Since there is one more baby in the family, the older generation will tirelessly tell the new mother that at night with the baby less out, the baby's eyes are bright, you can see what adults can't see, don't scare the baby. Even, if the baby often cries at night, the elderly at home or around will ask: Is it taking the baby out at night and being scared?
In fact, according to them, it is "yin" at night, there may be some "unclean" things, easy to scare the baby, the best way is to let the baby go out at night.
Seriously, this kind of lazy mother has heard from a young age, especially when my family's big treasure was just born, I was disgusted by it.
In fact, it is understandable, like in the countryside before, there will often be "ghost" fires at night, and at night, even if you know it, it will feel very scary, not to mention that children see it. But now this phenomenon is rare, and the lights are everywhere in the city, so I don't feel much afraid.
Some time ago, the weather here warmed up, more than twenty degrees every day, and the sun came out every day, which was very comfortable. At night, when I have time, I will also take my children to the supermarket, because I have to work during the day, I have to go to school, only at night I have time to take my children out to shop, we like to go to the supermarket because it is close, it takes four or five minutes to walk, and in the supermarket, children can also learn a lot of things, such as singular or even number, the price of each commodity, the role, etc.
Probably because of the "thaw", in addition to the five- or six-year-old children in the supermarket, there are many babies who are several months old, and it seems that everyone is quite good at using time.
But the lazy mother also feels that although in the city, and there are also bright spots everywhere, it is better for too small babies to go out less at night, and it is also good to take the baby to bathe and sleep at home, not for the reason just mentioned, but for other reasons.
When you go out at night, your baby is easily excited, which affects sleep and development.
Now the standard of living is indeed high, three more in the middle of the night on the street is also red and green, walking on the street, the clerks in the store are warmly greeting, some shops also play loud music, lively very, absolutely do not have to worry about loneliness and loneliness.
As a friend of the lazy mother said, it is only 11 o'clock, and the nightlife has just begun!
However, the baby is not an adult, sleeps more than adults, and sleeps earlier than adults at night.
Every time we take the baby to the physical examination, the doctor will recommend that it is best to let the baby go to bed at 8 to 9 o'clock at night, not more than 10 o'clock at night at the latest, the baby sleeps well and the baby develops well, especially the height.
Because this period of time from 10 pm to about 2 am is the peak period of growth hormone secretion, if the baby is in a state of deep sleep, it is very conducive to the secretion of growth hormone and can help the baby's physical development.
And babies under one year old, the daily sleep time should be 14 to 15 hours, sleeping too late at night can easily lead to insufficient sleep time every day.
If the baby goes out at night, even if he returns home at 9 o'clock, then the family washes up, goes to sleep, and when the baby is really asleep, he doesn't know what time it is.
And seeing the street so lively, the baby is also easy to be very excited, after returning home, it is not easy to fall asleep, the baby is too energetic, may wake up in the middle of the night and cry, seriously affecting sleep.
At that time, not to mention the secretion of growth hormone, even the sleep time is seriously insufficient, affecting the baby's physical development.
Take the baby out at night, the baby is easy to be frightened
When we go shopping at night, it is not difficult to find that all kinds of publicity on the street, all kinds of singing and dancing on the stage, cars on the road are constantly flowing, and from time to time there are two horns, and some small vendors are shouting with small horns: big price reduction, big price reduction, don't miss it when you walk by...
Some babies are less courageous, these sounds or some lights when illuminated, or suddenly dimmed lights and unfamiliar environments, the baby may be frightened. Frightened babies often cry, sleep unsteadily, and have little guts, but now they are smaller.
In this way, the mother will be particularly hard to bring up, because the baby is insecure, and the mother needs to be around all the time, whether the mother is eating and sleeping or going to the toilet, as long as the mother leaves the line of sight or cannot hear the mother's voice, the baby will panic, and even the father cannot replace it.
Especially babies who are still breastfeeding, as long as they wake up, they must eat milk, whether they are hungry or not.
Take your baby out at night and your baby is prone to illness
The temperature at night is generally lower than that of the day, the temperature difference between day and night is large, if you wear inappropriate clothes when you go out at night, the baby is prone to cold, if you accidentally catch a cold, it will drag on for many days, which is not conducive to the growth of the baby.
Like us, the day before yesterday the weather suddenly changed, more than twenty degrees in the morning, more than ten degrees in the afternoon, the evening is colder, it is really summer in the morning, winter in the evening, adults feel bad, let alone small babies.
The risk factor for going out at night increases
I used to hear people say such a sentence: If the sky is blue and white, you dare to come out and do bad things! Does that mean that the night is more wanton?
Whatever the reason, after all, it is night, some places are dimly lit, it is easy to see the road clearly. And there are many people at night, some parents also like to look at the mobile phone while taking the baby, it is more likely to happen some bad things.
Since it is unpredictable, it is better to avoid it as much as possible.
So at night or try to take the baby out as little as possible, want to take the baby out to play, a lot of time during the day, go out during the day can also let the baby bask in the sun, increase some natural vitamin D it. And during the day, more friends play together, and when closing the door, they can also communicate in various baby languages, do various sports together, and promote the development of the body.
If the father or mother wants to go out to play, you can put the baby at home, let the family take it, and go early and return early.
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