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In "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" written by Dr. John Gray, a doctor of psychology, it is said that there is a huge difference between men and women, because male friends are creatures that favor rationality, while female friends are mostly creatures that are biased towards sensibility.
Therefore, it often leads to feelings, male friends do not understand what female friends are thinking in their hearts, nor do they understand what female friends want, and female friends do not understand what male friends want to express, nor do they understand what male friends want.
This is the so-called difference in thinking caused by the difference between the gender of men and women, when men and women get along with each other, there will always be many misunderstandings, and there will be many contradictions and disputes, and even serious words will occur quarrels and quarrels, in fact, in the end, two people are not not unloving, but both of you have used the wrong way and method, do not know how to think in a different position, do not know how to think from each other's point of view.
Especially for female friends, when you fall in love with a male friend, have true feelings for a male friend, and want to get the favor of a male friend, you can't just rely on yourself to blindly be good to him, nor can you just rely on yourself to blindly pay, but you must know how to understand men, learn to know what men like, learn to understand what men value, and what you want in your heart. After all, male friends have a few things that they value the most, and really smart female friends will not touch them at will.
And male friends in love, want to know whether a female friend loves herself or not, whether there is a self in the heart, as the saying goes, the details witness true love, to put it bluntly, it is actually possible to find some clues from the process of men and women getting along with each other, especially the following things can tell you the answer.
You should know that for many female friends, marriage has never been a child's play, and every female friend will be responsible for their own love, will also be responsible for their marriage, and will find a male friend who is really suitable for themselves. Women want to accompany you to old age, only willing to give you these things, men must know how to cherish.
In fact, in my opinion, if you want to know whether a woman loves a man or not, the so-called "details see true love", in fact, you can find some clues from the process of getting along with the two of you, especially the following things can tell you the answer. After all, for women, marriage is not a child's play, every woman will be responsible for her marriage, will find a man who suits herself. Women want to accompany you to old age, treat you as a "husband", and are willing to give you these things, men must know how to cherish when they meet!
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The first thing: his privacy;
I believe that everyone has heard such a sentence, just so-called, distance produces beauty, to know that whether it is marriage or love, men and women need to get along with each other, are in need of a little space for each other, if female friends fall in love with a male friend, the male friend moved the heart, want to be with male friends, but they always desperately want to control each other.
Every day all the time want to know the dynamics of male friends, even meticulous to want to know where the other party is, what exactly is being done, and who is with whom, then I believe that it will not be long before male friends will immediately feel bored, because this will make male friends feel as if they are bound, feel that they have no freedom to speak of, and there is no half of their own personal space, not only that, female friends themselves will feel very tired, and will lose their freedom and space.
In fact, to tell the truth, if this male friend really wants to change his heart, really wants to betray himself, and do things that are sorry for himself, then no matter how strictly female friends look at them, no matter how female friends firmly grasp male friends around themselves, they can be directly eliminated, male friends will not still seize all opportunities to steal food, to betray women, to do something sad in the blind spot that women can't see, to do something sorry for themselves.
Just like Liu Jialing said in an interview, in fact, the relationship between husband and wife is like flying a kite. You can't love someone too much. Instead, you should put the line in your hand like a kite and let him fly.
Therefore, female friends should know that if you want to let male friends think about themselves, hold their stomachs, and even leave their own most sensible and correct approach, it is not to deliberately tie male friends to their own side all the time, nor to let male friends stay by their side all the time, so that male friends have no personal privacy, no personal space.
On the contrary, female friends should know how to give male friends free space, but also know how to respect male friends, but also know how to respect the privacy and space of male friends, so that male friends can experience their gentleness and thoughtfulness and empathy, then male friends will take the initiative to approach female friends, of course, distance produces beauty, not to female friends deliberately from male friends very far away, nor to give male friends too much freedom, too much to let male friends go.
Even never care about male friends, never greet male friends, but know how to control the love between each other at an appropriate distance, will not let male friends be too indulgent, will not let male friends breathless, and will not let male friends get bored with themselves, always thinking of leaving female friends as soon as possible.
