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The eldest sister Gu Qingyu was scolded very badly.
She is an executive of a foreign company, a successful career, economically independent, and often looks like a high-ranking person.
For her sister-in-law Feng Xiaoqin, she is kind on the surface and full of contempt in her heart.
On her birthday, Feng Xiaoqin gave her a scarf she had knitted by hand out of courtesy, but Gu Qingyu gave it to her family's hourly workers in the blink of an eye.
Every time she went home, she never helped Feng Xiaoqin with housework, sitting on the sofa either chatting or playing with her mobile phone.
As soon as there was something going on in the house, she would summon her family to another room to discuss, and there was no sign of Feng Xiaoqin in this room.
These things, which look small, are punching Feng Xiaoqin's face everywhere, and they also make Feng Xiaoqin feel not like a family at all.
This is also the reason why Feng Xiaoqin racked her brains to buy a house, because she had always had a feeling of sending people under the fence when she married into the Gu family.
This woman with a heart higher than the sky can't stand everyone's contempt for her.
Feng Xiaoqin forced Gu Lei to borrow money, partly because she worked as a "nanny" in the Gu family for 8 years, without merit and hard work, and it was right for her eldest sister and father-in-law to lend her money.
Feng Xiaoqin took her own dedication to the family and wanted to exchange the trust of the Gu family for her, which disappointed her.
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In fact, most of the reasons why Gu Qingyu was scolded were because she mixed with the life of her sister-in-law's family.
In this matter, in fact, Gu Qingyu was also forced.
Younger brother Gu Lei has no opinion, does not seek progress, daughter-in-law Feng Xiaoqin is a strong woman, he can't help Feng Xiaoqin, Gu Lei likes to let his sister find a way to get ideas.
Under the moral kidnapping of his brother, Gu Qingyu had to help his brother come up with ideas from his work.
Buying a house is not Gu Lei's idea, this is Gu Qingyu's understanding of his brother.
The reason why Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house is not for her children to go to school, Gu Qingyu is willing to take out her own house to let her nephew go to school, so she wants to dispel Feng Xiaoqin's idea of buying a house, but it does not work.
A big part of the reason Why Feng Xiaoqin wants to buy a house is that she wants to really establish herself in Shanghai, own her own house, and take her parents and brother to her home.
Gu Qingyu had already thought of this.
Feng Xiaoqin's sister has long lived in the Gu family for a long time, if Feng Xiaoqin bought a house, the family has been taken over to live in such a small house, Gu Lei's life will definitely be difficult.
Besides, Gu Qingyu is very aware of his brother's personality, he married Feng Xiaoqin, a shrewd daughter-in-law, because he had a house in Shanghai, if Feng Xiaoqin bought a house, then their marriage could continue to be stable?
Gu Qingyu had also taken this into account long ago.
Another point is that Gu Qingyu has selfish intentions.
If Feng Xiaoqin can take care of them when she lives at home, once she moves out, then her father and grandmother will be wronged in life, and even seeing her grandchildren every day has become a luxury.
These factors add up to the reason why Gu Qingyu has to go to great lengths to prevent Feng Xiaoqin from buying a house.
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After Gu Lei's death, Feng Xiaoqin dismissed the idea of buying a house, because she could no longer count on anyone in the Gu family.
With only thirty thousand yuan in her hand, she didn't even have enough to live, so why buy a house.
Even if Gu Lei dies, the "struggle" between Feng Xiaoqin and her eldest sister Gu Qingyu still exists.
Feng Xiaoqin's mind, the father-in-law cares very much, because he likes his grandson, he is worried that Feng Xiaoqin will take his grandson to marry Gao Fei, so that it will be difficult for him to see his grandson again.
Therefore, he asked his daughter Gu Qingyu to come to her Feng Xiaoqin to negotiate.
Gu Qingyu didn't want to worry about this matter in her heart, even if Feng Xiaoqin remarried, people were also free, and she couldn't manage it.
But her father's pleading made her have to reluctantly do it.
Just like her brother Gu Lei begged her at that time, the requests of relatives were always difficult to refuse.
Therefore, Gu Qingyu, as the eldest sister, was scolded by everyone very badly, in addition to his own reasons, there were also Feng Xiaoqin's reasons, and the most important thing was the reason for his brother and father.
Feng Xiaoqin's thoughts, Gu Qingyu's heart is very clear, her father and brother's thoughts are also clear, she repeatedly intervened in the family's affairs, is nothing more than the "persecution" of two relatives.
As a company executive, she is very busy at work, and she is still single, has a lot of things to do in her spare time, and does not want to meddle in the affairs of the family.
However, under the pressure of her family and her mother's advice before her death, she had to let herself intervene.
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Feng Xiaoqin's death was due to Feng Xiaoqin, but Gu Qingyu absolutely could not escape the interference.
Gu Qingyu is smart and self-motivated, she is the leader in the eyes of her family, and she is also a talent in the company, she can do everything in her work, but she is slightly underheated in the family.
Family and work are not the same, work is about principles, but in the family to talk about emotions.
Although in the Gu family's household chores, Gu Qingyu analyzed the Tao in everything, and even sober in the world, in the end these household chores still wanted her brother's life.
So Gu Qingyu was scolded very badly, and even her father complained a little about her.
From the very beginning, the shrewd Gu Qingyu's calculation of Feng Xiaoqin was not done by her own efforts, there were reasons for Feng Xiaoqin's calculation of the Gu family, there were also the dependence of her father and brother on her, of course, she also had her own reasons.
This was the joint effort of the four of them, but the pot left Gu Qingyu alone.
All in all, the Gu family's defense against Feng Xiaoqin is also her own fault, but the happiness of the family is not obtained in calculation, but in tolerance and understanding.
The most precious place in home is emotion, if the Gu family is full of respect and understanding for Feng Xiaoqin, I believe she will not force Gu Lei to buy a house, and there will be more happiness and less contradictions in the family.
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