Bai Hongmei and Wei Guo came to the island for the first time, met with their families, and when there was still a distance between the shore of the ship, they saw their future mother-in-law in the distance, Anjie did not smile on his face, and Bai Hongmei's heart sank, and he felt very nervous.
I couldn't help but say to Wei Guo, your mother doesn't seem to like me, you don't see her laughing, Wei Guo comforted her, rest assured, my mother will laugh. Bai Hongmei immediately relaxed a little, interface, yes, the capitalist Miss will laugh!
As soon as this sentence comes out, many people will feel that Bai Hongmei is too ignorant of etiquette, how can she use such a abrupt and rash tone to ridicule her future mother-in-law? Therefore, the first impression of the white and red plums to everyone is very bad, and before they get off the ship, the white and red plums have lost the audience's impression points.
In fact, everyone has overlooked a point, why Bai Hongmei would say such a disapproving and abrupt mother's words in front of Wei Guo, it is not because Wei Guo told her about Anjie being a capitalist lady, Weiguo They were at home when they were young, but they did not criticize Dou An's outstanding body, but they were all choked back by Dehua, and Anjie at that time did not even dare to say a word of rebuttal.
Habits become natural, after Wei Guo grew up, he did not shy away from saying things about his mother's capitalist lady in front of his girlfriend, otherwise how could Bai Hongmei open her mouth so naturally?
Bai Hongmei did not guess wrong on the boat, Anjie did not like it as soon as she heard Bai Hongmei, she not only did not have any joy for her mother-in-law, but also kept complaining in front of her family, looking for a bad one, but also looking for a singer? Anjie's attitude of disgust and resistance to the arrival of Bai Hongmei was clear at a glance.
Although out of his own cultivation and etiquette, Anjie reluctantly went to the dock to pick up Bai Hongmei and Wei Guo, but her face was never relaxed, in the end, Wei Guo himself was too simple and confident, he really did not understand his mother's attitude and reaction, and he roared and brought his girlfriend back.
The first impression is not good, after Anjie saw the white and red plum real person, it is also how to see how not to go well, the name is not earthy, it is not impatient to look, the small family is childish, and so on... Bai Hongmei is not a dull person, and the mother-in-law's family does not like her, which makes her embarrassed.
Wei Guo could not empathize with it, and felt that Bai Hongmei thought too much about it, until Anjie no longer hid it and scolded Bai Hongmei, Wei Guo realized the seriousness of the problem. The white and red plum was directly dumbfounded, and could only flee into the wilderness.
In fact, looking at the love of parents, I found that Bai Hongmei's small family temperament is actually a kind of confusion, all said "courtesy out of everyone", "warehouse and enough to know etiquette" When Anjie was born well, who could she look up to in her eyes? Whether it is Dehua, Wang Xiu'e, Zhang Guiying, which is not the object of her ridicule, even Director Yang and Anjie are disgusted, disgusted that she has no culture, and gives her son a name that is ugly. It's just that the atmosphere at that time made these people feel justified, and there was no sense of inferiority at a loss, but it was Anjie who was suppressed.
Years later, Anjie no longer has to inferiorize herself, and still uses her previous standards, and Bai Hongmei, her birth may be relatively low, the formal scene of receiving people and things, she is very inexperienced and lacks self-confidence.
The inappropriateness of cowering and shrinking made Anjie scoff, and the so-called small family temperament was just White Hongmei nervous and confused.
But Wei Dong's girlfriend Zheng Xiaodan, came to see the parents, there is no shortcoming in this regard, Zheng Xiaodan looks generous and thoughtful, making all the parents very satisfied.
Bai Hongmei suffered a loss at this point, that is, Zheng Xiaodan has been a soldier on the island for many years, for family members like Anjie, she often contacts, before coming to Anjie's house, she has been secretly observing for a long time, knowing how to deal with them, the first time they met, they said to their uncle Lao Ding, "I took medicine for you in the pharmacy, do you remember", and suddenly the distance was closer. Therefore, she copes with this kind of scene, and she is well-trained in human feelings.
Speaking of which, it is still different from the background and surrounding environment, resulting in Bai Hongmei and Zheng Xiaodan seeing their in-laws for the first time, getting different reactions and treatment, saying that it is not a person who marries a person, but a family, and it is easier to be happy if the door is right.