The days are always like fine sand flowing from your fingertips, slipping quietly and inadvertently. It grew freely, and he was powerless to resist. Looking back, I am already middle-aged.
Although the years are elusive things, they are slowly changing us. Through careful observation and in-depth study, I summarized the atypical characteristics of "old cadres", a total of 26 articles, the brothers consciously entered the seat, see if you were shot Mu You?
1. The hairline begins to rise, especially the sides of the forehead begin to gradually shine. No longer laughing at the leaders of the "local support central government", I know that it is also my future hairstyle.
2. The few two-pack abs disappeared, and in order to save the waistline of two feet and five, he began to force himself to walk and run. If you can't get thin, you have to pretend, saying that it is for health and not for the beauty of the body.
3. Lunch break became part of the work, the camp bed became the standard in the office, and people who felt that the noon dinner party was a letter ball. Snoring is also required for naps and can wake yourself up.
4. Hearing a beautiful woman say that she is handsome, she will nod and smile and say "thank you", but no longer be complacent. Because you know that white lies are also a form of respect.
5. Start to participate in the dinner selectively, ask who is participating before going to the appointment, people are not familiar with the idea of pushing it off, and then go home to tease the child.
6. When drinking, you will no longer say that you eat cephalosporin, and you will not get drunk again. When you meet an irrelevant person to toast yourself, you will say "as long as the feelings are good, don't talk about how much", and then lick the wine glass and put it there, it doesn't matter whether the other party has face.
7. Know what is a weightlift, no matter how much or less the work task, will be done seriously, when the work task is heavy, no longer twist the brow, a face of the old society, but light a cigarette, slightly numb, calm, one by one.
8. Greet the leader and colleagues in the corridor, the other wooden reaction, no longer feel that they have opinions about themselves, back to the office to forget to the maize land, continue to leisurely, what to do.
9. When others ask themselves to do things, when they obviously can't do it, they no longer pat their chests hard and rack their brains to support the relationship, but directly tell him: "Brothers, I really don't know anyone in this regard, forgive me!" ”。
10. The circle changes from small to large, and from large to small. There are three or two guys with similar smells, although they are dog skin socks, but they also keep a distance beautiful, not to take advantage of it, just to drink a little wine when there is nothing to do. When the other party has something to do, he will try his best to help him get it within the principle.
11. More and more like to drink tea, and drink more and more picky, although the drink can not be drunk is good, but with others when spraying is still understandable.
12. Characters, paintings and texts will choose the same, even if it is not a hobby, it is often used as a talking point, because there are more and more "cultural people" in the social circle, and there are more and more B criminals, do not study some fur, and people can't pass it on.
13. More and more dislike to drive, the luxury car is also more and more wooden feeling, feel that the car is a means of transportation, there is no impulse to change the car, private cars in the community slowly become a "zombie car", work like to walk, ride, take the subway.
14. Start to pay attention to blood sugar, blood lipids and blood pressure, eat and start to be picky, high-fat, high-heat and high-sugar rarely eat, like to eat greens, grains. When I go back to my rural hometown, I always bring back some self-ground noodles and handmade vermicelli, including the cabbage poured out of the dung in my toilet.
15. When drinking, no longer come up and squat, but listen to others bragging, sit there and eat first. When you hear that you are interested, you will spray two sentences, and if you are not interested, you will continue to eat, but you will no longer eat and cannot move.
16. Watching relatives and peers get terminal illness or suddenly leave, the mood is very heavy, firmly believe that good health is the king, and others are floating clouds. But also began to be relieved, more and more open to life and death, more and more indifferent, experiencing the separation of life and death, can return to normal and return to reality at any time.
17. No longer like nightlife, no longer sing after drinking, even if you go, you will no longer be a maiba, sitting there drinking mineral water, listening to the tune that you can't find, although it is very bearable, but it will also applaud. Sit for a while and look at the watch at eleven o'clock, drive away early, and go home to sleep.
18. With the big leader will no longer be nervous, feel that the big leaders are people, but also drank five yuan of two pots, smoked ten yuan of old yellow skin, encountered things will also say "day he gets", when annoyed will also say "pull the ball egg".
19. No longer watch TV series, occasionally watch a movie, but never watch Guo Jingming, see "small fresh meat" is basically not famous, often ask: "Who is this second-pancreas child?" "The perception of stars is still stuck in the stage of Andy Lau, Liang Chaowei, Maggie Cheung, and Lin Qingxia.
20. Start buying books and reading, and start to like to read famous books and classics. The Carnegie, Yu Dan, and Yi Zhongtian that I bought before were all invited off the shelves, and most of the classics on the shelves were political, economic, historical, philosophical, and literary classics. I have re-understood the Analects and the Tao Te Ching, and I no longer feel that it is wooden nonsense.
21. Dressing began to be low-key, although the nature of stinky beauty has never changed, but before wearing casual clothes to work on Monday, I will ponder for half a day, and then resolutely take it off and continue to change into clothes that have been slagged off. More and more attention is paid to loose comfort, and the tight pants that make the crotch hurt are thrown away.
22. With or without determination, try to start quitting smoking or taking a dose reduction. Although the writing material is forced to order a few sticks, and the dinner bureau will burn a few sticks when drinking, the history of two packs a day and a cigarette without a word is gone.
23. Although the restless heart still wants to move, it is no longer tossing and turning this exam, and it is no longer fantasizing about resigning and starting a business, and I think it is very good to have a job to do. Although the salary is not high, I still try to do a good job, understanding that this is both a responsibility and a visible means of livelihood.
24. In social occasions, no longer remember whose mobile phone number is remembered, whose WeChat signal is added, and it is felt that there will be no more intersection, or if there is no call to meet, even the name will not be remembered, because I know that I will not contact again in eight hundred years.
25. Classmates no longer inquire about their positions, no longer talk about work, no longer intentionally or unintentionally brag about how good they are, and no longer have a good relationship with a useful classmate with a purpose. Will spray the past, spray the teacher, spray the first love, spray the child.
26. Feel that poetry and distant places are poison, no longer go out and run blindly, no longer travel to relieve stress. Because I know very well in my heart, I have to face reality when I come back, and I will even make reality more realistic.
Wang Guozhen said in "People to Middle Age", "At your age, the left hand should drag the child, the right hand should hold the parents, you have become the parents on both sides of them, the daughter has just stepped into puberty, like a confused lamb, carrying a 10-pound school bag on her back." She was still so fragile that the slightest misdirection would poke her. Parents, so short in stature, walking and shaking, do you still have the heart to complain about them? Like you, your lover is also busy fishing on the middle-aged river. ”
Another meaning that people give to middle age is "maturity", middle-aged people will worry about family illness, worry about the education of adolescent children, worry about work mistakes, worry about no money, etc., their own and their family health is king, any accidents and diseases are likely to become the unbearable weight of life
(Source: Cadre decision-making reference)