteenth World Autism Day is coming, I see a lot of people in the science of this disease, the data is amazing, 44 children have an autism. Everyone is also talking about love, but looking around you, how many people can really care for these children who are called "stars"?
Even many people know about autism from TV dramas, such as "Good Doctor".
I talked about a relative of mine, a distant nephew who is three months older than my son and is now in junior high school. He was diagnosed with autism at an early age.
Because the old man in the family has a doctor, he found the difference between this child at a very young age, irritable, rigid, avoiding communication, talking to himself, when other children are full of curiosity about external things, he is immersed in his own world, except for himself, the rest is probably to eat.
This baby, now about 1.9 meters tall, weighs more than two hundred pounds, his parents are actually only about 1.7 meters, should be the result of the child's focus on eating. His body and behavior are now different from ordinary people, but if he does not communicate, it is difficult to find out that he has autism.
In fact, for so many years, his family ran all over the top hospitals in Beijing and Shanghai, and experts have looked for many, but there is basically no way to cure them.
So what do people do with this child?
From my son, the two of them are similar in age, if normal, the two children should play very well, but in the hour or so about the second grade, there is no sign, the son was "taught" by his cousin fiercely, the beaten son inexplicably cried and complained, but what else can we do, can only seriously tell him for the first time that your cousin is a little special, he is the kind of baby in this world that needs us to treat with more love, you should be more tolerant of him.
At that time, the son wiped away his tears and nodded his head in understanding. But what about after that? The reality is that the son and his cousin have become nodding friends, and even if they are close to friends and relatives, they are far away from his cousin.
This is still true of relatives, not to mention outsiders.
A few things about this kid at school.
Because his personality is different from ordinary people, this child can always make incredible problems in school. Although he can listen to lectures under certain conditions without violating discipline, he will suddenly be very paranoid in some special circumstances.
One day in the third grade, because he did not bring a math notebook, probably a book he liked very much, he found that he did not bring it to school, broke out in place, took a math class, and rushed out of the door to go home to get this notebook. The teacher was confused the whole time. Catching up is already at the school gate. Elementary school is closed during normal school hours, so the nephew violently hits the iron door, and finally his father sends the book to the school to solve it.
It is precisely because of this that many parents know that their children have autism, and later? The love that everyone talks about, at least I don't see in most parents. What I see is that many parents explicitly and implicitly suggest that schools persuade their children to transfer to special schools.
Of course, the nephew's father was not happy, and at the same time, according to the regulations of the education administration for these "children of the stars", it is not particularly serious that it is possible to teach in ordinary primary and secondary schools at the compulsory education stage. The principal was also embarrassed, so he could only tell his nephew's father that in order to avoid accidents for future children, he could only let the parents stay in school by accompanying them.
So the child's father gave up the business and basically accompanied the child to class every day, so in addition to the teacher, there was an adult in the small classroom, and the bitterness of it was probably only known to him.
The original well-off life was directly brushed to the poverty line by an autistic child. But it is the flesh and bones of the parents, who can give up? Parents are the last barrier and protection of these "children of the stars", only they can become the defense line of care for these children, rather than verbally sympathizing with these children, it is better to devise some ways to make up for the financial expenses of these families, but to make these children live better.
Of course, not all autism is such a symptom, maybe some children are born cold, or to treat them differently.
As for my nephew's future, in fact, his parents did not know, when chatting, their eyes are not so bright, but a little cloudy.
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