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On the issue of educating children, there has always been a dispute between "poor support" and "rich support".
Parents who insist on "poor support" believe that only when they let their children suffer enough, they will cherish their hard-won lives and recognize the reality that fate is in their own hands.
Parents who think that their children should be "rich" feel that only if the parents satisfy their children's curiosity, they will not be easily tempted when they grow up, especially for girls, if money can reduce their risk of being abducted in the future, then all the expenses at this stage are worth it.
Speaking of "rich nourishment", Li Xiang's educational attitude towards his daughter Wang Shiling in the entertainment industry is a classic example.
Although Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun divorced due to discord, they were very attentive and willing to cultivate their daughter Wang Shiling.
Since "Where Daddy Goes", Wang Shiling has gained a group of fans with her cute appearance, and since then, every step of the little girl's growth has been exposed to the public eye.
Because her mother Li Xiang has always taken the route of a noblewoman and a famous woman, her rich family situation also makes her very willing to invest in her daughter, and every time she takes her daughter to an event or appears in a video, Wang Shiling's expensive outfit will cause heated discussion.
12-year-old Wang Shiling and her mother watch the show, the mother and daughter are full of luxury, how cool is it to raise children richly?
Not long ago, Li Xiang shared a group of photos of himself taking his daughter to the show on social platforms.
12-year-old Wang Shiling is almost the same height as her mother, who wears sunglasses and a low-key black coat, looking very expensive.
Although the dress is very low-key, it is not difficult to see that Wang Shiling, who is still an adult, is already a big brand, from clothes to bags are luxury goods.
Li Xiang's "rich support" for his daughter has indeed shown obvious advantages, compared with children of the same age, Wang Shiling is very good in both aesthetics and temperament due to his wide knowledge.
In addition to providing excellent material conditions for his daughter, Li Xiang also attaches great importance to the cultivation of her daughter's interest.
Influenced by her grandfather, Wang Shiling was interested in painting at a very young age, and she often posted her paintings on social platforms.
In addition to painting, Li Xiang also let the girls learn piano, dance, golf, etc., trying to exchange high-quality educational resources for their daughter's all-round development.
From this point of view, Li Xiang's "rich support" for his daughter is reflected in many aspects, not just food, clothing, housing and travel.
Unlike many people's imagination, Wang Shiling does not have the cynicism and non-self-improvement of some of the second generation of stars, on the contrary, she has won a good audience with her own excellence and hard work, which can also be regarded as a satisfactory answer to her mother's education method.
On the issue of children's education, "poor support" and "rich support" do not necessarily have to become opposites.
Parents who are materially rich in their children will not indulge in the cultivation of children's behavior habits, and parents who raise children poorly in life will not really let their children lack food and clothing, they pay more attention to cultivating children's spiritual wealth.
In family education, how can parents really "enrich" their children?
1. When economic conditions permit, appropriately meet the needs of the child's life.
As children grow older, they will gradually yearn for a good material life, such as wanting to wear brand-name clothes, wanting to go to high-end restaurants, as parents, in the case of economic conditions, we can properly meet the needs of children.
The reason for this is not only to satisfy the child's curiosity and vanity, but also to avoid the child's inferiority complex caused by loss, when the parents are properly satisfied with the child, they will not have an obsession with a thing.
2. Pay more attention to children's spiritual prosperity than eating, drinking, living and traveling.
The real rich children are not to let them wear famous brands and ride luxury cars, but to support children's dreams, respect children's interests and hobbies, and let them achieve spiritual prosperity through learning.
When a child loves to read and understands how to work hard to achieve his dreams, then even if the material life is average, his heart is rich and happy.
3. Don't complain to your child about your hardships.
Many parents are willing to give the best to their children, but at the same time they are accustomed to complaining to their children about their hardships and trying to make their children remember this kindness.
In fact, this is not a real kind of wealth, parents' complaints will bring a lot of psychological pressure to their children, so that they are uneasy about the current stage of life, and eventually become inferior and sensitive.
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