Tennyson said: "As long as men and women truly love each other, even if they do not become dependents in the end, they are still sweet." ”
For women, the most certain thing in love is what position they occupy in a man's heart. It's just that some women put this problem on some very deliberate behaviors, so they can't see the true heart of men, but they are deceived by some sweet words and some disguised illusions of men.
Meeting a person and starting a sincere love is undoubtedly a very happy and fortunate thing. For every woman, it is natural to hope that she can also meet a suitable person, truly love each other, treat each other sincerely, and finally have a happy ending.
However, in love, it is not what we think in our hearts, and love can move forward according to our ideas. In many cases, two people who love each other again will also be estranged by some misunderstandings, or because of some things that make each other's hearts begin to measure this feeling and begin to think about whether the other party really loves themselves.
Women want to determine men's minds, not to test men in some very deliberate ways, but to know how to quietly test men, so as to understand men's hearts.
Balzac said: "A woman who is truly in love is more suspicious than having fun and changing tastes." Once she was abandoned, she could guess the meaning of a pose, and even the horse smelled the breath of stimulating love in the spring air, not so fast. ”
If you want to see a man's heart, a smart woman will choose to use the way of disconnection, and from the man's attitude, you can know whether he is obsessed with himself.
01 If he loves you deeply, he must not be able to bear the news without you.
Love gives us not only happiness and beauty, but also in many cases, we can also taste the pain of love and bear the torment of love. As long as we truly love someone in our hearts, this will always affect our emotions and affect our mentality.
With a smile from the other person, we will feel that this world is very beautiful; when the other person frowns, we will guess whether she has encountered something unhappy; when there is no news from the other party, various assumptions will appear in our minds and we will begin to worry about each other's safety.
Women should know that as long as men really love you, they will always think of you and care about you. If there is no news from you for a period of time, he will be nervous, he will be worried, and naturally he will take the initiative to contact you to ensure your safety.
Vovinag said, "Habit is everything, even in love." ”
If a man loves a woman deeply in his heart, he will definitely maintain such a habit and always think of his beloved woman. A woman wants to know the man's intentions, after the disconnection, observe the man's attitude, naturally also clear his mind.
02 When I can't contact you, if conditions permit, will I take the initiative to find you?
Between lovers, sometimes there will be no news of each other for a period of time because of objective factors. Maybe the other party's mobile phone is out of battery, or maybe it's because there is no signal in the place where the other party is. No matter what the situation, if a man is obsessed with a woman, he will definitely try his best to contact the other party and get the other party's news.
If the distance between them is not far, under the permission of the conditions, men will definitely take the initiative to find, rather than not wanting anything, no behavior.
Molière also said: "If you do not harm lovesickness, happiness will not be your share." Drive love out of life, and you drive out joy. Smooth love, in fact, is tasteless. ”
If a man has not heard from a woman for a long time, he feels that it does not matter, and he will not miss this woman too much. With such an attitude, how can women believe that men are sincere? This situation occurs several times, and the woman's heart is cold.
Falling in love with someone, we all want to get a good ending. Therefore, if a man truly loves a woman, he will certainly not have this attitude of indifference and will not ignore such a situation.
03 When there is no news from you, will you find a way to ask other people.
If a man is obsessed with a woman and loses the news of the other party, he will definitely find various ways to get it. Remember that in the TV series "Why Sheng ZhenMo", He Yichen could not find Zhao Mosheng, and he used many ways to get the news of Zhao Mosheng. It can be seen that as long as a man loves a woman deeply in his heart, he must not be able to bear to lose the connection with a woman.
Maybe he will seek the help of those around him, maybe he will take the initiative to find each other's friends, as long as he can think of a way, he will try, rather than just waiting to solve the problem.
Women often attach great importance to love, and after falling in love with a man, they also hope to be sure that they have a very important position in the man's heart at all times. When they do not take the initiative to contact men, the other party will definitely find ways to get their own news, such an attitude, in order to make women's hearts feel this love, feel the man's heart.
As Joe Byron said, "Love is nothing but an external thing to a man, but a whole life to a woman." ”
Therefore, if women want to understand men's minds, they should not blindly pay and blindly take the initiative to contact each other. Occasionally, you must also learn to disconnect and observe men's attitudes in this way, so as to know men's intentions.