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"Heart Residence" is another big drama after "The World of Man". It tells a series of stories triggered by the heroine Feng Xiaoqin because she wants to buy a house.
The heroine, Feng Xiaoqin, is a housewife who takes care of the children and the elderly in the family. Husband Gu Lei looks more honest, but the habit is not to argue, for him, as long as he can live, good or bad are arbitrary.
Gu Lei also has an older sister, Gu Qingyu, who is a company executive, typical of Shanghai Bai Fumei.
After Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei got married, they have been living in her mother-in-law's house and serving the family. Her son Little Tiger is in the first grade, and Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house and move out to live with her own family.
My husband is just a small clerk, and the job is still found by my sister. If you want to buy a house in Shanghai, it is simply impossible to rely on Gu Lei's salary.
At this time, Feng Xiaoqin hoped that Gu Lei could borrow money from his sister Gu Qingyu.
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Gu Qingyu's birthday is approaching, and the family prepares a birthday party for her. Feng Xiaoqin hoped that Gu Lei could borrow money from Gu Qingyu at the birthday party.
Write a note to Gu Lei in advance, let Gu Lei memorize it, and borrow money according to what is written on the paper.
Here Gu Qingyu celebrated his birthday, but he also prepared gifts for everyone.
At the dinner table, when Gu Lei said that when he borrowed money to buy a house, Gu Qingyu refused, saying that he was also ready to buy a house, so he could not borrow.
His son Xiaohu saw a brand-name school bag on the Internet and said to Feng Xiaoqin that he wanted to buy a school bag. Feng Xiaoqin coaxed him back into the room.
The Gu family held a small meeting of their own, Gu Father, Gu Lei and Gu Qingyu. Gu Qingyu said that if Gu Lei wanted to buy a house, he would definitely borrow it. If Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy it, it won't work.
When Gu Qingyu left, Feng Xiaoqin sent a scarf she knitted herself and bought a 10 yuan brand-name logo to sew it up.
Gu Qingyu brought it back, turned his head and gave it to his nanny.
When the gap between rich and poor with your relatives is too large, when you still think about calculating others, and you can't afford to buy really expensive gifts, you should show sincerity.
Feng Xiaoqin also wanted to help her sister borrow money to buy a house, send a gift and engage in this kind of fake trick, which made people look very disliked.
There are many people, who want to ask others, and they are not willing to bow their heads slightly, and feel that they have no face. Since you feel that you have no face, don't open your mouth.
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The second time Gu Qingyu returned to his parents' house, he gave him the brand-name school bag he bought for his nephew Xiaohu. The little tiger was happy.
Just say that what his mother bought is fake, he doesn't want it.
Feng Xiaoqin also bought a school bag for her son, which is the same operation as a scarf, and bought a brand-name logo to sew on it.
Watching Gu Lei's sister come in and out are all famous brands, and the brands bought back for children are also famous brands. I can't afford it myself, and I don't want to tell my son.
If you have to use this kind of thing to deceive children, when the child is young, it may not matter. Slowly I grew up and learned what was true and what was false.
Or their own children don't know, take it to school, the school will certainly have someone to know. Isn't that a frustrating child's self-esteem?
And Gu Qingyu's seemingly very careful gift to the child is actually to distance herself from Feng Xiaoqin.
Gu Qingyu knew that his brother Gu Lei and his father did not care about these things, only Feng Xiaoqin. The more expensive the things she bought, the more Feng Xiaoqin understood the gap with herself.
But Feng Xiaoqin did not understand this truth, but instead asked Gu Lei to go to Gu Qingyu for help in everything. Gu Lei's job is like this, borrowing money to buy a house is like this, even Feng Xiaoqin's sister Xi Qian is like this.
I also hope that not only can I find a job for Sissi, but also find a boyfriend better.
Feng Xiaoqin didn't understand that Gu Qingyu didn't owe himself, so why should he help himself. Gu Qingyu is Gu Lei's sister, and it is normal to help Gu Lei, but if you want to help Xi Qian, you can't say it.
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With Gu Qingyu's status and wealth, some help can be said to be very easy to help.
But Feng Xiaoqin couldn't understand that she herself had married Gu Lei with a purpose. Understand that people can see it at a glance.
Gu Lei's conditions were not good, including Feng Xiaoqin herself, who also scolded Gu Lei for not being motivated and not responsible.
But why Feng Xiaoqin married Gu Lei is not because Gu Lei has a Shanghai hukou. It is not important to have a purpose, what is important is not to be as utilitarian after marriage. Live well.
Gu Qingyu has been working hard in the workplace for so long, what everyone looks like, in fact, you can see it at a glance. It didn't matter if you didn't look up to Feng Xiaoqin. The important thing is that Feng Xiaoqin must carry it clearly.
Feng Xiaoqin, who can't figure it out, can only make others look down on him even more.
It is very important to put yourself in the right position, such a family, do not marry into it know that they can not be manipulated, since they can not be manipulated, but also choose to marry, then it is better to keep a low profile.
Why make yourself so annoying to others. And then nothing was gained. My own life is not happy, and my family is not happy.
Yu Ruo said
This is the second article of the public account in 2022. I didn't like to watch life dramas before, and I was afraid that I would live like in the play.
Seeing that many people on the Internet say that this drama is good, they will come to see it. It simply took my breath away. You can also go and see it when you have time.