"Love is a strong yearning to be with each other. It is that you want the days to come with it, and the hand of the son and the son will grow old."
This sentence is very correct for Gu Wei, because when he met Lin Zhixue, he began to look forward to love and marriage, and wanted to live a plain life with the person he loved.
In the original work of "The Rest of Your Life Please Give More Advice", it is in the form of a diary, like a spring breeze, slightly blowing, there is no stormy boom, and there is no pleasure of lightning and thunder, just faintly, and then let people fall into a very delicate sweet pet little by little, every time you think about it, the corners of your mouth will rise.
It is said that love should be like a rough sea, and it is the majesty of the wave that beats the reef, but when the passion recedes, perhaps the lovers in the storm run away from each other.
The truly beautiful thing is never a momentary heartbeat, but to be nourished little by little in the warmth of the long stream of fine water.
Only in this way can it be long-lasting, this is the appearance of beautiful love, so you can't see the earth-shattering love picture you want in "Please Advise More" for the rest of your life, and some are the trivial little things in life.
This may be the reason why the drama was first broadcast, and it was considered by some people to be flat and without waves.
Without the appearance of Lin Zhixue, Gu Wei would have lost his teacher he feared because of that medical accident, and then he would have been forever afraid of the operating table, retiring from the youngest associate professor of gastroenterology and moving to other subjects.
If there is no Lin School, Gu Wei and Gao Hun will maintain the purest colleague relationship, and then under the arrangement of the family, they may eventually become a pair of couples created in the eyes of outsiders, but it is only from the perspective of outsiders, because there is no Lin School, Gu Wei's love may only be two words of love itself, and the rest do not know, so who to marry is the same.
However, Lin Zhixue appeared, because of her, Gu Wei overcame the psychological fear and began to walk on the operating table again, he did the work he liked, and used his ability to alleviate the pain for more lives.
In his life, in addition to work, there is also a subtle emotion, he has the person he misses, wants to listen to songs with her, talks to her about the trivialities of life, and wants to do some boring things with her.
There are always some habits, because a person changes, this person is the love you want, for Gu Wei, the person who makes him change his habits is Lin Zhixue, a junior student, learning cello, but in the orchestra is only a small transparent, arranged to beat the triangle iron substitute role.
Gao Huan is a backbone elite, her father is still the vice president of the hospital, she does not understand, why is she superior everywhere, will lose to a Cinderella?
It is said that peers are jealous, let alone women. Therefore, when this student sister who is nothing in Gao Hun's eyes actually became an obstacle on her love road, she was no longer calm, and she was originally gentle and generous, jealous, and began to target Lin Zhixue everywhere, and also hid needles in the cotton, trying to win back "true love" from it.
Use the seminar to prevent Gu Wei from attending the concert of Lin Zhi School
Becoming a cellist is lin's ideal, and even when she encounters strong opposition from her father, she insists on it resolutely.
In order to pursue her musical dreams, even if the orchestra was arranged to strike the triangle iron, she did not give up. Later, under Gu Wei's arrangement, she followed the condolence orchestra and performed everywhere, and with the practical experience of performing, she was selected as a cellist by the orchestra.
This performance, for Lin Zhixue, is very precious. This means that she can now step onto the stage of cello performance. Therefore, she was particularly excited to ask the orchestra for a few tickets, for her parents, and for Dr. Gu, who had been encouraging her.
It happened that Gao Huan came to check the house, and Lin Zhixue also invited her. Next, Gao Huan's approach contained jealousy.
She knew that Lin Zhixue had a good relationship with Gu Wei, so she tentatively asked if she wanted to invite Gu Wei, and when she learned that there was a ticket for preparation, she pretended to help him.
After that, when she came to Gu Wei's office, she played a careful thought, she first told Gu Wei that there was a very high-end seminar, asked Gu Wei if he had time to go, after learning that he was free, and also agreed to go together, she took out the ticket for Lin Zhi's school concert to Gu Wei, in her previous cognition, Gu Wei was a trustworthy person, since he agreed to her request, he would certainly not break the appointment.
The second meaning, she transferred the ticket on behalf of the ticket, if Gu Wei liked Lin Zhi's school, seeing that the other party did not give the ticket by hand, it seemed to lose sincerity, and sure enough, Gu Wei did have some small loss.
Gao Huan's calculation, originally thought that killing two birds with one stone, not only could gu Wei go to the seminar together, but also let Gu Wei "die", Lin Zhixue's important concert, actually did not personally invite him, just called people to pass it on, it can be seen that Lin Zhi's proofreading did not care much about Gu Wei, and wanted to dispel Gu Wei's thinking.
However, she seems to have miscalculated. After that, Gu Wei not only sandwiched the tickets for the concert in his daily must-read books, but also set up a memorandum. If it weren't for her "test", Gu Wei might not have felt that he was so concerned about going to watch Lin Zhixue's performance.
Or that she is already in the dark, attracted by a force, and will unconsciously participate in things related to her. Sometimes being properly "alienated" is the one who can find out what they care about.
