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As the saying goes: "There is a reason to meet thousands of miles, and there is no reason to meet each other." ”
In the TV series "The Legend of the New White Lady", the White Lady and Xu Xian met at the Broken Bridge, and since then they have been sad and happy, interpreting the true love story of the world.
After watching the TV series and watching the "White Lady Yongzhen Leifeng Pagoda" written by the Ming Dynasty writer Feng Menglong, you will understand that fate is beautiful, but it still conforms to the law of "fate sometimes must be there, and fate is not forced at any time".
Love also has cause and effect, if you do not cherish desperately, do not try to change on the road of love, it is still impossible to achieve.
There is a way that the love of this life is a debt of the past life. If the debt is paid off, it will be split in two shots. The two people who can never give up for a lifetime are old debts that have not been repaid, and new debts have been added.
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The person you meet by chance and catch it is an inevitable fate.
During the Shaoxing period of the Southern Song Dynasty, Lin'an Province in Hangzhou was very lively.
The young man Xu Xuan, whose parents died, borrowed to live in the home of his brother-in-law Li Ren and worked as a supervisor in the pharmacy shop of his cousin Li Jiangshi's family.
One day, Xu Xuan went to Baoshu Pagoda Temple alone. On the way back, the sky suddenly began to rain heavily, and in the dilemma, I met Zhang Agong, who was rocking the boat. As soon as he slipped a cigarette, he got on board. Before I could sit down, I heard the white lady shouting, "Take the boat." ”
After disembarking, Xu Xian borrowed an umbrella from an acquaintance's medicine shop. The White Lady took the umbrella away and agreed to announce it and return it tomorrow. The fate begins.
I like the saying, "You and I are in two different cities, and our hearts are tied to you." If it rains, you can't send you an umbrella, and you can't be by your side when you need it most..."
Tagore once said: "The eyes are raining for her, but the heart is carrying an umbrella for her, this is love." ”
A small umbrella can accommodate one person, and it can also accommodate two people. If everyone is close enough, they can still accommodate a family.
Fate is like a very thin line thrown down by the old man of the moon, connecting two people from different places. If you go with the flow, then fate will escalate, from meeting each other, from knowing each other to loving each other.
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People with different frequencies, who fall in love with each other, are hurting each other.
In order to be grateful for the umbrella, the White Lady took out some silver to give to Xu Xuan.
Xu Xuan gave the silver to his brother-in-law. The brother-in-law looked at the words at the bottom of the silver, his face was like the color of earth, and said, "This is exactly the silver in Shao Tai's library." After saying that, he dragged Xu Xuan to Lin'an Province to see the officials. Immediately afterward, Xu Xuan was assigned to Suzhou to borrow the Wang family under the Jili Bridge and make a living by helping to open a shop.
It turned out that the White Lady cast a spell and took away Ku Yin, which tired Xu Xuan.
The poem says: "I am a sincere man in my life, who expected to meet a charming woman." ”
A young man who is not familiar with the world and is serious, and a young woman who is scheming. Although they are in love, the three views are not compatible, the way of life is different, so they are destined to be separated.
There will be many people on the road of life, and there are several people who love each other, but there is only one person who can really start a family. Even if you have been married several times, the pillow person is still one.
Tu Lei, an emotional expert, said: "Love depends on the five senses, and marriage depends on three views." ”
Two people with three incompatible views together are like a twisted melon. Under the eaves, the heart is in the sky.
So, those who are destined to leave, let it go. If the fate continues, then there will be goodbye in the next day; if it is broken, it will be a hundred, and each of them will be fine.
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Those who miss day and night, unbroken, still want to be reunited.
The poem says: "Throw away the flesh and bones to come to the sudi, and the thinker will cut off his intestines." ”
When Xu Xuan missed his hometown, the White Lady was thinking about love. Therefore, after many inquiries, the White Lady came to Suzhou and sent her to see Xu Xuan.
Bai Niangzi explained: "At the beginning, I heard that you had seen the official, and I was very scared, so I hid in my mother's house. Now, when I come to see you by boat, I must still be married. ”
A lot of feelings are like this, lost, but can still be found. Because fate has never been broken. It's like the principle of "breaking the thread".
Parents are worried about their children, so they know the city where their children are, whether it is raining, what is happening, and always remind them.
Because I am in love with someone, I let go of my favorite city and go to the city where the other person is located to make a home. Because I have a home, I like a city; because I have him, I like everything around him.
Cross the ocean to see you. Such a thing, if it happens in your life, must be fate. You don't push back the person who came to see you; when you go to see someone, you have to confess.
Thoughts are long and can be "all over the world". The road is long, but it can't stop your lover's footsteps.
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People with empathy, the relationship has been broken, but also to watch out for each other.
In order to live a better life, the White Lady repeated her tricks and took clothes, silver, and so on from the storeroom of the government. When Xu Xuan went out wearing new clothes, he was discovered by Ya Gong and was sent to Zhenjiang.
There is a way, but there are only three things.
After two bitter heads, Xu Xuan no longer believed in Bai Niangzi's words. Two people who were originally in love have an emotional rift.
Finally, Fahai stored the White Lady in a bowl and placed it in front of the Leifeng Temple. Xu Xuan remembered his old feelings, changed his fortune everywhere, and built a seven-story pagoda to shield the White Lady from the wind and rain; in front of the tower, he shaved and became a monk.
"Reincarnation is reincarnated, and life is transformed and regenerated; to know that color is still colorless, it is necessary to know that it is invisible but tangible." Take it as a warning, take it as a courtesy.
Passionately in love, miserable apart. This is a fate that no one can say, but we can't hide from it. The world is big, but fate is like a tight street, once you walk in, you can only rub shoulders with "that person".
There is a word called "empathy." That is to say, no matter what happens in the moment and what happens, if you understand it from the perspective of the other party, you can feel "love" and let go of hatred.
Therefore, many people who have no luck pass through our lives, but they do not forget them in their lives. When we are old, we can still have faint memories, and there seems to be some reluctance.
There is a person in the heart, wordless and warm. Such feelings are actually another kind of "getting along" in addition to starting a family. It's bitter, but there's nothing you can do about it.
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Host Dong Qing said: "Everything in the world is encountered, just like cold meets warmth, with rain; spring meets winter, there are years; heaven meets earth, there is eternity; people meet people, there is life." ”
Looking back hard, I saw the person I liked; I cherished it desperately, and I held the hand of my lover. This is the love we are looking forward to, but the reality is very cruel, after all, it is not up to you alone.
A drink and a peck, can not be predetermined.
Gather and scatter, don't force it.
May you and I, when we meet a man with a white head and grow old, choose a city to grow old.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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