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We often hear a saying: "There is no filial son before the bed of a long illness". This may seem like a heavy word, but it actually reveals the real emotions behind a social phenomenon. Long-term care for patients can be a huge test, both physically and mentally. Is there really no filial son before the bed of a long illness?
The following is shared by many netizens, let's take a look!
Not only for the inheritance, but also because this kind of old man often has a huge income when he is alive, and once the person is gone, the source of income is cut off. So even if it's to keep a cash cow, let him live.
In fact, the worst thing is not that the poor family "has no filial son in front of the bed for a long time", but that not only is the material poor, but the older generation has to find trouble, no love, and a sense of existence. If you haven't worked in a hospital, you may not have seen such a family, but you can turn on Shandong Satellite TV and see what those hosts went down to the township to mediate. There are too many, some people really don't become bad when they get old, they are bad from the beginning, and the unfortunate thing is that this kind of person starts tossing their children when they are old and sick.
I understand your mood too well, in order to take care of the elderly, the family takes turns to be hospitalized, and now the whole family is in the best health of the elderly! Pain and helplessness, sisters complain and quarrel with each other, no one is easy...
Those who say that they are unfilial have not experienced it firsthand. Why don't you put yourself in the shoes of your family?
Have you ever experienced it, think it is novel, and people who have experienced it will tell you: My mother said this when she was 30 years old, "Life is to be happy, eat and drink, and when you are old, drink a bottle of pesticide and leave, and you will be a hundred." So, she ran away from home when she was 32 years old, walked for more than 20 years, and has no news, and now our family is better, she has found it back, 55 years old, sick, afraid of death, tearful kneeling begging my uncle to intercede with her, want to remarry my father, want us to provide for her. Therefore, people who have not experienced it seem chic and novel when they say it with a big mouth, but it is not the case when it comes to that point.
That's why there is the proposition of "euthanasia". What is the point of being alive without quality of life?
Quite rightly, the illness of the poor is even worse
Really, it is especially difficult to take care of the elderly, especially the bedridden elderly.
The ancients summed up the truth basically
There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, in fact, it is not unfilial, but the person who takes care of it for a long time is very depressed, and then I think that maybe I will be relieved on the spot after I die.
That's right, protecting future generations is an instinct, and this instinct is widespread in the animal kingdom, not just humans. The word filial piety belongs to the category of morality and traditional ethics, it is really two concepts, where it involves morality and ethics, there is unlimited room for debate, here I just want to say, long live understanding, do not moral kidnapping.
I think another point is that I haven't seen any hope of getting better for this disease for too long. It can also be frustrating. If, despite being ill for a long time, it is getting better little by little, I believe that the person who cares for it will still be full of hope.
The sick are afraid of death, and the living are afraid of torture
Some elderly people are very stubborn, simply stubborn, and unable to communicate. If you are a child, you can coax it, and it will pass.
My greatest wish in this life is to sleep and die, so that I will not suffer sin, but also drag down my children, and I think this kind of death can only be obtained by having great merit in the previous life
You have never seen a real unfilial piety, and your uncles can take care of them all the time, which is already filial piety. If you really have to take care of it, you have to work hard, you have to raise your children, and you have to take care of the elderly, and you may not do better than them
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