Chasing girls first of all, we must correct the mentality, the feeling of this thing itself is very emotional, the pursuit of a person is often a high probability is not able to be together! So boldly try it, anyway, do not suffer losses! You can also gain experience.
To understand that there are no scumbags in the world, but there are more people who know how to sum up the experience of failure, there are scumbags. We don't do scumbags. But we can't fall silly in one place every time. To sum up the experience, to avoid the next time you encounter this pit. Instead of saying that if you like a person, you have to rush your brain. How fiercely you chase, how tragic you may die!
The following to share with you some chat methods of chasing girls, if you want to chase after her like, you have to chat like this.
1. Do a good job in time management
Sometimes you don't reply to a girl when you chat, it's not that she's not interested in you, it's really possible that your time is wrong!
Many boys always like to chat with each other on weekends or when they are out of work, thinking that it will be more convenient for each other during this time period.
In fact, not necessarily, during the rush hour, girls may be crowding the subway bus, mobile phones in the bag, can not take care of it at all. Most likely, many people are more suitable for chatting when they are at work.
Normal office workers, in fact, the working hours are not very saturated, when the company is idle, there is not a lot of interference. You can't blatantly watch a love series, no kittens and puppies suddenly come over to make trouble, and you don't have to do hygiene. Therefore, if you talk to each other at this time, from the perspective of psychological state, it will be relatively easy to talk.
Of course, this is not absolutely ha, because some people's work is indeed very busy. Therefore, it is necessary to find out the work, life and study rules of the other party as much as possible.
The time before going to bed is actually more appropriate, this time the girl is busy with trivia, and the mood is relatively calm. It is more suitable for chatting.
All in all, try to chat when the other person has time, has a lot of time, and there is nothing messy to distract her during this time.
2. Learn more
Some boys may chat with their favorite opposite sex, often racking their brains and can't think of a topic. It was hard to come up with one, and I only said two sentences, and I didn't know what to say next.
Then, often distressed to come to us and ask: What topics can we talk about when pursuing?
According to my observation, boys who ask such questions tend to have very little knowledge and very limited life experience.
Talking about movies? Haven't seen a few films;
Talking about travel? Haven't been to a few places;
Talking about literature? Haven't read a few books;
Talking about skincare? Usually only wipe the water;
Chatting about food? What my mom does I eat;
What's interesting to talk about lately? Eat and sleep with pesticides.
What did you see on the way to work? Slept all the way...
Boys, if you want to have words in your mouth, first of all, you must have something in your head, if you want to have something in your head, you have to increase your life experience as much as possible! Even if you can't increase your life experience, then brush up on my show head office, right? There are still a lot of chat topics above. Brush less vibrato every day, play less games, read more questions and answers, and accumulate over time, you will be able to say a few words.
3, confident men are the most attractive
All success comes from a dream and unfounded confidence, and if you want to pursue her, you have to believe that you will be able to match her. You're not begging her to give you a chance, you're giving her a chance.
The goddess you think is actually like you, an ordinary person, who also has to eat and sleep, go to work and make money.
Since she is just an ordinary person, why are you so nervous? Why is he so inferior in front of her?
If you are very different, or even not in the same circle, it is difficult to intersect in real life.
If you come up and think of her as a god, and then only promise, carefully, say hello you have to ponder, in hi, hello, early, in the middle of the tangled half a day, then how do you talk about wow this day... So, be confident, don't think about what to think, don't hesitate, and send it directly after typing. Big deal to receive a red exclamation point!