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Fast-paced life, everyone's life has been pressed the fast-forward button, wrapped by the giant wheel of the times to continue to move forward, it is difficult to stop. Slow life became a time-desecration activity, and people tried to use as much fragmented time as possible, but finally they suffered from hollow heart disease, and they lived in exhaustion and futile.
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With the rapid development of the Network, the realization of remote work, but also led to the momentum of the part-time industry, many young people are busy doing a second job, perhaps because of hobbies, perhaps because of money, they are collectively referred to as slash youth.
Qi si is also one of them, her job is product sales, but because she loved to read books since she was a child, she occasionally wrote some articles to contribute to magazines. She loves this kind of life, has her own job to support herself, and uses her side job to please her body and mind. In order to better enrich himself, Qi Si also lived a fast-paced life, always feeling that there was not enough time.
Every day she began to race against time from the moment she opened her eyes, used her mobile phone to play the news briefing when washing, went out and trotted into the crowd of people, squeezed into the crowded subway, and then used this time to brush videos and watch the news on the mobile phone, conducted a brainstorming, obtained a lot of information, the head felt like it was about to explode, and it produced an illusion of "ingesting a lot of knowledge", which was actually ineffective learning.
When the human brain receives an excess of disorderly information, it is too late to fully digest it in a short period of time, and it will often become junk information, which will produce psychological maladaptation, seriously interfere with the ability to judge, and cause physiological or pathological changes, which is what modern medicine calls "information pollution syndrome". Just as overeating can cause gastrointestinal indigestion, the brain overload will also cause "downtime".
Qi Si seemed to have been busy for a day, but his brain was blank. The terrible thing is that she has become accustomed to this "fast food culture", afraid that once she stops, she will not be able to keep up with the pace of the times, and there is no common topic with her peers, and she has a strong sense of anxiety about the times.
She was sent on a business trip, busy with the day's work, several colleagues decided to go to the nearby attractions to play together, asked her if she was traveling, she thought she could use this time to go back to the hotel to do a lot of things, she politely declined.
In the hotel brush short video, all kinds of information into the brain, unconsciously passed a few hours, colleagues have returned, with great interest to discuss the wonders of attractions and beautiful scenery along the way, Qi Si listened to a blank face, afraid that he did not know anything will have a gap with colleagues, quickly used his mobile phone to search out the pictures of the scenic spot to see.
They all see the same scenery, but they are two completely different states of mind, and some landscapes can only feel its shock and its quiet beauty if you are immersed in the scene. Qisi's understanding of the scenery was superficial, she did not know whether she was tired of climbing the mountain, nor did she know whether the air was good there, and whether there would be altitude sickness standing at the top of the mountain.
Later, due to the increasing frizz and vacuous content of her articles, she was repeatedly rejected, which made her more manic and restless. The editor talked to her once, and Qi Si said, "I'm so tired, I feel like I've paid a lot, and I don't get any rewards." ”
The editor told her, "You are just tired, there are too many things in your heart, and you are not willing to put it down, maybe you can try to slow down the pace of life and walk away, you will find that life is full of wonderful things." ”
The level of the editor's speech is very high, which is not something that can be done overnight, and it needs to be deposited and baptized over the years, far from the height and depth that can be achieved in a short period of time to supplement the basic masterpieces.
Rushing to make quick gains is often counterproductive.
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The "fast food culture" is eating up the minds of today's young people. This terrible social phenomenon makes today's young people blindly pursue breadth without paying attention to depth.
People no longer spend a lot of time studying a famous book on their own, feeling the warnings and enlightenment brought by the story, only reading other people's interpretations, simply understanding the story, listening to other people's opinions, and feeling that they have the whole picture.
People no longer spend a lot of time watching a movie or a TV series, they choose to chase the drama at double speed, or simply go to see "a few minutes to take you to see xx dramas", judge the quality of the script according to the plot of other people's editing and splicing, take other people's views as their own views, and become a take-it-all.
People don't want to spend a lot of time humbly learning skills, just want to take shortcuts through some crash courses, thinking that they have taken the through train to the end and found that they only know a little bit about the skin.
People are not even willing to spend time eating well, takeaway, self-hi pot, instant noodles, occupy the list of frequent purchases in mobile phones, thinking that saving more time, but at the cost of physical health.
This is what has been popular lately to say:
Short video platforms are popular because the content is short and concise, and users can watch a large number of things in a short period of time through a few seconds or minutes of video.
It will also label you according to preferences, push what you like, and block out what you dislike. In the long run, you live in the world it has imagined for you, thinking that it is real.
You begin to become lazy, no longer thinking, no longer curious, just passively accept the indoctrination of thoughts, what others say and believe, and the outlook on life and the world will be completely changed.
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The fast pace of life makes people more and more impatient, so is the relationship, and so is the attitude towards marriage.
What a few minutes to make friends, shake a shake of the people nearby, a variety of dating software abounds, let people find candidates in the shortest possible time, and then the survival of the fittest, there is a sense of randomness in the market to pick onions.
After a few days of knowing each other, the relationship was determined, and the name was "try to communicate and see, it is not appropriate to break up again", the cost of love has become almost nothing, there is no need to maintain, there is no need to walk the heart, there is no need to run in, as long as the other party has a little bit of dissatisfaction, it will immediately throw away, and the head will not return.
Survived the hot love period, or couples who are in the hot love period, many choose flash marriage, some premarital problems have not yet had time to be exposed, and the contradictions after marriage have made a mess of life, two people who also choose to have fun in time and are not willing to face the problem, the only way out is divorce.
At present, divorce seems to have become a trend, waving goodbye without a word, and then life is wonderful.
Suddenly I remembered an old saying, "Young people now, if something is broken, they just want to throw it away, and they won't take it to repair it." At that time, our clothes were torn and sewn and mended for three years, and the electrical appliances at home were broken and repaired, and a black-and-white TV was stunned to watch for ten years. ”
The concept of the older generation is completely different from that of modern people, and perhaps this is also the secret of their long-term marriage.
In this age when there is no shortage of materials, cherishing something has become a luxury, and running a relationship has become a painful thing.
Feelings are different from things, it needs to be managed, and it needs both sides to understand and understand each other, and they can quarrel impulsively, but they must reflect on the problem and reconcile with each other when they calm down.
"No matter how beautiful the marriage, there are 100 times want to divorce and 50 times want to strangle each other's impulses", there is no quarrel in marriage, it is like a giant ship on the sea, there may be any problems at any time, two people work together to repair it, you can help each other in the same boat. If the two go their separate ways, the ship will become in tatters and will not escape the fate of sinking to the bottom of the sea.
"Fast Food Love" can't unlock the true love code.
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Everything is fast.
Only by experiencing the vicissitudes of life can we truly grow, and what we do slowly and seriously is meaningful. Those books that have been carefully read, newspapers that have been read, and songs that have been heard will be carved into the bones and become nourishment, and if you always come and go in a hurry, then nothing will leave a trace on you.