Text/Yu Mingren
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law since ancient times are not shallow, there is a strong mother-in-law, mother must be careful!
The generation gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is placed in the present, which may make many mothers unable to accept, after all, it is their own baby, they all hope that the baby can grow up under the scientific upbringing, and many of the views of the elderly are not based, and the harm to the baby is not a star and a half.
The baby is still young or indispensable to the careful care of the family, but the impact of some improper behavior is also very large, the mother's manager is an example, if your mother-in-law is like this, you should really pay more attention.
Qianya (pseudonym) is a post-90s mother, when the baby was 3 months old, Qianya went to work and gave the baby to the elderly at home.
Qianya's purpose is also to go to work to help her husband share some family pressure, but it keeps the baby out of the matter, and the baby lives with his grandmother but suffers a lot of losses.
Qianya also instructed the mother-in-law how to breastfeed before going to work, but the mother-in-law did not seem to take the daughter-in-law's words seriously, the amount of breastfeeding a day was too much, the baby cried and fed, every time she drank milk did not calculate the time, the baby cried and adjusted the milk to the baby to drink.
In this way, it is the baby who is affected, and the baby finds that the baby is not right when she is 5 months old, always vomiting, and people are listless. Later, when I went to the hospital for examination, the results made Qianya unable to calm down, and the baby had a lack of oxygen in the brain.
Later, a full body examination was done and it was found that the baby had severe flatulence and was caused by excessive milk drinking.
Baby milk is actually required, especially milk powder feeding baby, if not in strict accordance with the amount of feeding, the baby caused by the British is also very large, excessive feeding may cause the baby brain hypoxia, more likely to appear gastrointestinal diseases, the baby's development is not conducive to affecting the baby's spleen and stomach, follow-up baby may appear to accumulate food.
In the face of such a mother-in-law, I believe that many mothers have met, but the mother-in-law is an elder, and it is not said that it is not said that it is not, and the way grandma raises a baby still needs to be improved.
In fact, then again, adults must all hope that the baby is good, and the elderly may also worry that the baby will not have enough to eat and always cry, and will frequently feed the baby.
In life, the baby's crying also implies many reasons, which may be because of eczema, bowel movements, too hot and other factors, and crying is not necessarily due to hunger, especially after drinking milk.
Breastfeeding would rather eat less and more meals, rather than overfeed, eating less and more meals may be more troublesome, but it can play a protective role in the baby's stomach.
Of course, the amount of diet of babies at different stages is also different, and some babies can also eat slightly, and they should also be fed strictly according to the time, and can be maintained for 2-3 hours in the case of a single satisfaction.
If you meet such a mother-in-law, how will you communicate with your mother-in-law, if your mother-in-law has improper behavior, how should you let the baby correct, come to the comment area to share it!