The really beautiful feeling is that two people together can help each other, comfort each other, fight side by side, and become more and more courageous.
If the person you love starts to dislike you or puts pressure on you, it may not love you that much.
The more you love your person, the easier it is to break into the depths of your heart, and you can't help but expose some of his weaknesses and weaknesses to you.
It is undeniable that there are certain weaknesses in everyone to a greater or lesser extent.
For example, every time you see an article describing family affection or telling a story of family affection, it is easy to be moved to tears, indicating that family affection is the weakness of your heart.
For example, whenever you see stray kittens and puppies, your heart will become extremely soft, and you can't help but want to hug them and give the little animals a warm home.
When people reach middle age, they are accustomed to being strong in front of others, but they forget how to show weakness.
If a middle-aged man is willing to expose these weaknesses and weaknesses, it means that he can't let go of you in his heart.
1. Sentimentality
When we fall in love with someone, we may become sentimental and struggle with all sorts of small things in our relationship.
When a middle-aged man who was originally sane and sober becomes sentimental in front of you and never insists on guarding you, it shows that he may not really love you.
Middle-aged people's expression of feelings is usually more subtle and introverted, and the more they love someone, the more afraid they are of losing.
In order to keep a relationship, a middle-aged man may give everything he wants, love unreservedly, and be frank.
The poet Kitajima said: "I take a book and bask in the sun on a bench, and my heart becomes soft and tearful, like a sentimental old man." ”
The middle-aged man who has moved his true feelings for you is also like a sentimental old man in his feelings, and he never forgets you.
People who become sensitive in their feelings usually give more love and sincerity.
We don't have to suffer too much, love ourselves is a lifelong career.
Only by knowing how to love yourself well can you better love others.
It's just that when a middle-aged man can't let go of you, he will become so sentimental, and a little wind and grass will easily break his heart.
2. Indecisiveness
A middle-aged man is willing to expose his indecisive side in his feelings, indicating that he can never let go of you in his heart.
Life is actually a process of continuous trade-offs, there must be gains and losses, and there are sacrifices to gain.
If a middle-aged man can't let go of you in his heart, he may become hesitant.
On the one hand, he wants to take the initiative to get close to you and integrate into your world. On the other hand, he's just putting too much pressure on you.
Of course, the indecisiveness mentioned here does not mean that he lacks opinions in his work or career, but that he may be a little unable to let go in front of you, and it is easy to look ahead and look back.
Because he can't let go of you in his heart, he will give priority to your feelings in everything, understand your difficulties, put your interests first, and when it is his turn to make decisions or choices, it is inevitable that there will be some indecision and difficult choices.
It is precisely because he has you in his heart that he will not insist on going his own way, especially when he makes some more important decisions, he will take the initiative to consult with you.
He doesn't mind letting you see his weaknesses, he wants you to know that he's willing to endure more inner torment and torment for you.
As the writer Zheng Zhi said: "All my life is indecisive, it is all about your obsession." ”
Only when he completely lets go of you will he quickly cut through the mess and disappear from your world without a trace, cut clean and clean.
On the contrary, the middle-aged man who has not been able to let go of you will be full of complex feelings for you, and will not behave too hastily and hastily in the relationship.
3. Lack of self-confidence
Some middle-aged men may become less and less confident once they have feelings for you, and he is willing to let you see his humble and helpless side.
If he doesn't love you, he won't easily show a vulnerable and helpless side in front of you, on the contrary, he may pretend to be strong and pretend to be calm.
Because he has already let go of you, he will wear a thick mask in front of you, and you will not be able to see through his true appearance.
The more you can't let go of your middle-aged man, the easier it is to expose his weakness of not being confident.
The reason why he lacks self-confidence in his relationship is because he thinks that he has never met your requirements and standards, and cannot give you the happiness you really want.
In order to be able to get your approval, he will work hard, to struggle, and continue to fight to achieve your dreams.
Middle-aged men who lack self-confidence, whether it is the tone of speech or attitude, will appear extremely humble, lack confidence and courage.
Very few people are born confident, and most people need to work hard to make themselves a little more confident.
He may have some blind confidence before falling in love with you, and once he falls in love with you, he may wonder if he really deserves you.
In order to be worthy of you, he must pay 100% efforts and sweat, constantly improve his comprehensive ability and quality, and create a personal core competitiveness.
Because he can't let go of you in his heart, he will take the initiative to show you his weakness of not being confident enough, and he hopes to get your approval and appreciation.
Your praise is a great encouragement to him, and he will become more confident and brave.
It is precisely because he can never let go of you in his heart, so he will take everything you do seriously, will remember every word you have said, and take your recognition and affirmation as the driving force for progress.
In short, when a middle-aged man is willing to take the initiative to expose his weaknesses and weaknesses, and does not mind letting you see his shortcomings and deficiencies, it shows that he fully trusts you.
Only when he truly likes and cares about you will he completely expose his weaknesses to you.
If he doesn't love you, he won't open his heart to you easily, and you won't see his shining points or his weaknesses.
Life needs to solve many problems and overcome many difficulties and obstacles.
If a middle-aged man can't let go of you in his heart, he can't help but reveal his true feelings to you, not only letting you see his hard armor, but also letting you touch his gentle soft ribs.
It is not a shameful thing for a person to have weaknesses, only in this way can it appear sincere and real enough.
He is willing to expose his weaknesses because he trusts you and he knows that you will not dislike and hurt him because of it.
Or, even if one day you tear open his soft ribs and pour salt on his wounds, he won't really blame you, even if he's in pain.
From the moment he falls in love with you, he is ready to be hurt by you at any time.