"I'm not a big star, I'm a little princess"
The economic conditions of celebrities are better, and they can give their children a better life after they get married and have children. But when it comes to "rich" children, the first thing that many people think of may be Li Xiang.
Sugar Mom found that Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun not only became thinner after divorcing, but also in a very good state. As before, she rarely responds to outside questions, and as always, raises her daughter in her own way.
Wang Shiling ate the cake she made herself and raised her hand to show her "noblewoman" temperament for the first time
Recently, Li Xiang posted a new photo of Wang Shiling, with the text: "Eat your own cake", and added a naughty expression, looking like a good mood.
Compared with the previous image, Wang Shiling's appearance this time is much simpler to wear. The upper body is a pure gray dress, and there is no dazzling jewelry. Just obediently holding the cake and smiling at the camera.
The cake baked by the mother and daughter is not complete, presumably they seriously enjoy the process of making cakes, and they think of taking pictures until they eat halfway. However, judging from Wang Shiling's performance, he is still relatively satisfied with the cake work.
Wang Shiling wore her hair that day, and the simple "black long straight" did not do any styling. But I don't know if it is because of the long-term "rich", many netizens found that the 13-year-old has begun to show the "noblewoman" temperament.
Since participating in "Where Did Daddy Go", Wang Shiling has often appeared with her mother. The image over the years has indeed become more mature, so Li Xiang's parenting style has also been once ridiculed as a "big money".
However, as everyone learned more and more about Wang Shiling, their views also changed, and they envied and praised the mother and daughter.
Are "rich" children not excellent? After seeing Wang Shiling, there may be a change in the view
There used to be many people who felt that "rich support" would only raise children, thinking that Li Xiang was pitting children, and even said that she was consuming the "blessings" of children in advance.
But now, everyone is beginning to feel that if they really have the strength, there is nothing wrong with raising children like Li Xiang.
Turning over the comment area, Sugar Mom can obviously feel the great change in the style of painting. There are fewer and fewer voices of ridicule and doubt, and instead, many people are lamenting that it is really not easy to cultivate Wang Shiling to the current state.
Among them, the sentence that impressed sugar mother the most was "who said that rich children are not excellent". Yeah, what's wrong with making your child's life better? What is wrong is not the word "rich", but that many parents do not master the correct way.
If you know anything about Wang Shiling, you will know that she is a girl who "has a princess life, but no princess disease". Although she has enjoyed a better material life since she was a child, she is not at all stubborn, on the contrary, she has many advantages worth learning.
When she was a child, Wang Shiling may only be able to see the advantages of being more polite, but as she grew up, the "rich nourishment" that was once scorned by people did not raise her, but achieved a better Wang Shiling.
Who says "rich" kids aren't good? Li Xiang was actually not confused
Li Xiang once responded to the fact that she "enriched" her children, and she did not deny that Wang Shiling's daily expenses were large. She felt that the treasure she had exchanged for her life, why couldn't she give her the best?
Wang Shiling was indeed raised by the rich, but everyone ignored that Li Xiang did the following things in addition to giving his daughter a rich "material life".
1) Take Wang Shiling to "open your eyes"
What Li Xiang brought to her daughter was not only full of famous brands, but also a broader vision.
She will not only take Wang Shiling to see big-name exhibitions, but also take her daughter on trips to favorite cities and countries. And Wang Shiling is not to "show off wealth" and enjoyment, but to really "open the eyes".
The staff who have seen Wang Shiling said that Wang Shiling is a very normal child at the scene, very "grounded". Traveling around with her mother not only can see different scenery, but also stimulate Wang Shiling's inner motivation.
2) Support children's strengths and dreams
Wang Shiling not only has the talent to paint, but also is willing to study seriously. According to Li Xiang's recollection, Wang Shiling was a particularly patient child, and he would not go out to play without completing the task of painting.
With such a willing child, Li Xiang, as a mother, will definitely give her daughter great support in terms of economy and time, including learning English, piano and other specialties. How many families' children want to learn but have no conditions, in fact, Li Xiang is not wrong to do so.
3) No matter how rich you are, don't forget to "do it" yourself
Li Xiang has the conditions to ask the child for a nanny, but usually he will let Wang Shiling do many things by hand. Wang Shiling is often at home, doing some housework within her ability, and Li Xiang will not only take her to make desserts, but also let her make home-cooked dishes.
Although some families are "poor" in terms of conditions, they dot on the bottom line in spirit, and finally cultivate children who "stretch out their hands with clothes and open their mouths with food".
Therefore, from the above points of view, Li Xiang's cultivation of Wang Shiling looks very "hao", in fact, it is not as bad as everyone thinks, and Li Xiang is not a confused person.
Li Xiang was once known as "a sister", which is particularly strong in itself, and she must also hope that her daughter is excellent and capable. Her parenting style is ostensibly "throwing money", but in fact, it is easy to understand from another angle.
She is like ordinary parents who give everything they can to be good to their children, but her financial strength is there. What outsiders look like luxury is actually a very normal consumption in her heart.
Candy Mother's Heart:
In the final analysis, it is better to raise the poor and the rich than to let the children be educated, and the difference between the poor and the rich is not just a financial difference.
If the family is very rich, but deliberately do not spend money on the child in order to exercise, it is also the wrong way. In the same way, the conditions at home are not good, and the pursuit of "material life" is also very unfavorable to the growth of children.
【Today's topic】What do you think of Li Xiang's parenting style?