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Can you believe it? Everything in the world is actually doomed in the dark, and what kind of things you will experience and what kind of people you will meet have been arranged.
Some things will still happen to you even if you change nodes, and some people will arrange for you to meet at a certain opportunity even if they miss this time.
Many people after experiencing some love pain will not be able to help but think, if you did not meet at the beginning, maybe you met on a bus, maybe you go out 5 minutes late will be a different ending, of course, the fate between people is very wonderful, may be another time you will not meet at that time, but the fate that has been doomed is also impossible to escape, this time miss the next time will meet.
The Buddha said: 500 times of looking back in a past life will be exchanged for a passing shoulder in this life. What kind of person you will meet in this life has already been arranged for you in the past life, and you can only obey Providence and accept the arrangement of fate.
Some roads still have to be walked by yourself after all, no one can replace you, sometimes the front is destined to be a south wall, you also need to personally bump into it. It is difficult for others to persuade you, and if you do not experience it yourself, you will not look back.
Many truths we only understand at a certain stage, but in that moment, with our knowledge and experience, it is difficult to distinguish clearly, even if you have another chance, you will still make the same choice as you did.
The encounter between people is not accidental, but the debt owed in the past life, only to be repaid in this life, don't believe in the arrangement of fate, those people you should meet, it is difficult to escape around, those love disasters that you should experience, no matter how careful you are, it is still difficult to escape.
Some people say, "If you don't owe each other, how can you meet"? In fact, we have all come to pay off our debts in this life, and the love affair you have experienced in the past life has not been broken, so we have arranged for you to meet and renew the old relationship in this life.
The lingering love story of Bai Suzhen and Xu Xian is familiar to everyone. In order to repay Xu Xian's life-saving grace, Bai Suzhen came to the West Lake to find her benefactor, so she opened a touching love affair.
Maybe we don't have such a thrilling bridge in our real life, but the encounters between people are because of the love affair.
We will never know at which intersection we will meet that person, nor will we know how long two people can walk, we just bury our heads and keep moving forward, no purpose, no arranged script, can only live with our hearts, and be at ease with the encounter.
Some people come into your life to warm you and love you, and some people come to collect debts from you. We always meet all kinds of people and experience all kinds of things. Whether those people are good or bad for you, they are all things you deserve, even if they bully you and hurt you, you can't avoid it.
Those who come to warm you may have formed good relations in the past life, and those who have come to hurt you may have owed them in the past life, so in this life you will arrange for you to meet and let you pay off the debts of the previous life.
We can't just accept the positive conditions in life and avoid those wrong fates. Whether it is a good or bad fate, you will return it to you every penny when you meet.
All encounters in the world are a form of repayment. All the hurt in your life is because you have owed them. After understanding this, you will not be obsessed with some wrong experiences.
Think about it carefully, along the way, everyone has experienced hurt, but at the same time to hurt others, no one can say frankly that they have never failed. In the face of people we don't like, we have also resolutely rejected them, and we have also unscrupulously fought for their own good, and made some unacceptable behaviors.
When we hurt others, we have never moved compassion, only caring about our own feelings, and never thinking about others. In fact, our every move is invisibly determining our blessings, your kindness to others will be recorded in your destiny book, and there will always be someone to return to you in the future, warming you with their actual actions.
The same harm you have done to others will also be recorded, and eventually someone will treat you the way you treat others, and the hurt you have done to others will be returned to you.
You know, there really will be retribution in life, and the same is true in love. How you have scum others, there will be someone who will treat you in the same way in the future, and even worse.
On the road of love, there is never a survivor, do not hold a fluke mentality, wantonly trample on the self-esteem of others, to hurt those who love you.
They just like you, they're just expressing their love for you in their own way, they don't owe you, even if you don't like it, don't hurt it.
In the vast sea of people, it is already a great honor to meet. Whether it is a positive fate or a bad fate, we have no way to avoid it, we can only follow our own hearts to experience and embrace.
Even if you don't like a person, be generous and tell the other person not to casually entertain other people's emotions. Thank you to those who are good to you, after all, they are not obliged to be good to you in the first place. And in the face of those who hurt you, you must also be calm, you are paying off your debts.
Pain is a normal phenomenon, and after paying off the debt, you must say goodbye to the past once and for all and devote yourself to your new life.
Calmly accept all encounters, calmly accept the final ending, let the past go with the wind, love and hate at will, and settle down with the encounter.