Author: Five layers
Recently, every time I met my classmate Xiao Zhou, he looked like a bitter melon. In my opinion, he has a stable job and a happy family. You shouldn't complain about life!
However, without talking about not knowing, only to find out when we talk about it, it turns out that no matter how happy people are in the eyes of outsiders, in fact, behind them, there is an unknown heartache.
It happened at the end of last year, one day Xiao Zhou came home from work, and his wife suddenly excitedly told him that she had given Xiao Bao a kindergarten. She and her mother-in-law just went to visit today and discovered the environment! Condition! Good in every way.
Xiao Zhou heard the words and casually asked, is it the one opposite our family?
How can it be? My wife glared at him in surprise, I had already said that the house could not do it. If our children want to go to school, they must go to a high-quality kindergarten. You see, this is the introduction, their faculty, their student source, are all incomparable to the opposite one.
All right! For men, the child goes to school, in fact, it has nothing to do with him, the wife says it is good, he has the right to oppose.
However, when Xiao Zhou learned of the cost of the kindergarten, he immediately strongly objected.
What the? 50,000 a year? Are you crazy? Give him such an expensive kindergarten? I only earn 70,000 a year, so what do we eat and drink, the days are not enough!
The wife replied disapprovingly, what is this? There are better, higher costs, I didn't choose it! Do you understand, gram anything, is not able to gram education, we Xiaobao went to this kindergarten, the starting point of life is not the same, the future acquaintances of classmates, friends, are high-level.
But you're not at work yet! Our family depends on my salary alone, and we don't have the conditions to climb the branches at all. I think it's better to read the public near the house! Without this need, waste of money.
Who knows, Xiao Zhou's words did not deter his wife.
Soon, she hinted to her husband that you can go to your in-laws for support! Tell them, but just a few years, when Xiaobao goes to school, I will return to the workplace, and the money for going to a private primary school will definitely be available.
Listening to her words, Xiao Zhou's suffocating emotions have been completely released, and he yelled, Looking for my parents? How do you think that the house we live in now is still my parents paying off the loan. It is also because they have dedicated their pension that we can live comfortably. Otherwise, with my salary, you can be a full-time wife at home, and you can dream unrealistically every day. I tell you, whatever the conditions are, do whatever you want. Don't fantasize about entering a private kindergarten and being able to ascend to the sky in one step. If Xiao Bao doesn't like to study, he will be the same wherever he goes. Anyway, I disagree, you think slowly yourself.
In this way, the couple made a lot of trouble for their children to go to private kindergartens. The wife insisted that as long as they had a little surplus, they should give the best to the child.
Xiao Zhou is also dead, I must first take care of the life of the whole family, and then the education of the children.
None of them let anyone think they are right.
In fact, I still agree with Xiao Zhou's statement, how much ability he has, how big a thing he has done. There is no need for some, illusory ideal, unrealistic investment.
A child entering a good kindergarten is certainly helpful to him. But if you are poor and white, and you go in, the parents of other children will not look up to you. In this case, very few people can become friends, and perhaps, it will also cause indelible shadows for children.
Moreover, the parents are also tired next to them, if you accidentally give birth to a second child, then the family's life, there is really no way to live.
Sometimes! The happiness and happiness of life is the first, for the sake of children to force themselves into a desperate situation, too tired! Hurt the people who make money at home!
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