There is no distinction between public and private, and the postoperative care of Lin Zhixue's father is cold
Lin Jianguo was discharged from the hospital, and Gu Wei originally had unprecedented assistance. However, in order not to let Gu Wei have too much contact with Lin Zhixue, Gao Huan asked Gu Wei to do chemotherapy for a patient on his behalf.
He came to hand over the discharge of Lin Jianguo. Originally, she was also a very caring person, which can be seen from her love for the ball.
At this time, she regarded Lin Zhixue as a "love enemy", so she showed a very cold attitude towards Lin Father's postoperative care, and also used some very obscure hospital words to deliberately make it difficult for Lin Zhixue.
When Lin Zhixue showed incomprehension and wanted to ask questions, her face was cold, resulting in poor care in the later stage, and a series of symptoms of maladaptation such as anorexia appeared after Lin Father.
Hu Shi once said: "The most disgusting thing in the world is like an angry face, and it is worse to show an angry face to people than to scold."
For the sake of personal love, Gao Huan did not distinguish between public and private, and put on a cold face to Lin Zhixue. However, in doing so, she undoubtedly pushed Lin Zhixue towards Gu Wei.
When Father Lin had some problems, Lin Zhixue directly asked Gu Wei for help through information, and in the process of exchanging information with each other, the two had begun to change from the relationship between doctors and patients' families to friends, and the small spark of love slowly sprouted.
Otherwise, why should Gu Wei explain that when he was tearing down the stitches for Lin Zhi's school, he and Gao Huan were former classmates, now colleagues, and can only be colleagues in the future, and there is no such thing as a girlfriend and ex-girlfriend.
Only if you care about a person, you will be afraid that the other party will misunderstand you.
The poet Gu Cheng said: The wind is bearing its leaves, the grass is bearing its seeds, and it is very beautiful for us to stand and not speak.
For Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue, maybe they just talked about how to take care of Lin Jianguo, which is a very beautiful thing, he loves his patients, she loves her father, and guards the people she wants to protect each other.
Gao Huan's self-righteous indifference to Lin Zhixue was letting out a breath, in fact, it really pushed Lin Zhixue to Gu Wei. If she wasn't jealous, she also cared about Lin Jianguo like Gu Wei, and maybe she and Gu Wei would have one more topic of conversation.
Attempts to use Gu Wei's parents to interfere in his personal life
Gu Wei's parents are doctors, and Gu Wei and Gao Hun are classmates, and Gao Wei's father is still the vice president of the hospital, in the eyes of adults, this is definitely a family affair.
Perhaps, Gu Wei's parents have long designated Gao Huannei as their daughter-in-law, so Gao Huan has an absolute vote of support in front of his parents.
When she had dinner with Gu Wei's parents, she said that Gu Wei did not go to the seminar with her, and often did some "strange" things such as going to concerts, deliberately revealing gu Wei and Lin Zhi's school to his parents.
Through the interference of his parents, Gu Wei no longer interacted with Lin Zhi school, in her opinion, Lin Zhi School was just a student who had not yet graduated from the university, and was not worthy of Gu Wei at all.
Sure enough, after Gu Wei's father found out, he reprimanded him in a big rage.
Gao Huan may not know that under the strict guidance of his parents, Gu Wei was a doctoral student at a young age and became an associate professor, and under his obedient appearance, there is actually a rebellious "naughty child".
In his heart, he envied lin zhi school for being able to skip class by climbing over the wall, and he could make mistakes and be punished for running, he didn't want to be a good child in the eyes of everyone, a bully, and he also wanted to be willful and wanton.
However, the consistent family education made it impossible for him to be so arbitrary, so he met Lin Zhixiao, and the "wildness" in her body instantly activated his nerves for more than twenty years, and he liked this kind of unrestrained and free.
Once, he was indeed a well-behaved child, what kind of school he chose, what kind of major he studied could obey the wishes of his parents, but his own love, he could no longer listen to his parents' arrangements and choose Gao Huan.
His parents are doctors, and his busy life makes him feel the warm family emotions, because of the strict doctor's nature, getting along with his parents, has always been that he respectfully listens to his mother or father.
He saw that the Lin Zhi School family, father and daughter often quarreled, but they cared for each other, the mother took good care of her husband, tolerated and understood her daughter, this kind of warm affection was something he did not have, and he also longed to have such a family that could speak equally and care for each other.
And such a life, Gao Huan can't give him, only Lin Zhixue can bring him all the fantasies about home and love.
Gao Huan uses his parents to interfere in his personal life, exacerbating his antipathy, which will only alienate him more, and perhaps the resistance in his heart will be stimulated, and the more his parents want to do it, the more I don't want to.
Thomas Moore said: "A soul mate is a person with whom we feel deeply connected... Nothing is more precious in life.
Gu Wei's soul mate can only be Lin Zhixue, and she understands Gu Wei's persistence and original intention. Gao Huan's wasted calculations eventually pushed Gu Wei towards Lin Zhi School, don't you think?