Appearance, just a stepping stone.
A person who is good-looking can indeed attract the attention of the opposite sex, but this does not mean that it can affect the heart of the opposite sex, make the opposite sex addicted, and can't help but contact.
Because the external image is close, getting along with each other and finding it different from what they imagined, they will think that two people are not suitable, and there is no need for further development.
That is to say, appearance can narrow the distance between the opposite sex, but it is impossible to determine the outcome.
Two people get along, will gradually become strange, or the feelings continue to heat up, depending on how the two people get along, what experiences they bring to each other.
There are some people who, at the beginning, did not want to be lovers and stay together for a lifetime, but over time, both people fell in love to the depths.
In the process of getting along, you can feel the happiest with each other, you don't want to let each other leave, and you really hope that the future road will be with each other.
The most important thing for two people to be together is comfort, that is, the external image is secondary.
This means that two people who know each other may not have a good feeling, but frequent contact will find that the other party is very suitable for themselves, and they are very compatible with themselves, and they will reap happiness together.
Although good looks help to develop between the opposite sex, looks can generally be deeply loved.
People must not only have confidence in themselves, but also believe that anyone can get love and live a good life. To put it bluntly, there is a kind of man, even if he looks average, can make women remember.
Respect women and don't say a word of sarcasm
Some men have never taken women seriously, that is, they have treated women as an object.
When communicating with two people, they always feel that they are very strong and can handle many things alone, while women cannot, and will become a burden.
If there is a problem with the idea, there will be a problem with the things that are done.
Women are not fools, and how much men look down on themselves, are very clear in their hearts, and realize that choosing to live with such a man will not be good.
Thinking that there are chicken feathers everywhere, you will not choose to develop downwards.
No one wants to have even a say, no one wants to be devalued, so they want to find someone who respects themselves and knows how to praise themselves.
Be optimistic and don't say a word of complaint
Everyone approaches things differently.
For example, some people will think of a way and then do it immediately, instead of complaining all kinds, not thinking of withdrawing, not thinking that this has nothing to do with them.
For example, some people have always been negative, can't accept anything to develop in a bad direction, as long as they encounter things, they want to push the responsibility outward, and then say a lot of useless things.
When choosing a partner, I will choose the former, because the road with the former will become wider and wider, life cannot go downhill, it is impossible to live so depressed.
When you like a woman and want to fall in love with her, you have to show your best side, not always feel that you don't deserve her.
You must know that you work hard, constantly improve your ability for so many years, treat everything you encounter with a normal heart, and never push the mess outward, then you deserve deep love.
Women will fall in love with, and this is also such a man, because she feels that this kind of man is reliable, will not argue with herself frequently, and will not make herself helpless.
Be responsible and do everything conscientiously
People who don't want to invest time and energy in doing things don't take a relationship seriously.
Because such a person has no vision, only sees the present, only cares about his own emotions, wants to have no worries for the time being, and will not put others in his eyes at all.
Such a selfish person cannot give happiness to anyone and let anyone live carefree.
Understand this truth, see who is such a person will stay away, rather than try, not think that they can save, can make the other party change a lot.
What women are looking for is responsible and willing to take what happens to themselves, rather than opening their mouths and saying "nothing to do with me" and then not asking.
You can be single-minded about feelings, and you are also very responsible, and the woman will slowly fall in love with you, and will feel that you are the most suitable person for her in this world and the person who should be with her the most.
Emotional Message:
What it looks like is predestined, not self-determined.
Maybe it's not very good-looking, it's not easy to attract each other, and more often you watch others talk about love, but you also have to be confident in yourself and wait for the right person to appear.
You have to remember: you treat a person wholeheartedly, everything you do is not for yourself, then the other person's heart is easily touched by you.
If you take each other seriously, you will be taken seriously by the other party, and the two hearts will slowly connect together.
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Author: Not afraid of the future, do not read the past, can afford, can put down the free girl. Freelance writers, willing to use words to warm your heart, give you companionship, give you strength.