The most feared thing about feelings is that you are serious, but the other party is only ambiguous, so many people have stood at the door of love, but they have never dared to go in, obviously they have loved to the bone, but because they are afraid of being hurt, they prefer to choose to watch from a distance.
But youth is short, sometimes miss the best fate, the rest can only be done, do not want to wronged themselves, can only continue to wait.
How many people in order to wait for the right person, stumbled through the years, from teenagers to uncles, but love this thing, as long as it comes, at any time will not be late, even if people reach middle age, there are qualifications and ability to love.
If a middle-aged woman is emotional, she will not resent the three "plucking" behaviors of men.
1. Accept your gift
Everyone likes the feeling of being liked, especially for women, whether they like each other or not, they will not reject the fact that they are being pursued.
But unlike young girls, middle-aged women are more strict in their grasp of the scale of feelings, they do not want to add some unnecessary troubles to themselves, do not want to waste their time, and do not want to waste others.
If it is someone they don't like, most of the gifts given to them by the other party will be returned, which has nothing to do with the price, but is a simple attitude expression.
So when you give the other person a gift, you are rejected again and again, so you must learn to stop at the right time, do not let yourself continue to fall, so as not to hurt more deeply.
On the contrary, if you accept every gift, the other party will gladly accept it, and even give you a gift back, which means that the other party has already moved your heart.
In this back-and-forth, it will slowly deepen each other's feelings and increase the chance of contact, which is also a signal for women to let you get closer.
If it goes well, in the near future, the feelings of both parties will undergo a qualitative change, never determine the relationship, and officially enter the next stage.
2. Willing to go to your home alone
Home is a very private existence for everyone, although it is not a secret, but it is not something that anyone can enter at will.
Just like the general relationship of friends, often will not be brought back by everyone, only very close friends, will know each other's family situation.
And in love, often everyone alone to bring the opposite sex back, in fact, is a hint of further development, relatively, if the other party accepts, it means that in her heart, you also have an extraordinary status, for this, there is no age limit.
Therefore, when a man invites the other person to his home alone, the woman's attitude determines the development direction of the future relationship between the two.
If the other party refuses, it means that in her heart, the two can only be ordinary friendships, and if she accepts, it means that she is also willing to further understand with men.
However, it should be noted that if many people are invited, there are other friends, the woman's attitude cannot reflect the real emotional attitude of the other party, so don't use the wrong method, it will be wrong, and bring unnecessary harm to yourself.
3, do not resist your limbs to approach
For women, the older they are, the more they will care about the distance between them and the opposite sex, perhaps when they are young, there will be some intimate behaviors between friends of the opposite sex who have a very good relationship, such as hugging, etc., which everyone is not rejected.
But with the increase of age, the increase of experience, the maturity of the mentality, everyone will find more and more that this intimate behavior will bring a lot of unnecessary trouble to each other, and it will be easy for others to misunderstand.
Even if the other party is single at the moment, there can be no such ambiguous behaviors at will, so it will deliberately distance itself from the opposite sex, even if it is known for many years, there will be no similar behavior.
And when men take the initiative to approach, their attitude will also reflect the real emotional state of the moment, if they will deliberately distance themselves, or even take the initiative to remind each other, indicating that in her heart, just treat each other as friends, and do not want to further develop.
If the woman does not refuse when the man takes the initiative to approach, and even shows a shy smile on her face, it shows that she actually has special feelings for you and does not want to be friends with you.
Be happy when you wait, rejoice when you meet, have fun when you get along, work hard when you say goodbye, and you should let your life have no regrets, only righteousness.
Many people have never dared to move forward easily because of their age, but in fact, there is no age limit in the relationship.
Sometimes, because the older you get, the more you know the importance of true love, and the more you know how to cherish it, so when you meet people who want to stay together until you are old, you should be braver and hold on to each other's hands.
There will be many kinds of love in this world, but the most exciting thing is definitely the two loves, and there is nothing more exciting than this.
There is no best age for love, and when you like her and she likes you, it's the best age and the best time, so don't miss it.