Men who want to force you to break up will always be "cold" to you, so it is good to get together and disperse

In love, a person is not in love, if there is no courage to break up, or do not want to take the main responsibility of breaking up, he will find a way to withdraw from the relationship, forcing the other party to take the initiative to leave.

Someone said: "Men are not good at talking about breaking up, but they are good at forcing women to leave on their own." ”

Xiao Xin is a college student, the man has entered social work, fell in love for more than two years, and found that her boyfriend has changed half a year ago. The often sent messages did not reply until two days later, or "um, oh" such a simple word, can not continue to talk. Playing the video in the past, the boyfriend took the camera against the flower board, people do not know what they are doing, often answer the question. She had said to go to him, and he said he was busy with work and didn't have time to play with her. However, she has not seen her boyfriend's face for more than 40 days, can't stand being snubbed by men like this, she is clamoring to break up, want men to care about her some, who knows that the boyfriend is very cheerful to agree, she immediately repented, and now the boyfriend ignores her, saying that she mentioned the breakup, he promised not to turn back. She asked if it could be salvaged?

Girl, can't get it back, a man who plans to leave you, you can't keep it.

A series of behaviors of the boyfriend is to want to break up, deliberately cold you, you can't stand it, mention the breakup, all this is exactly the end he wants.

In fact, the man who wants to force you to break up will always be "cold" to you, then it is good to get together and disperse.

Will always be cold and violent towards you.

Many girls can't tell the "cold" of men, think he is just tired, as long as they are better to him, it will not be long before it will be fine.

In fact, cold violence reflects an immature psychological defense, through self-closure, refusing to approach and show affection to the lover, and hitting the enthusiasm of the other party through a cold attitude, which belongs to the behavior of spiritual masochism, and at the same time causes the lover to suffer from it.

This kind of mental self-masochism will make the man feel a temporary psychological balance, which can calmly destroy the relationship between two people, which is exactly what he wants to achieve.

Xiaoxin's boyfriend used cold violence against her for half a year, did not reply to the message, so that the chat could not continue; after receiving the video, he pointed the camera at the ceiling, so that the communication could not continue, nor did he respect his girlfriend; said that he was busy with work and did not have time to accompany him to see his girlfriend;

He wants to destroy each other's relationship, will be so cold to his girlfriend, indicating that he has long been out of love, wait until the girlfriend pretends to break up, just in his arms, immediately agreed to break up.

If a man is constantly cold and violent to you and makes you feel that he is the worst person in the world, don't mess with him, but do your own thing and distract him.

If men continue to be so cold and violent, then when there is no fate for each other, it is good to get together and disperse.

Although regret is not inevitable, you can no longer return to the position in his heart in an unbalanced relationship, even if you try to please, you will eventually be tired.

Will keep snubbing you.

Feelings do have a cold period, but he will also give you some basic satisfaction for some small requirements, and will not always snub you.

The man is not in love, he wants to leave, he will feel that you are very annoying, even perfunctory you feel wronged himself.

Xiao Xin's boyfriend took the video and pointed the camera at the ceiling, the perfunctory attitude was so obvious, Xiao Xin, who loved him, although sad, did not accuse him half a sentence.

Snubbed her for half a year, she couldn't stand to mention the breakup and then repented, but he only recognized the breakup, the purpose has been achieved.

From the moment a man wants to break up with you, he will isolate you from his world, doesn't want you to bother him, and he doesn't care about everything about you.

Nothing about him has anything to do with you, he no longer shares his things with you, and everything about him has nothing to do with you in his opinion.

The reason for snubbing you is that you are no longer important in his mind, and he has something more attractive around him, such as games or other people.

The snubbed woman will feel abandoned, the man will not ask, use all kinds of excuses to escape getting along, even if he makes a fuss, he will follow the trend to break up, everything is for the man to force you to take the initiative to say break up.

Will always be cold to you.

Men want to break up, the best at showing attitude to draw a clear line between each other, he looks at everything about you coldly, knowing that you have been wronged or unhappy, he chooses to ignore, or just pour salt on your "wound" to make you feel that he is cold and ruthless.

Such a man will not respect you, and his words will be inserted like a knife in the softest place of your heart, allowing your heart to cool slowly, and you can no longer burn enthusiasm for him, just as he intended.

His coldness to you, like the cold that comes out of your bones, no matter how much you want to warm him up, he is like an ice cube, rejecting you thousands of miles away, you are not happy to listen to anything, he will say anything.

He's not confused, he just doesn't want to be enthusiastic about you anymore, he doesn't want to care about you.

The change in Xiaoxin's boyfriend's attitude began half a year ago, he said less and less, either the preface did not match the afterword, or said busy, nothing more than he did not care about the relationship, let Xiaoxin face all the problems alone, through mental torture, want to torture Miss Xin away.

This kind of cold language is also one of the manifestations of "cold violence", in order not to bear the name, he chose to speak coldly to you, so that you feel that he cannot communicate, disappointed in him, you take the initiative to choose to give up.

In the relationship, women can feel the changes in men, and there are also a number of love and unlove, but because of deep love, they choose to deceive themselves and dare not face reality.

Zhang Ailing said that falling in love with someone will be humbled to the dust.

However, being humble enough to not blossom in the dust is exactly the problem that many women ignore.

In order to be together, women do everything to please, compromise, lose the principle and bottom line, and wait until there is no way back to the end, only to find that everything is wrongly paid.

Just as the so-called, mourning is greater than heart death, when you are dead to the man's cold behavior, he has no heart for you, and this relationship has broken down.

To know that the man forces you to break up, he only thinks about himself, but does not consider you, then learn self-esteem and self-love, so that you can get together and disperse.

Leave someone who doesn't love you to meet the right person!

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