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His face
We all know that men are born with a love of face, especially whenever the two of you go out, male friends hope that the other half of them can make themselves long face, can make themselves feel face in front of their brothers, so that male friends will always be willing to take female friends out, and will also like to take female friends to socialize.
If female friends always do not care about their appearance, always never trim their edges, and even their usual behavior is not decent enough, then over time, male friends will feel frowning in their eyes, not only do they dislike women more and more, but they will silently stay away from women, and even no longer willing to take women out to socialize.
In fact, female friends should know that if you want to maintain the face of a male friend, it does not mean that your appearance needs to be outstanding, how good you need to look, and it does not mean that you must be omnipotent, female friends only need to know how to choose clothes that suit you, learn to draw a little light makeup, and then dress up generously and decently, and then it is best to learn to cultivate your emotional intelligence, know how to get along with male friends' brothers or colleagues and friends, and know how to maintain the face of male friends outside. Leave a certain status for male friends, then male friends will be proud of female friends.
But if female friends usually do not save face for male friends, especially when going out, female friends always like to put the contradictions or disputes between the two of you on the table, always like to be in front of the public, the so-called public places to say bad things about their other partners, do not leave any face for men, always like to complain about the shortcomings of men in front of men's brothers and friends, or men's relatives and family, then male friends will not only feel that they are very faceless, In the long run, I can't help but get tired of my female friends and disgusted with my female friends.
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His dignity
Some people say that in the process of interpersonal communication, the most taboo thing for female friends is to compare their own men with other men, such as some similar words such as you are not as good as so-and-so, so-and-so is much stronger than you, etc. Often like this behavior will make male friends feel that their self-esteem is frustrated, and they will also feel that they have lost face, they have no face at all, and even feel that women do not respect themselves, and they have no dignity.
In my opinion, gold is not perfect, no one is perfect, each of us will have shortcomings and shortcomings, of course, there will be strengths and advantages, both men and women are the same, since women fall in love with men, and choose men, and even willing to be with men, then prove that women like men, but also appreciate men's advantages and strengths, then more to tolerate the shortcomings and shortcomings of men, after all, really love a person, is to love his good and bad.
However, once a woman does not love men, there is no man in her heart, she often feels that men are inferior to others everywhere, whether it is the man's own financial ability, or the development of his own career, or his own family background, compared with others, it is not worth mentioning, in the eyes of women is useless, ask which male friend can accept such an insult?
In the final analysis, only women who really love men deeply will give men dignity, and women who do not love men, or women who do not love men enough, not only will not give men dignity, but also will often step on men's dignity under their feet, then men will naturally no longer cherish women, and eventually the two of you will definitely fall apart, men will definitely say break up or goodbye to your women, don't be serious!
"This moment, love" has a sentence that I like very much: In fact, it is very simple to find true love, you close your eyes, the first person you think of is your true love.
All in all, in the relationship, whether a female friend likes herself or not, whether she is sincere or not, in fact, male friends can be judged by the behavior and behavior of the two of you who have just interacted, and when the male friends really identify the clues, wait until the male friends recognize the real clue, they must know how to look at the timing and grasp the conclusive evidence that the female friends do not really like you.
Then male friends can directly have a showdown with female friends, end the feelings with female friends as soon as possible, and break the relationship with female friends in time, thereby reducing the harm of female friends to themselves and reducing the loss of male friends themselves. Of course, you are very clear in your hearts that the motivation of female friends to initially contact close to male friends will determine the development direction of the relationship between the two of you, and will also affect the trend of love development between you.
In the end, you and I both know that the so-called "love is the eye that sees everything, because women love men deeply, they will care so much about men, remember men's appearance with their hearts, pay attention to men's words and deeds, every move, and they will be willing to give men the above things, and even all the details of men will be firmly remembered by women, even if the mouth does not say it, but the heart knows.
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